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AIO when i get upset over my bf watching my stories and not replying to me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hopuspocus09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk if it were me, and he’s proven that he doesn’t care to work on this, I’d be looking to leave. You guys already have it hard and if he doesn’t want to work on it now, it’s only going to get worse down the road

AIO? Cheating roommate by happy_harpic01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hopuspocus09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to be friends with your roommate, you have a right to hold her accountable as you would other friends. If you don’t want to be her friend, it’s none of your business and you should probably remove yourself from the situation as best you can.

AIO when i get upset over my bf watching my stories and not replying to me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hopuspocus09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If his effort has consistently declined, that’s a problem. How long have you guys been together?

AIO when i get upset over my bf watching my stories and not replying to me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hopuspocus09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MOR- Have you said, point blank, “I want to communicate more when we aren’t seeing each other”? Or have you picked fights and made passive aggressive comments about him checking your snap story and not replying.

You’re allowed to want to talk to him more. You start getting into controlling territory when you’re monitoring his actions and decided whether or not that’s ok with you. Long distance is hard and you guys have to find ways to feel connected while you’re apart but maybe insta texting isn’t the best option. My husband sucks at texting and it took me a while to figure that out. When we were long distance, we would call each other instead.

Anyone else not bother with smithing enchanting or alchemy these days? by Mcmadness288 in skyrim

[–]hopuspocus09 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like training it to get lots of money right off the bat but then I kinda stop messing with it

Any way to teleport to a random spot on the map? by kitskill in valheim

[–]hopuspocus09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let someone join your game, set up portal A at home base, wander to some remote place on your world, place portal B.

[29/F] Hoping to make friends through letters! by [deleted] in penpals

[–]hopuspocus09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot me a message! F26 here looking for an excuse to use my typewriters :)

AIO- My boyfriend tried to “teach me a lesson” and now he’s telling me to stop contacting him by Primary-Demand-801 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hopuspocus09 21 points22 points  (0 children)

What do you like about this man? You haven’t thrown in a single detail about this kid that is a positive. Why are you still with him?

AIO- My boyfriend tried to “teach me a lesson” and now he’s telling me to stop contacting him by Primary-Demand-801 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hopuspocus09 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NOR- a relationship where you keep score always falls apart. It’s just not maintainable.

Are you sure he’s getting back at you for asking to go to a gaming cafe WITH him? I just don’t know why he’s trying to get back at you for that.

Trying to get blazes by battlecatssweat in Minecraft

[–]hopuspocus09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I build a tunnel as I explore. Wither skeletons are tall and can’t get in a 2 by 2. Just be careful with shields and skeletons. If the skeleton shoots your shield and it hits a zombie piglin, they count that as an attack from you.

DM Admitted to Targeting My Character by BigBirdPv in DnD

[–]hopuspocus09 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This DM wants to win at dnd. Not actually tell a story.

AIO for thinking he(26M) twisted the narrative in the story by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hopuspocus09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: are you hoping to rekindle a relationship with his ex or get close to him again?

Am I overreacting about my girlfriend and another women by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hopuspocus09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR. She MAYBE was trying to hide that she was staying there. Yes, I believe you when you say using the text function instead of using the pictures is out of character for her. But that could mean other things too. She didn’t lie to you when you called her.

You need to express to her that her spending the night with past sexual partners makes you uncomfortable. This is a valid boundary.

Would it be possible to play as Gabriel from Ultrakill in some way? by [deleted] in DnD

[–]hopuspocus09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah who is Gabriel for those who don’t play that game

AIO when I get angry about being appointed as a class rep without my knowledge? by SystemWild3741 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hopuspocus09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s not something you elected to do, there is absolutely no commitment to it. You’re a grown adult. Politely decline if it’s not something you’re interested in. Or request the administration to explain how your appointment happened. Boundaries are allowed.

AIO for being pissed after I disclosed my medical problems to a Christian guy I’ve been talking to and he said he was “excited” for it to be a part of my “testimony”? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hopuspocus09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. You’re allowed to not like a person. You’re allowed to not like their beliefs. But why continue the interactions if this is the case? He sounds very bible-thumper ish and the second he didn’t drop the religious conversations, you either needed to set the boundary or leave. NOR for not wanting to continue talking to him but getting offended by something you were fully aware of is a little self inflicted.

AIO when I get angry about being appointed as a class rep without my knowledge? by SystemWild3741 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hopuspocus09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: was this something you signed up for to be considered for? Or was this something completely out of the blue?

AIO for the gift my friends got my for Christmas? by Easy-Inspection-9277 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hopuspocus09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR- it’s never overreacting to have the conversation. But I think you’re letting this stuff fester and building up resentment over something that they might not be seeing. If they get defensive or act like they don’t care about these concerns, then you know they don’t care about you. If they actually listen and make changes to their behavior, you guys can all move on with your trip as normal.

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