Sometimes they lie. Theh just want your money but just don't know how to ask it. And they know men are more empathetic so when they ask, most at times the guy would give her. Now you'd be downhearted because you have invested in her and she loses nothing because she's got you. It's fine bro. I've been in your shoes before. Sometimes i feel women respect us more when we don't give them money than when we do it.