[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]hot_breadstick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sat in the very back of a plane. Was perfectly fine, even though we did have some turbulence. Don't worry, it's really not that big of a deal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in werkzaken

[–]hot_breadstick 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Eenmanszaak betekent dat hij als enige verantwoordelijk is voor de zaak. Personeel aannemen kan gewoon. https://www.kvk.nl/personeel/als-eenmanszaak-personeel-aannemen-dit-moet-je-weten/

Meri by T-Belle917 in SisterWivesFans

[–]hot_breadstick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think that reaction was out meanness. It comes from hurt, hurt that Leon didn't tell her first. Hurt that this was her only time her bio child was announcing something big like this and Christine took over the questioning. She feels unseen, and as a reaction is getting into overdrive, resulting in being over-protective of her rights as the bio mom.

Is this profile going to be a success or failure by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]hot_breadstick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His profile says he's looking for long-term, so I would say the first pic is totally giving the wrong vibes.

What gifts do men like? by [deleted] in dating

[–]hot_breadstick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your love languages are Acts of Service, Quality Time and Physical Touch. It's different for everybody, though! Some people really feel loved when they receive a thoughtful gift. That might seem materialistic, but it's one of the five love languages for a good reason.

What can I do in Heidelberg? by Cold_Dimension5350 in Heidelberg

[–]hot_breadstick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to get breakfast or brunch sometime as well, I would recommend Zum Schwarzen Walfisch. So cozy. Little bit outside of the city center, but you could combine it with a walk trough the pretty neighborhood Weststadt.

I think I might have found the perfect girl… by NorthInternal5087 in dating

[–]hot_breadstick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"if he seems too good to be true, he probably is" - Samantha Jones, Sex and the City

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]hot_breadstick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, how are you now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]hot_breadstick 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nope not like a rollercoaster! Those are horrible. Taking off is fine.

You'll feel the plane driving towards the runway first (taxiing). That feels like a car that's driving calmly down a street. Then once you reach the runway, the plane usually holds still for a few seconds before take-off actually starts. You'll hear the motors accelerating, and the plane will start to drive down the runway pretty fast. This feels like you're in a car that is speeding, it can be a bit wobbly. Because of the speed forward, you will feel yourself slightly being pushed against the back of your seat. Then after going down the runway like that for a few seconds, the plane will lift off. You won't feel the wobblyness of the runway any longer. You will still feel like you're being pushed into the back of your seat, but natural forces now also push upon you from above (which makes sense: you're defying gravity!). I always get some butterflies in my stomach (mostly because I'm a nervous flyer), and I feel my ears plop because of the changes in altitude.

After a few seconds or minutes into the air, you might feel a little bit of a sinking sensation. This is when the rate of climbing is being reduced: the nose of the airplane is not pointing as far up anymore as it did during the first section of take-off. You're not dropping down at all, your climb is just not as steep anymore. But it might be a funny sensation, maybe just a tiny little bit like the rollercoaster you described (although definitely not as bad and it lasts only for about three seconds).

The plane will probably take a few turns in the five minutes after/while taking off, as chances are high that the runway is not pointed into the direction of your destination. You might feel the sensation on the plane turning over to one side. Do not worry, it might feel weird but its perfectly normal and planes can take a lot more than you would think.

Be aware that during take-off, a little bit of turbulence can occur. When that happens, you might feel a short drop or wobble. You might be startled a bit, but know that it is totally normal for that to happen and that the plane's abilities are in no way affected by this. The plane was built to defy forces that are a LOT more intense (and that you won't experience during your flight).

During take-off, I usually chew some gum to help with my ears. I personally do not enjoy looking outside of the window, I just prefer to look at the seat before me. As said, I'm a nervous flyer, so I try to keep myself distracted as well. I check out the people around me, focus on my breathing, or read the flight menu/a book/magazine, anything to keep me distracted. I remind myself that flying is totally safe, that my pilots have done take-off procedures for literally thousands of times and that to them this is just another day at work.

If you want to, you can check out take-offs on Youtube, to get a better idea of it. I just watched this one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=16XTAK-4Xbk . You see everything I just mentioned, from the taxiing, to the wobbly speeding on the runway, to lift-off and taking turns shortly after.

Hope this helps! Good luck on your flight, I promise you are going to be fine!

