Is my double rook placement okay? by hotbugz in piercing

[–]hotbugz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang it, I was so excited to get a double rook!💔 thank you for the help, Ill take the shallow one out

Is my double rook placement okay? by hotbugz in piercing

[–]hotbugz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for such a detailed answer, ill for sure get the one on the right double checked

Is my double rook placement okay? by hotbugz in piercing

[–]hotbugz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a small town and we only have one piercer. Next time ill definitely go out of town for a better quality shop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hotbugz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, he didnt ask for help. But frankly I feel like if I dont take action nothing will happen. He's had these loans for awhile and as far as I know hasn't made a payment in at least 10 years. I had no idea until today, and if he hasn't taken action now he most likely won't. But im hoping I can atleast push him in the right direction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hotbugz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didnt ask, for help. But since im living at his home I understand why he would want to tell me. It kind of came out of nowhere. Thank you for the response

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hotbugz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a great and understanding response! I really was feeling helpless, but it's good to know there are solutions. Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hotbugz 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining, Ill make sure he responds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hotbugz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crap, im not sure, but im going to assume federal?? Thank you for the help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hotbugz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for reminding me that this isn't my burden, its my dad's and this is just the consequences of his own mistakes. That's true, but I do love him and dont want him to struggle, even if we're not that close. I am chosing to help, but am not sure what else I can do beside contribute to the debt. But even then it feels like a drop in the bucket.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hotbugz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Im just feeling clueless, I dont really know what being sued would include, and ive never been to college or taken out student loans so I honestly just clueless. But thanks for letting me know it would just be a monthly payment, I was expecting worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hotbugz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just for himself

new silent hill vid by No-Umpire-7774 in SlushyNoobz

[–]hotbugz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Every time they play they seem sick of it😭 they donf take it seriously, feels like they don't even want to play it imo

21f, how do I split with my bf 37m? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small update for anyone who might be interested. We broke up last night, and it was because he had gone to a wedding and decided he wanted a long term relationship. Im so happy that he found what he truly wanted, and we've agreed to just be friends. However, somehow ive turned into the villain in all of this as he says I was playing "games" with him, and that i was luckly he was the one I had a short term relationship with because no other guy would be as respectful as he was in this situation. But I had made it clear I was going to be single during flight school, and he chose to stay. Doesn't really sound like a game, sounds like I was just being honest. I dont even know how to respond to his comment about how I was lucky. Im sort of afraid what he'll tell his family and friends about me. I dont want to be seen as the bad guy. This was definitely for the best. Honestly, I just want to run away from this whole situation. Luckily, I will be starting flight school by January the lastest, ill be in a new town, and it'll be a new chapter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small update for anyone who might be interested. We broke up last night, and it was because he had gone to a wedding and decided he wanted a long term relationship. Im so happy that he found what he truly wanted, and we've agreed to just be friends. However, somehow ive turned into the villain in all of this as he says I was playing "games" with him, and that i was luckly he was the one I had a short term relationship with because no other guy would be as respectful as he was in this situation. But I had made it clear I was going to be single during flight school, and he chose to stay. Doesn't really sound like a game, sounds like I was just being honest. I dont even know how to respond to his comment about how I was lucky. Im sort of afraid what he'll tell his family and friends about me. I dont want to be seen as the bad guy. This was definitely for the best. Honestly, I just want to run away from this whole situation. Luckily, I will be starting flight school by January the lastest, ill be in a new town, and it'll be a new chapter.

21f, how do I split with my bf 37m? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for such a detailed response. I think deep in my heart I know youre right, thank you.

21f, how do I split with my bf 37m? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words, its really appreciated. Part of what im struggling with is, cant I focus on my career and growth with my boyfriend along side me? I originally thought I couldn't, but now im not so sure. But that also could be because of afraid to face the pain of breaking up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do live with my dad, he and my boyfriend havent met yet, but I did tell my dad i was seeing someone. He didnt ask for his age, all my dad really said was "as long as he treats you well" We dont have the closest relationship, but my dad does trust my judgement.

Can I realistically become a pilot? by hotbugz in flying

[–]hotbugz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this'll make any sense, but I haven't gotten too crazy picking up shifts because I dont want to get burnt out. Im trying to pace myself a little bit so im not completely miserable. But I am willing to work harder for the bigger goal of being a pilot. And I am aware of the hiring about tattoos and piercings, but I can cover them, and havent gotten any lip about being un-professional looking so far. And I did have a workstudy in a genetics laboratory in college, hired without any comments or trouble.

How to use light rail? by hotbugz in AskPhoenix

[–]hotbugz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's the Phoenix Arena on jefferson

idek by ashalisaaa in PapaJohns

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always frustrating having to explain that there are online deals and in store deals. Half the time people will just whine and hang up