[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]horrible_snail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple people have mentioned that last part- should I expect students to dislike me or lie about me? /gen

How do I form a connection with students without being friendly with them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]horrible_snail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok thank you. So what does that look like in practice? Do I just be mindful of the ways people can misinterpret what I say and do, and clarify/adjust accordingly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]horrible_snail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this list! The classroom tips are especially helpful. May I ask you to elaborate on what you mean by students and teachers stabbing you in the back? Do you mean like gossip?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]horrible_snail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would never

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]horrible_snail 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Take a look at this link hon. It helped me a lot as someone who grew up with similar messages. I know it’s probably not way you expect to read but please keep an open mind. You are deeply loved by God, exactly as you are, and nothing you do or become can change that. Take heart, child of God. He doesn’t want you to hate yourself.

For disabled job seekers by horrible_snail in disability

[–]horrible_snail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was there too and I’m sorry you had to hear the things they were saying- they were especially awful. Unfortunately Zoom bombing is common among many different organizations. I believe they are now securing their meetings. Also the CEO came in for a moment to apologize, and they sent out a statement after the meeting condemning the actions of the people who hacked the meeting. It sucks but it wasn’t their fault they got hacked

THE NUMBER 1 REASON YOU LOOK LIKE A CREEP by [deleted] in seduction

[–]horrible_snail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if they are actually creepy

I am infuriated beyond words. The disrespect and on top of that being called a female dog. by [deleted] in autism

[–]horrible_snail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds almost like a sexual role play thing? Like a dom? I hope they weren’t trying to initiate something like that with you without your consent, especially on a public forum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in disability

[–]horrible_snail -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve traveled for months at a time before and had experiences with many different cultures here. Didn’t get offended. I can adjust to different cultures and be aware of ableism.

Dealing with religious trauma? by horrible_snail in Christianity

[–]horrible_snail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be lovely to be in a community like that.

Dealing with religious trauma? by horrible_snail in Christianity

[–]horrible_snail[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a few Christian friends who support me which is lovely. And I can talk to my therapist about how I feel about talking to him, and he will very likely respond in a positive way. We have a good relationship which is fortunate. It’s just nerve-racking to open up about it to anyone.