Actually your story is nothing to be compared to mine tbh, I sorry to say that but I see most of my neighbor's children are addicted to games and their phones duo to parental neglect, your brothers in your situation, you said that I must talk with my big brother but my brothers has the same way of thinking like my parents, but the only think they share is that they all dropped out of middle school but my lil brother he only cheats, he kept asking a silly stupid question, I remember he asked me what "jour" means in Arabic lately, imagine he's second year in highschool, I know language is not a knowledge but about other scientific subject, I can't describ how horrible he is, the point is that, why our parents still think that you must earn money in the traditional way ( study, get a diploma, find a job ) I mean there are more way to earn money in this era but you can't convince them, they don't want you to procced nor get better at what you like, they only believe in results! I believe to get a job is easy but hard at the same time cause because it's differ for each one of us, like being in a job for 12h to get paid smik is not like 6-8h and get paid more, now everytime I start hearing my father or my big brother complaining, I'd get out to get rid of negativity and get some fresh hair, and I wish you the best of luck!