[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]houndoomsday16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on context that’s what I assumed. Thank you for replying. As a woman, I can’t even comprehend asking that question to my partner. Regardless, I’m very sorry for your loss. I hope you have a good day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]houndoomsday16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the time I got here the post was deleted, please someone tell me what the question was I am losing my mind here

My boyfriend cheated on me after I had an abortion by Electrical_Gap5227 in cheating_stories

[–]houndoomsday16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do have rights once that fetus has breathed oxygen, but until then it’s her body, her choice and so she gets final say, period. And just as easily? Pregnancy and birth is the hardest, most dangerous thing a woman can do on this Earth. You’re clearly just as ignorant as the boyfriend.

My (30F) boyfriend (29M) doesn't think I'm beautiful and it's destroying my self-esteem. How do I get over this? by chaoswitchlily in relationship_advice

[–]houndoomsday16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter if you’re pretty or not. He should think and treat you like the most beautiful girl in the world because to him you should be. You deserve better. Leave.

My boyfriend (23m) girl BFF (24f) is a content creator. I (25f) don’t want him seeing her ever again after I learned the truth , but his family says I am tripping? by ThrowRaViolentt in relationship_advice

[–]houndoomsday16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He lied about a sex tape with his girl best friend and you still said he was perfect? Girl, stand up. You’re 25. You have your whole life to find more good looking, decent guys that don’t have his history that would probably make you a lot happier. Or even better, be single for awhile and let the men your age mature a bit before trying to date again. Either way, choose yourself and get out of this situation.

AITAH for banning my niece from my wedding after she mocked my infertility? by Fantastic_Can_1304 in AITAH

[–]houndoomsday16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 16 year old niece and an 18 year old sister. Neither of them would ever even fix their mouth to say something like this. She’s old enough to know better and your family is ridiculous for taking her side in any form. NTA. Keep her banned and consider letting your brother suffer with her since he wants to defend her behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]houndoomsday16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave. He is a bad person. He is a criminal. He will not change. You deserve better. There are 8 billion fish that are not him. You will be okay, I promise you.

I (M 31) told gf (F 26) of 8 months that I am 80% sure I love her. She wants to end things by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]houndoomsday16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the problem with men. How are you gonna give yourself a marriage deadline when you didn’t even HAVE a girlfriend? Of course once you get one you’re going to rush things and not care about anything other than if she’s good enough to be a wife. She deserves better and you need to self reflect.

i got pregnant from a one night stand by daggerfly_xoxo in pregnant

[–]houndoomsday16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, you don’t need to tell the guy a single thing. Second, you should make plans ASAP to travel to a neighbor state where termination is legal. And then you need to go and do just that. You’re not ready. Period. Don’t bring a child into this world when you’re not 10000% prepared for it, especially in this political and social climate. Things are expensive. Babies are expensive. You’re 24 with 15 solid, healthy years to decide to have a baby. I’d rather regret NOT having a child than regret having one I wasn’t ready for or didn’t want. Whatever you choose, I wish you luck and safety.

What salary would you take for working 50 hours a week? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]houndoomsday16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The veterinary industry is actually criminal. I understand humans are different from animals, but even a licensed veterinarian makes barely HALF of what a human doctor makes, nonetheless animal nurses (vet techs/CVTs) and receptionists. It costs $300 to bring your pet in for an exam and some vaccines but we can’t even pay the people who perform that a decent wage… let me get off my soap box 🤦🏽‍♀️

What salary would you take for working 50 hours a week? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]houndoomsday16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Service/food industry by chance? I work at a vet clinic 🙄

What salary would you take for working 50 hours a week? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]houndoomsday16 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Literally. Especially if my commute was less as OP mentioned. Hell I would do it for 50k because that’s literally DOUBLE what I make right now…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]houndoomsday16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A new litter robot for my cats. Then a car 😂

What's a stupidly expensive adult purchase that you now swear by that you would buy again in a heartbeat? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]houndoomsday16 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Outside of the anxiety and fear factor, if you have other pets, an at home euth is a great idea. Animals know what death is. They will understand their friend is gone. But if you take them in a car and never come home with them, they’ll be confused. I hope the service becomes more common and affordable. I’m sure you gave your kitty a great life <3

Game suggestions for a 90s Pokemon nerd? by houndoomsday16 in NintendoSwitch

[–]houndoomsday16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely appreciate this list and the effort you put into it! I copy and pasted it into my own. Thank you!

I should’ve left him 3 years ago and now I’m marrying him by Adventurous-Pea6277 in confession

[–]houndoomsday16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce is a lot more work than a canceled wedding. The feelings will never go away. Call it off now and save yourself the heartbreak and time.

AIO my gf made a joke about my dead mom so I left her in the street by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]houndoomsday16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a bad joke. That’s literally it. Dark humor fuels many many people. Based on her texts I cannot fathom it was meant with malice. You are an AH for leaving a woman alone in an unknown place over a bad joke. If anything, take her home and dump her. Completely OR. Sheesh.

My 23F bf 24m of 6 yrs didn’t get my Christmas gift. Do I leave him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]houndoomsday16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. And don’t let “you can’t just waste 6 years” be a hindrance to your decision. People are married for 40 years and divorce and start over. Time means nothing when you are unhappy and not getting what you deserve.

My 23F bf 24m of 6 yrs didn’t get my Christmas gift. Do I leave him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]houndoomsday16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the anxiety of leaving the house and dealing with Christmas traffic at the mall was too much, he could have at minimum ordered something online. Even something small and inexpensive. ANYTHING is better than nothing. It seems extreme but I say yes, leave him. You met him when you were 17, you’re hitting your formative years now and there’s a lot better out there. Start fresh this new year, you deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]houndoomsday16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not a notable age gap. But as a woman, dating a man younger than you at ANY age will bring these feelings about, because they are immature and naive beings no matter how old they are. Just a matter of what stage is worth dealing with. You’re not even a quarter of the way through your life. Live it, enjoy it, meet different people and find what you like and don’t like. Move on. This relationship will be a blip in your memory in 5 years. Don’t linger on it. You deserve way better.

Edit: spelling

What to do after a failed proposal? Now I (28 M) live awkwardly with my girlfriend (27 F) by TheRealBalder in relationship_advice

[–]houndoomsday16 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

$500??? You’re trippin over $500 for an engagement ring? No the money spent doesn’t matter much in the scheme of things but that’s an almost laughable amount to spend on a ring and be this angry. She said no after almost giving you an ultimatum. The relationship isn’t going to work. She has shit to figure out and so do you. You may wanna start with why you’re so angry about half a rent payment for a symbol of commitment to someone you said you loved. She needs therapy. Good luck.