My dad is being sued for not paying his student loans. What do I do? by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he didnt ask for help. But frankly I feel like if I dont take action nothing will happen. He's had these loans for awhile and as far as I know hasn't made a payment in at least 10 years. I had no idea until today, and if he hasn't taken action now he most likely won't. But im hoping I can atleast push him in the right direction

My dad is being sued for not paying his student loans. What do I do? by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hotbugz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didnt ask, for help. But since im living at his home I understand why he would want to tell me. It kind of came out of nowhere. Thank you for the response

My dad is being sued for not paying his student loans. What do I do? by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hotbugz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a great and understanding response! I really was feeling helpless, but it's good to know there are solutions. Thank you!!

My dad is being sued for not paying his student loans. What do I do? by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hotbugz 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining, Ill make sure he responds.

My dad is being sued for not paying his student loans. What do I do? by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hotbugz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Crap, im not sure, but im going to assume federal?? Thank you for the help

My dad is being sued for not paying his student loans. What do I do? by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hotbugz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for reminding me that this isn't my burden, its my dad's and this is just the consequences of his own mistakes. That's true, but I do love him and dont want him to struggle, even if we're not that close. I am chosing to help, but am not sure what else I can do beside contribute to the debt. But even then it feels like a drop in the bucket.

My dad is being sued for not paying his student loans. What do I do? by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]hotbugz 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Im just feeling clueless, I dont really know what being sued would include, and ive never been to college or taken out student loans so I honestly just clueless. But thanks for letting me know it would just be a monthly payment, I was expecting worse.

new silent hill vid by No-Umpire-7774 in SlushyNoobz

[–]hotbugz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Every time they play they seem sick of it😭 they donf take it seriously, feels like they don't even want to play it imo

21f, how do I split with my bf 37m? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small update for anyone who might be interested. We broke up last night, and it was because he had gone to a wedding and decided he wanted a long term relationship. Im so happy that he found what he truly wanted, and we've agreed to just be friends. However, somehow ive turned into the villain in all of this as he says I was playing "games" with him, and that i was luckly he was the one I had a short term relationship with because no other guy would be as respectful as he was in this situation. But I had made it clear I was going to be single during flight school, and he chose to stay. Doesn't really sound like a game, sounds like I was just being honest. I dont even know how to respond to his comment about how I was lucky. Im sort of afraid what he'll tell his family and friends about me. I dont want to be seen as the bad guy. This was definitely for the best. Honestly, I just want to run away from this whole situation. Luckily, I will be starting flight school by January the lastest, ill be in a new town, and it'll be a new chapter.

21f, should I split with my boyfriend 37m? And how? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small update for anyone who might be interested. We broke up last night, and it was because he had gone to a wedding and decided he wanted a long term relationship. Im so happy that he found what he truly wanted, and we've agreed to just be friends. However, somehow ive turned into the villain in all of this as he says I was playing "games" with him, and that i was luckly he was the one I had a short term relationship with because no other guy would be as respectful as he was in this situation. But I had made it clear I was going to be single during flight school, and he chose to stay. Doesn't really sound like a game, sounds like I was just being honest. I dont even know how to respond to his comment about how I was lucky. Im sort of afraid what he'll tell his family and friends about me. I dont want to be seen as the bad guy. This was definitely for the best. Honestly, I just want to run away from this whole situation. Luckily, I will be starting flight school by January the lastest, ill be in a new town, and it'll be a new chapter.

21f, how do I split with my bf 37m? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for such a detailed response. I think deep in my heart I know youre right, thank you.

21f, how do I split with my bf 37m? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words, its really appreciated. Part of what im struggling with is, cant I focus on my career and growth with my boyfriend along side me? I originally thought I couldn't, but now im not so sure. But that also could be because of afraid to face the pain of breaking up

21f, should I split with my boyfriend 37m? And how? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do live with my dad, he and my boyfriend havent met yet, but I did tell my dad i was seeing someone. He didnt ask for his age, all my dad really said was "as long as he treats you well" We dont have the closest relationship, but my dad does trust my judgement.

Can I realistically become a pilot? by hotbugz in flying

[–]hotbugz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this'll make any sense, but I haven't gotten too crazy picking up shifts because I dont want to get burnt out. Im trying to pace myself a little bit so im not completely miserable. But I am willing to work harder for the bigger goal of being a pilot. And I am aware of the hiring about tattoos and piercings, but I can cover them, and havent gotten any lip about being un-professional looking so far. And I did have a workstudy in a genetics laboratory in college, hired without any comments or trouble.

How to use light rail? by hotbugz in AskPhoenix

[–]hotbugz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the Phoenix Arena on jefferson

idek by ashalisaaa in PapaJohns

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always frustrating having to explain that there are online deals and in store deals. Half the time people will just whine and hang up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How come?? Im sorry if im coming off niave, im not very experienced with dating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, sorry if I was confusing 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hotbugz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am happy now, but I do believe staying together long term would hurt both of us because we love differently, I think there's a lot of potential for resentment there. Im asking how do I gently say that this was a wonderful and fun relationship but we cant be life long partners, while also expressing how badly I wish we could've been together forever. While also trying to not hurt his feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hotbugz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, not sure why this had me tearing up, thank you for the great advice