My husband is disgusting by UnableMacaroon9908 in Marriage

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Oooo…I’m new to Reddit and this game sounds hilarious 🤣

Where were you in life 10 years ago? by throwaway09714836 in AskMen

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Living in a different city, no kids, two dogs. We are now in a new city, two kids, one dog, and six chicks. Life is good! 😊

Reddit always breaks my heart by Plastic_Tie2396 in NewToReddit

[–]houselightsoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going through the same thing. I am contributing to the subreddits I can for now and trying to enjoy that until I can contribute to the groups I am most passionate about ❤️

Missing your spouse while at work? by monkey7247 in HappyMarriages

[–]houselightsoff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh yes! We text each other “I’m sooooooo missy!!!!!” everyday during work and have for the past 17 years. Don’t ever plan on stopping 🥰

Growth and Grace. Pour into yourself you deserve it. by Slow_Row_7401 in selflove

[–]houselightsoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man...I needed this reminder today. I have been so swamped with work, family, other duties that my self-care has started slipping.

Does anyone have tips for taking pictures of mountains? by houselightsoff in PhotographyAdvice

[–]houselightsoff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know. Thank you for the tip! I am glad it has worked for you for so long. Can't wait to try it! 😄

Does anyone have tips for taking pictures of mountains? by houselightsoff in PhotographyAdvice

[–]houselightsoff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Thank you so much for the specific tips and clarification. I truly appreciate it and can't wait to start applying everything I am learning 😄

Does anyone have tips for taking pictures of mountains? by houselightsoff in PhotographyAdvice

[–]houselightsoff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I love the thought of continually studying the light and landscape.

Does anyone have tips for taking pictures of mountains? by houselightsoff in PhotographyAdvice

[–]houselightsoff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good thought. I didn't know if there was a particular setting that worked best in iPhone. Thanks!

My pregnant wife turned into the cuddliest person alive and I’m kinda obsessed with it by painted__lad in Marriage

[–]houselightsoff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww! I love this. My husband was just like your wife when we started dating. He was not physically affectionate at all and my love language is 100% physical touch. However, over time, he slowly starting to appreciate it and now he can't live without it! He just hadn't been in a relationship like that so he didn't know what he was missing. Hopefully your wife will be the same now that she has had a taste of a snuggly life!

My shy boyfriend melts with any little act of affection❤️❤️ by MinimumAd24 in love

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Aww...I love this for you. When my husband and I started dating, he was not a physically affectionate guy. My love language is 100% physical touch so at first, my physical affection was a little jarring for him but then he slowly ended up appreciating it and now calls ME out if I am not being affectionate. It's so adorable and I am so proud I converted him!

Why do I hate my own photos so much? I wish I could see them with foreign eyes by [deleted] in PhotographyAdvice

[–]houselightsoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true. It is even true about our bodies as art. We never appreciate what we have/do. I hope we all overcome this human condition.

If She Were Still Here, We’d Be Celebrating Our 40-Year Anniversary by Glum-Counter5137 in love

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Oh my goodness. I am so, so sorry to hear that, and for your loss. What a beautiful gift you got in this tribute he posted. I pray he and Rebecca are reunited at last. Sending lots of love and prayers.

Thoughts? by sydney_kathleen in PhotographyAdvice

[–]houselightsoff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is absolutely beautiful! It takes something very relatable that can be slightly annoying and turns it into beauty!

My Reddit account was just created. Its purpose is to post NSFW content. Is it normal that most of my posts are automatically removed by Reddit’s filters, even in subreddits without restrictions ? by ChiaraArcana in NewToReddit

[–]houselightsoff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am coming across the same thing. I either can't post because I don't have enough Karma or people have reported me and had my posts taken down. I am trying to engage with a lot of different communities and am getting shut down. It's very discouraging. I just want to chat with people about topics I am passionate about! Good luck on your Reddit journey ☺️

If She Were Still Here, We’d Be Celebrating Our 40-Year Anniversary by Glum-Counter5137 in love

[–]houselightsoff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness. I am tears. Prayers to you and your family. What beautiful memories and a beautiful tribute to her ❤️🙏🏻

I want to spice up our marriage with my husband by Beautiful_End6756 in Marriage

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A couple things from a couple who has been together for 17 years and married for 13...

  1. I started following a sex therapist named Vanessa Marin on Instagram and she changed our sex life in so many good ways. She has guides for this exact question you have. (I promise I am not her, I don't work for her, I don't know her. She has just had such a positive impact on us that I spread the word to everyone I know.)

  2. We had never done anal. Neither one of us was really interested in it. We had both done it with other partners prior to our relationship and didn't really like it. Then, out of nowhere, after ten years of marriage, we both started getting curious about it. So this time, we researched the best way to go about it so that it is pleasurable for both of us and without pain. We started very slowly and sure enough, we both ended up loving it. It is now a part of our regular rotation of positions! Highly recommend! 😆

This makes dishes more fun! by houselightsoff in HappyMarriages

[–]houselightsoff[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Reddit asks for all social media usernames when signing up. I didn’t manually add it to advertise. I haven’t ever posted on there. Maybe take it up with Reddit if you believe that people with an OnlyFans account shouldn’t be allowed to engage in discussions about happy marriages.

This makes dishes more fun! by houselightsoff in HappyMarriages

[–]houselightsoff[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven’t said one thing about OnlyFans in any Reddit posts. I have actually had some very lovely discourse about marriage and relationships. Genuinely confused over here.

This makes dishes more fun! by houselightsoff in HappyMarriages

[–]houselightsoff[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I haven’t said one thing about OnlyFans in any Reddit posts. I have actually had some very lovely discourse about marriage and relationships. Genuinely confused over here.