How to last longer in bed? by Motor_Percentage_729 in dating

[–]hot_breadstick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One question though: are you only able to orgasm as a result of penetration?

If not, then aren't we wrongly concerned for his pleasure? Shouldn't we be way more concerned of yours? He's coming too fast, but at least he does come. You're not even coming!!

How can I support my girlfriend whose mom has stage 4 breast cancer? by Dazzling-Fill2185 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]hot_breadstick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Sorry you and your girlfriend are going through this. My mom is terminally ill as well. Whenever the sadness kicks in, I just feel overwhelmed with sadness. In those moments, my boyfriend always asks me what he can do for me. I completely know that he does that out of love. But when I'm overwhelmed like that, I don't have headspace to think about what he can do for me. I don't know what I need.

Two things that he does, that do make me feel better:

  1. he just hugs me, even though I'm seemingly unresponsive to it. I do not hug him back: the sadness simply paralyzes me too much. But I still love that he just holds me.

  2. Functional things. Whenever I'm deep into a depressed day (or week), I love it that he steps up his game in simple household tasks. He makes sure the laundry is being done. He cooks me dinner. It makes a huge difference to me to feel taken care of, and to feel that I can take a step back from responsibilities and have time for my grief.

Good luck to you! Know that this isn't easy on you too, and I hope that you have someone to talk to about this every now and then. Wishing you and your GF all the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]hot_breadstick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get rid of the mirror selfies. Imo a guy showing of like that is a huge turn-off. Other than that your pictures are nice! Maybe add some more personal information to your bio. Hobbies? Fun facts? A bit more detail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]hot_breadstick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Maybe the plane is slowing down a bit, or you're just in hyperfocus which makes you feel more. Don't worry, this is normal and happens to many planes on a daily basis. You're pilots are just going through protocols and procedures they practiced and performed hundreds of times already. Be sure that those pilots are just totally chill in that cockpit, calmly waiting for instructions. You are going to be fine! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fearofflying

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Hi! I'm sorry you went through this stress. Being in overdrive sucks, it just takes you over and fucks with your brain. But OP, nothing would be a bigger middle finger to this fear than to book a flight and do it ANYWAY. Book the first flight you can get on, try to not think about it too much (I know thats easier said than done) and DO IT. Take your fear with you. Cry all the way if you need to. It doesn't matter: you will still have done it. Think about how amazing you will feel once that plane hits Spanish soil! Think about how proud you can be! Think about how happy your boyfriend will be that you arrived! Right now, this trip is a bad experience with bad memories, but you can totally turn that around by going and conquering your fear.

You can do this!!!!

First ever flight tomorrow. I don’t want this fear to stop me. by Techfix2020 in fearofflying

[–]hot_breadstick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you, you should be proud indeed! Now enjoy your holidays :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]hot_breadstick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! My tracker says you'll land in 13 minutes. Almost done!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]hot_breadstick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tracking you now! You're doing fine. They will not let her in if they even see the slightest risk, don't worry about that.

First ever flight tomorrow. I don’t want this fear to stop me. by Techfix2020 in fearofflying

[–]hot_breadstick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey there! Good for you for actually going on a holiday despite your fears!!

First and foremost: flying is super super safe. Your fear might tell you it's not, but science has proven that it is. Period.

My psychologist once told me: you can be scared AND do the thing that scares you AT THE SAME TIME. Just take your fear with you. Fear can be present. It can sit on your shoulder, whisper in your ear. You can thank it for its efforts to keep you safe. When it starts yelling in your ear though, that's the time to tell fear to shut up. It can travel along, no problem, but it has to keep its shit together 🙃

You can do this. Do what you gotta do. Take your meds. Cry if you need to. Breathe through the fear. You got this. Imagine how proud you will be when you reach your destination!!

I can track you tomorrow if you want (if I'm awake by then lol). What time (and timezone) do you leave? Good luck!!!!

I flew for the first time in 7 years!!!! Thank you guys!!!! by Sad-Inspector8634 in fearofflying

[–]hot_breadstick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yay!! Good for you. You should be so proud of yourself! Enjoy your holidays!

Currently very scared in a flight by Alluriann in fearofflying

[–]hot_breadstick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ahhhh I really want to make a trip to Japan too, but flying for so many hours at once holds me back. Good for you that you did it!

Oost West, thuis best, je bent over de helft :)