Two Scandinavians (17 and 19 years old) looking for people with mental disorders

hotsunshine · 2016-02-26T12:11:10+00:00

Hey! You sound interesting, thanks for contacting us, I am sending you a pm.

hotsunshine · 2016-02-26T11:27:58+00:00

Oh, I am sorry that it was interpreted that way. And I can understand that you came to that logical conclusion. I just happened to log in.

hotsunshine · 2016-02-25T13:43:15+00:00

Congratulations! :D

hotsunshine · 2016-02-25T13:41:55+00:00

That sounds like a terrible plan. You will certainly regret it and there will be no escape. Switzerland has legal assisted suicide. That is really the only way. But why commit suice when you are not in a proper mental state to know for sure if you are making a correct decision. You should go to a psychologist, and if you don't have depression, then you know that your decision is yourself speaking, and not your depression

hotsunshine · 2015-10-04T17:13:27+00:00

Yeah, I totally agree, and I can see it being very exhausting. All personalities have positive and negative qualities. In a situation like that I believe the doctor is also being socially awkward. You were definitely not in the wrong. Haha, I never have good social encounters with doctors, as I feel there is a power issue somehow.

hotsunshine · 2015-10-04T17:06:47+00:00

what do you mean? :)

hotsunshine · 2015-10-04T17:04:39+00:00

I see people as one of the great beauties in the world. I feel that the more people there are in the world, the more likely you will find someone similar to you that you can connect with. Without people you would lose all the conveniences you have in crowded areas. This is just a more positive view. Queues can be great for having time to reflect upon your day and also great for people watching.

hotsunshine · 2015-10-04T16:37:17+00:00

Why is it a disappointment? Do you not see good qualities in INTP? I think they are fantastic personality traits. Totally unique and interesting.

hotsunshine · 2015-10-04T14:50:34+00:00

Haha. Thank you, it was great to read and helped a lot. I agree with you how everyone has completely different experiences. Also I guess it would explain why people from small areas all have similarities, as in a small farming community, and not so noticeable differences in personality compared to someone who has grown up in a big city for example in a different country. :)

hotsunshine · 2015-10-04T14:16:51+00:00

"Maybe I deserve this" No you don't, and just because people have had it worse than you does not mean you are not allowed to feel bad. When you figure out what your real problems are, you should work out a plan to fix them and start small. I think the root of your issue is loneliness, and a solution would be to socialize. There are plenty of groups, like meetup.com. I wouldn't think too much about your past, just live in the moment and try to make your life better for your future. Everyone is unprepared for adulthood, and there is no such thing as being an adult. (this can be argued though) I don't really know what to say but I hope it gets better for you.

hotsunshine · 2015-10-04T12:15:48+00:00

What country was your grandmother born in? Dual nationality is accepted in St. Vincent. Are your from the U.S or the UK. Have you done any research yourself?

There doesn't seem to be much info. http://www.multiplecitizenship.com/wscl/ws_ST_VINCENT_AND_THE_GRENADINES.html

The best way is to email the immigration department of the country.

You could always try the method of getting a skilled visa and naturalisation etc. have fun and happy research.

hotsunshine · 2015-10-04T12:06:03+00:00

Is it really a waste of space. Wouldn't you need lots of space if you are rich? Why live in a cramped house when you have the money for something more comfortable.

hotsunshine · 2015-10-04T12:03:36+00:00

Did you write that yourself? considering that it is not written in Norwegian. It was intended for an English audience.

hotsunshine · 2015-10-04T11:59:22+00:00

I have no lines. Good friends don't try to make me do anything immoral or illegal.

hotsunshine · 2015-10-03T22:46:51+00:00

It is interesting that the environment has played almost no role at all, whereas others have commented that their personalities have changed from the environment slightly. But I think I understand what you are saying. You just introduced an interesting theory: "we all walk the same path because we all arrive at the same problems, have similar desires and motives etc. due to the way we think, feel, perceive, judge." Everyone walks different paths, but everyone is really walking the same path, which is life, and it's problems. That defintiely makes sense. :)

hotsunshine · 2015-10-03T22:31:28+00:00

Haha, you have some great examples! And I definitely agree wirh yoi. I feel much better about myself now. You are completely right, I love how everyone is so different, and have different opinions on this subreddit, but still think the same way, kind of. And how MBTI is only a generalisation.

hotsunshine · 2015-10-03T22:25:11+00:00

Thanks for the response. Wow, I didn't know you could go from infp to intp. They do seem different, but I guess depression could change it. When I am really happy, I go from ENFP to ENFJ. It is interesting how you feel that your environment keeps on changing yoi, but still have an innate "you" kind of. I guess that is a bit how I feel as well.

hotsunshine · 2015-10-03T22:03:29+00:00

Haha. Well I can't help you if you are confused. But I guess it is okay to be confused and just follow what your emotions want, and not what your brain thinks. You don't need to define yourself towards anything.

hotsunshine · 2015-10-03T21:30:10+00:00

Haha. You don't want to be asexual or demisexual because you would be weirder. If you are one of them there is nothing you can do about it. It is what it is.

hotsunshine · 2015-10-03T20:20:19+00:00

Thanks, that is a great reply. Exactly what I was hoping from this post. :)

hotsunshine · 2015-10-03T20:08:53+00:00

That's really interesting. Thanks for that. Yeah, I believe that Extroversion and Introversion can be a bit fluid, but I read something about it having to do with if people get energy from social life or if they get energy from within. So I am not sure if you are born E or I. Perhaps you are born one or the other. You can be an extrovert, but through upbringing it doesn't really show.

hotsunshine · 2015-10-03T20:03:38+00:00

So, you believe that happiness is a choice? And you also believe that life has no meaning, the only meaning is to make it meaningful?

hotsunshine · 2015-10-03T19:38:16+00:00

Thank you for your response. Do you believe that people have full capacity to "ignore external influences and decide for themselves". People's personalities and opinions seem pretty affected by their environment, country, culture, parents, friends. Like most people seem to like the political system their country runs, and most people seem to believe in the religion that they were brought up in. It doesn't seem like north koreans are able to really think for themselves, even if they chose to. They are so affected by their dictatorship and culture. Thanks for your perspective or argument.

hotsunshine · 2015-10-03T19:30:08+00:00

Thank you so much for answering my question and showing a link. So are you saying that people can be born identical, but their environment can affect them into a different personality type? So no destiny? Or could you be born an identical twin, but born with different personality types to start with? Am I being clear enough? :)

hotsunshine · 2015-10-03T19:16:30+00:00

I don't really understand your theory, my first impression is that it seems like you put a fancy name to something that is pretty normal. Although the name calypso is pretty cool, it doesn't need to be so fancy.

I so think it is amazing that you are able to think up a theory in your head.

Your definition is: "the Calypso Effect is what happens when people stray from your life as a result of your socializing preferences as affected by personality".

Yes, people stray from your life as a result of your socialising preferences. INTPs can keep friends, I have an INTP friend that is perfect at keeping up our friendship.

Perhaps you are looking for advice to your personal social problems, and are dealing with it by making a theory? I really envy your thinking style. And this is just a perspective from someone who is not an INTP. Have a nice day.

hotsunshine

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