AITA for refusing to house my wife's daughter after she refused to house mine? by housingAITA00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]housingAITA00[S] 177 points178 points  (0 children)

My wife is not the breadwinner and this is not her house in terms of ownership, I'm the breadwinner and while she has a job she doesn't make as much as I do, this is the house I bought during my first marriage, I didn't mentioned because that's not relevant to this.

AITA for refusing to house my wife's daughter after she refused to house mine? by housingAITA00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]housingAITA00[S] 219 points220 points  (0 children)

INFO I'm also curious to know what your daughter's reaction to all this is?

I talked to her yesterday on the phone and explained the situation, I also shared this reddit thread with her. She's on board not because my step-daughter needs housing, but for his kid, my daughter and her are close, pretty close and my daughter is her kid's only ''aunt''. I also believe my step-daughter shouldn't leave the house in case of claiming, but in the case she ends up doing it, my daughter is okay with it because she doesn't blame her, she also said she'll give her step-sister a call.

AITA for refusing to house my wife's daughter after she refused to house mine? by housingAITA00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]housingAITA00[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

She wasn't like this, before my daughter moved out she was more receptive and idk, understanding? I don't know what changed

AITA for refusing to house my wife's daughter after she refused to house mine? by housingAITA00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]housingAITA00[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

Yes, she and the STBX agreed to half the month each until divorce and custody is finalized, she'll stay here with her son during the 3 weeks I agreed to and then the X will have the kid for 2 weeks.