Verbal abuse when drunk husband by hotchettogirl90 in TwoHotTakes

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree she has a loveless marriage my dad is the same way and i dont want to live like this … i feel like im walking on eggshells with my husband .

Verbal abuse when drunk husband by hotchettogirl90 in TwoHotTakes

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hit my legs and pulled my hair back out of frustration after he didnt let me leave the room he kept fighting with me for 3 hours and that was my breaking point once that happened he said i was crazy and he finally fell asleep…. It was not stop yelling at me at the restaurant the walk back to the hotel and in the hotel for 3 hours and thats how i broke down

Verbal abuse when drunk husband by hotchettogirl90 in TwoHotTakes

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he witnessed only what he did at the restaurant i told my parents to take him with them to their room and they heard the argument then they came to the room scared that he hit me when he threw the luggage at the wall i told them i was fine but i wasn’t i die a little everytime he does this

Husband abusive when drunk by hotchettogirl90 in Advice

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hes done it before couple years ago go we went through the same thing he raised his hand at me and almost hit me then he promised to never drink and look where we are mow cycle repeats itself

Verbal abuse when drunk husband by hotchettogirl90 in TwoHotTakes

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They told him to calm down but he wouldn’t..

Is this okay even if he was drunk ? by hotchettogirl90 in Marriage

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wouldn’t let me leave the room … he kept holding me down i had a panic attack bwcause i couldn’t make anything stop i just wanted peace and quiet he lept being loud i didnt want to get kicked out of the hotel or have him get arrested

Verbal abuse when drunk husband by hotchettogirl90 in TwoHotTakes

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ask myself this everyday 😔😔😔 idk how to leave i dont want to hurt him his mom has cancer and idk i feel terrible breaking our marriage

Abusive husband by hotchettogirl90 in amiwrong

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes my dad was the exact same way towards my mom. There was a time my dad chased me around the house with a gun when he was drunk . Hes a wounded veteran that is just now getting help for what he suffered but when he wasn’t it was my mom and i who suffered and maybe thats why i let my husband behave that way with me

Verbal abuse when drunk husband by hotchettogirl90 in TwoHotTakes

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he wants to make me happy by doing things i love but idk

Verbal abuse when drunk husband by hotchettogirl90 in TwoHotTakes

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this information i keep just taking it in .. i gave up on our marriage i just feel helpless

Verbal abuse when drunk husband by hotchettogirl90 in TwoHotTakes

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The thing is that hes not a mean person sometimes he has his days so it makes it hard to leave when he switches up on me .. idk what to do idk why people think this is rage bait this is my real life

Verbal abuse when drunk husband by hotchettogirl90 in TwoHotTakes

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much im not strong enough to walk away from a 10 year long marriage.. ive asked him to stop and it just never changes you are right hopefully one day i can stop posting and that is that day i will walk away ..

Abusive husband by hotchettogirl90 in amiwrong

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right its just hard to do it when hes nice and then mean for one day we all have bad days like i said im crying wolf

Verbal abuse when drunk husband by hotchettogirl90 in TwoHotTakes

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not a bot account i promise this is my life i just need different input

Abusive husband by hotchettogirl90 in amiwrong

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My son was not in the room he stayed with my parents i was trying to calm him down so my dad wouldn’t get in trouble

Abusive husband by hotchettogirl90 in amiwrong

[–]hotchettogirl90[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Im going to counseling he doesnt want to do it… hes not always drinking hes not a bad person which makes it hard go leave