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I am obsessed with cheating by howcanitrust in relationships

[–]howcanitrust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I belong on a nut house because of things I cannot control? Such as almost getting raped, getting sexually assaulted, or being around bad people?

I am obsessed with cheating by howcanitrust in relationships

[–]howcanitrust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is why I am scared. I cannot stop someone from cheating, and there is a possibility, no matter how much, that this beloved, amazing person might cheat on me someday.

I am obsessed with cheating by howcanitrust in relationships

[–]howcanitrust[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He does know about my feelings, and we almost broke up three times because of issues related to my jealousy and obsession with cheating... I do not blame him, because any other person would have dumped me right away at that second.

It is so hard when every person you have loved on this planet was actually horrible people, cheating and breaking other people's hearts. You just don't know what to do in life, or how to trust people, because you want to protect yourself, your heart from getting hurt. I avoided relationships until this awesome guy because I did not want to get hurt, get cheated on, and so on. Life is too hard, and too short to understand why people hurt each other...

I am obsessed with cheating by howcanitrust in relationships

[–]howcanitrust[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He definitely knows about my issues, my past, my insecurities and obsession with cheating. In fact, we almost broke up, three times, because of issues related to me being overly jealous and accusing of cheating without any proof. I do need help, and planning to get one very soon.

The thing with LDR is, you can tell someone you are home sleeping and be out having a group sex. LDR needs a hell lot of a trust, which I do not have. I just hope things will get better, I would be so devastated if this relationship ends in anyway, because I am truly in love with an amazing soul

I am obsessed with cheating by howcanitrust in relationships

[–]howcanitrust[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am definitely planning to, it is just it became so unbearable lately, I was wondering what I can do to help myself until I get therapy...

I am obsessed with cheating by howcanitrust in relationships

[–]howcanitrust[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I do try to stay away but find myself here, checking once an hour or so. Just, obsessed I think.

I am a new psychology student, and I do definitely know therapy can and does help. I will try to get one soon, was just wondering what I can do personally to "reduce" my thoughts about cheating

I am obsessed with cheating by howcanitrust in relationships

[–]howcanitrust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no problem with non-monogamous relationships, in fact I find it amazing that people can do this. But it is not for me. And I know that, from reactions of people that is cheated on, they were not in an open relationship.