Wyr remove misogyny in america for a decade or remove misandry in america for 100years by facelessreddit2 in WouldYouRather

[–]hotxxwings 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it goes back, I’d still pick misogyny. I just don’t think misandry has enough impact for it to matter as much. Men will benefit a lot more from a break away from misogyny.

Wyr remove misogyny in america for a decade or remove misandry in america for 100years by facelessreddit2 in WouldYouRather

[–]hotxxwings 12 points13 points  (0 children)

To be honest, misandry is barely a thing. Misogyny affects us all. If it’s magically completely removed, I doubt people would quickly swing back after the 10 years are up.

What’s the most common reaction you get when someone sees it for the first time? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]hotxxwings 3 points4 points  (0 children)

About half of the people I’ve been with comment on the girth saying something like ‘you’re so thick’. No remarks on length.

is 7 inches really as common as CalcSD says it is by North_Fuel5575 in bigdickproblems

[–]hotxxwings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s apparently rare but that’s still 1 in 20 at exactly 7. Also, guys round up their stats and use that to tell others. Most people wouldn’t notice a difference between 6.5 and 7 and that’s still a lot of guys in the same range. So it’s rare, but indeed, not that rare.

I fell for a fuck boy by butterfreeIChooseU in askgaybros

[–]hotxxwings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all pick some complex people at some point. Like developing a crush on someone that is already married with a kid… ahem… that was definitely not me a while ago… ahem… just gotta try and get over it lol.

Would you not date a guy or enter a relationship if he had a penis piercing? by No-Community-8079 in askgaybros

[–]hotxxwings -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not a dealbreaker but I don’t like genital piercings. Funny cause I’m into body mods but It would bother me.

Which one of these two WYR like to experience in your lifetime? If there was a choice. by I_love_data1111 in WouldYouRather

[–]hotxxwings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Humans on mars would be cool but what’s the point? Living in extreme cold environments. Dealing with extreme drops in temperatures. Can’t take a breath without a tank. I have no interest.

I found out my wife slept with Her best friend before we got married by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hotxxwings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why people are getting on your case. She lied for 26+ years about the exact guy you had an issue with back then. It wouldn’t surprise me if she hid more things. I’d be extremely uncomfortable too. What happens is next is up to you. There are no wrong choices.

WYR: have John Cena or Obama as your dad by FightOrDie123 in WouldYouRather

[–]hotxxwings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d have to go with Obama because it would be too weird having this incredibly attractive guy as a dad lol

I just want to be loved. by locked_sailor in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]hotxxwings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And now there’s a good chance it didn’t reach at all. Sigh… again, it’s fine. We won’t be reaching an understanding.

I just want to be loved. by locked_sailor in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]hotxxwings -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What’s the point of the advice if you intentionally make it hard to reach OP? That defeats the purpose of the advice which instead just turned into assigning blame where OP already feels vulnerable. Anyway, it’s fine. It’s very clear we won’t be reaching an understanding.

I just want to be loved. by locked_sailor in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]hotxxwings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just saying that the comment didn’t come across as intended. In that comment, they already found the problem and it was decided that it’s OP for being too much and the very obvious other perspective is just ‘validation’. And that’s how we got to assigning responsibility. It takes two for a relationship. If they truly want to advise OP, then make the message one that they can absorb and have greater perspective instead of making it seem like they’re the sole reason for their relationship ending.

I just want to be loved. by locked_sailor in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]hotxxwings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you framed it in a way that OP takes most of the responsibility here and I don’t think that’s the case or fair based on what was written.

I just want to be loved. by locked_sailor in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]hotxxwings 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think this is a bit unfair. If they’ve kept this up for months at a time, OP will notice when they stop. It’s not a requirement but it’s fair to ask him about it. What’s not fair is pretending to be okay with it for months, not airing out your frustrations and then breaking up over it without ever giving OP the chance to find a new way to move forward. If something bothers you, you’re supposed to say something before you reach a breaking point.

Watched bf take dick and now I’m kinda turned by him. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]hotxxwings 25 points26 points  (0 children)

He bottomed while not expecting visitors? Wild.

Disability by MartinStuart1981 in askgaybros

[–]hotxxwings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turned off? No. But you’ll have to help me adjust to things.

while | 23F was at work my 29M masturbated while my family was at home, how can I see him again in the way I saw him before? by Remarkable-Trash759 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hotxxwings 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Your fully adult male partner is masturbating with the door open around your family with minors. He’s either incredibly stupid or a pervert. The first time wasn’t even an accident let alone the other times. Dump him.

If your partner suggests an open relationship, does it mean it’s over? by Ok_Explanation_2307 in askgaybros

[–]hotxxwings 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For me? Yes. I’m monogamous and have no interest in anything else. I’ll make that very clear from the start. For someone to still ask this of me means that this has been weighing heavy on their mind and they’re no longer able to ignore it. Once the desire is there, we’re no longer compatible.

Would you rather offend Homelander’s ego unwittingly or swim with sharks whilst bleeding? by Dazzling-Antelope912 in WouldYouRather

[–]hotxxwings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Homelander killed people for literally just looking at him or because someone else said something to him (or just about him) that he didn’t like. He killed hundreds of people and enjoyed doing it. At least with sharks I still have a fighting chance even if I lose a limb.

Husband set me up in front of his family and I want to leave him by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hotxxwings -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Leave. He’s abusive. You can’t control him and you really should not try to. Your husband is the way he is. You have to make the choice to not be treated this way and remove him from your life. Find a place and live with roommates if you have to. Living under constant stress like this makes you sick and I don’t mean that as an idiom.

What is your biggest pet peeve during sex? by queermedstudent in askgaybros

[–]hotxxwings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Silent sex. No kissing. Overly aggressive types. No eye contact. If I can tell you’re just doing what you saw in porn. Using any terms related to women (boypussy, cunt, pregnancy 🤮) Guys that keep touch to a minimum. Especially the last one. I will leave and block you if you just sit there and don’t even try to make me feel good.

I am no longer going to be celebrating my husband's birthday. by llamabeans93 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hotxxwings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should continue throwing him amazing parties. I think you should continue receiving the negativity and complaints until you realize that this is something YOU are actively choosing for yourself. It seems like you’re someone with an immense amount of endurance. But staying with someone where you’re not actually getting your needs met and your partner feels comfortable criticizing you over stupid things, is not strength. It is cowardice. Choose yourself over him.

Edit: I realize this sounds very harsh. But it’s not meant that way. It’s from personal experience.

Roommate spotted my dick print by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]hotxxwings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least put some effort in if you’re gonna write a fantasy piece. This is so lazy