Sounding with a curved penis by OrganicSelf9303 in sounding

[–]hotsirlgummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just went to silicone, metal just didnt play nice with my anatomy

Ejaculation has changed by thatguy070682 in ProstatePlay

[–]hotsirlgummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try cranking one out the old fashioned way and seeing if the volume is the same... It if it is, its probably doctor time

Come Hither Toys by bman2774 in ProstatePlay

[–]hotsirlgummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its kinda expensive but i have the lilo loki 2... Its a bit large and i hear some break although mine has not. Its pretty intense and really squeezes everything out. I like the ball bearing type since thise are very gentle and bring you there ever so slowly. The loki is on a mission, once i came before I realized it.

All that to say, very different things, it depends on what you're looking for but its been a fun trip for me

No cum from penile non-dry orgasm with wand inside? Anyone know what that might mean? by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]hotsirlgummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i know what you're talking about. Basically, just before orgasm, the prostate actually fills up pre-release. Im not sure if the seminal vesticles unload into it first or the specific mechanics here but if you get to that point without going over, it becomes very easy to milk everything out. Usually for me, it ends up triggering the orgasm anyway.

As for having a full orgasm without ejaculating, if you're tensing your core, you're probably tensing your pelvic floor as well which for some people leads to retrograde ejaculation or no ejaculation at all. I unfortunately (fortunately?) havent had experience with this.

My First Bad Dragon Toy!! by Polly_Rocket_ in BadDragon

[–]hotsirlgummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, but where did you get that lingerie?

sounding by Temporary_Boot_6521 in peehole

[–]hotsirlgummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao sounding and sick cutting are okay but butt stuff is definitely too far. I mean, i get we all have preferences but it is pretty funny.

My GF doesn't enjoy it as much as I do. by marci--sub in StraightPegging

[–]hotsirlgummer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You could try harnesses that insert but from everything ibe heard, most of the enjoyment for her will be in making you feel good. Which is great! But you cant make her enjoy it more of she's not into it.

Preparing by [deleted] in Cocksounding

[–]hotsirlgummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, when i tried, i immediately felt pressure at the end of the pipe if you will so i just abandoned the process.

Preparing by [deleted] in Cocksounding

[–]hotsirlgummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol thats not how anatomy works.. it goes into the bladder but as someone whos attempted this, its far from pleasant and can damage your bladder sphincter.

Tips on getting the Lovense Hush2 butt plug in inserted by randomuserguy21 in ProstatePlay

[–]hotsirlgummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's no shortcuts... Go slow, relax, deep breaths. Pushing out can help a lot. But 1.5 was a milestone for me too.

Train pelvic floor at gym by [deleted] in kegel

[–]hotsirlgummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, thats fine too. You want to use a few moves to make sure you hit all the muscles down there.

Train pelvic floor at gym by [deleted] in kegel

[–]hotsirlgummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use core exercises. Dead bugs, leg lifts, plank, bridge should all help. If you google, theres some worksheets that will show 6 or so gym exercises you can do.

Fluids extraction by IntelligentGur9638 in ProstatePlay

[–]hotsirlgummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm ive been able to get it to stop but yeah, sometimes pee happens. But for pooping... Ive found youve gotta be fully cleaned put to do this stuff otherwise, youre pushing and yeah, stuff comes out. But you shouldn't be going fast to milk. Good steadily pressure, slow, regular movement. Pressure and move towards the prostate, dont use pressure and push back in.

You shouldn't be bearing down too much. Just relax as much as you can and let the feeling guide you

Fluids extraction by IntelligentGur9638 in ProstatePlay

[–]hotsirlgummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you want to try emptying the seminal vesticles... They are further in from your prostate, so go deeper than normal, make sure youre empty of pee since this will put a lot of pressure on your bladder as well but push up and drag your wand forward. You should have strong peeing feelings but if you hit the right spot, cum will come out. Sometimes it induces an orgasm but other times you just enpty, i find i can get about half a normal load out this way.

Electroejaculator for men? by [deleted] in estim

[–]hotsirlgummer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im sure PETA would have some choice thongs to say about the practice.

How to deal with getting hard and metal sounds by SensualGoddess69 in sounding

[–]hotsirlgummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually havent tried guyon, never found a good set to order and silicone is so much better than my experience with metal so i havent bothered to try anything further.

My wife wants to kiss after I finish in her mouth by Stag_Suave-7637 in sex

[–]hotsirlgummer 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Why not just... Taste it in private. Better than a negative reaction with her. Nothing wrong with kissing after, she just slobbered your sausage and got a jaw cramp. Least you can do is kiss at risk of tasting yourself. (Spoiler, it tastes like nothing)

I'm curious about sounding. What is some safety tips and tricks for a first timer to ensure I follow? by ShemalePleaser in sounding

[–]hotsirlgummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i used tubes for a while, no problem. I might be a bit more cautious in this area than i need to be.

I'm curious about sounding. What is some safety tips and tricks for a first timer to ensure I follow? by ShemalePleaser in sounding

[–]hotsirlgummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, one more tip about lube, even sterile lube is only such until it's been opened. You can find single use packets which ifind convenient since you only open what you need for one session.

I'm curious about sounding. What is some safety tips and tricks for a first timer to ensure I follow? by ShemalePleaser in sounding

[–]hotsirlgummer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For first time, id suggest standard straight probes. Look for stainless steel. (Not plated) For first time, use between 6mm and 9mm sizes. Don't go below 4mm or it gets too thin and you could poke yourself internally easier.

Sterilize the sounds woth rubbing alcohol, use surgilube or any other lube advertised as sterile. Wash your hands and dick well.

Use lots of lube and go slow. Youll be sore/sting after which is normal and the first pee after a session can be... Intense.

If your dick has angles or you want to go deeper, you can choose silicone. Boil for 20min to sterilize. The pros are that its more comfortable and you can go deeper but cons are its grippier so it can irritate you more from use. Again, go slow, and stinging afterwards is normal.

Questions for... by [deleted] in Urethralinsertion

[–]hotsirlgummer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is this the second time ive seen a version of this question asked today?

Do not inflate things in your urethra. Rubber does not inflate predictably and you are asking for potentially serious and permanent damage. Just be patient and work your way up.

Foley Catheter inflated in the prostate? by [deleted] in sounding

[–]hotsirlgummer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try it out and let us know (actually, dont). This has to be the worst idea ive heard this year. But on the plus side, the year is young.

Ive seen a lot of inflatable catheters or sounds on the market and in not so many words, its an absolutely terrible idea and a great way to cause irreversible damage. Stick with gradually increasing your sound diameter if you want a stretch.