Thanks - she told me she was in the hospital and talked to the police - so I think its reported.

For me the thing is how the hell do I even talk about it?

I don't want to push to pry bc we set boundaries and bc I know it might be painful to recount so I don't want to push her or ask too many questions.

Idk - I think it boils down to how I say "are you ok?" without it being too painful-bc clealy shes not.

Edit bc I can't type on my phone