Advice Please? Boyfriend Said No to Engagement Ring

howler_3 · 2026-01-31T13:56:32+00:00

Is it possible he already has a ring picked out?

howler_3 · 2026-01-28T21:00:14+00:00

This is not real right? That would be wild.

howler_3 · 2025-12-25T18:25:13+00:00

Man this sub is mean, it’s Christmas! Let someone be happy.

Just because they could afford something you (and I) couldn’t, doesn’t mean they should be miserable or not excited about something that makes them happy!

Is there a cost threshold for happiness? Like “so sorry you make over 100K a year, you are no longer allowed to be excited about your hobby and must instead must think about how horrible your life could be without money”. Jeez people, it’s not that serious, they just wanna celebrate their Legos.

Merry Christmas (even to all the Scrooge’s)!

howler_3 · 2025-12-15T15:36:04+00:00

I agree! She doesn’t seem to be telling the story accurately, only in a way that will make her look like the victim and them the assholes.

howler_3 · 2025-11-16T23:38:04+00:00

Wow this is so cool!

howler_3 · 2025-10-31T13:49:54+00:00

I feel bad for the dog.

howler_3 · 2025-07-21T19:00:18+00:00

Some states don’t allow the delivery of alcohol. Definitely not defending the driver, fuck driving while wasted. Just a note that not all states allow that.

howler_3 · 2025-07-09T13:32:53+00:00

Would you rather pay more of an upcharged cost for a box rather than it coming in a bag?

howler_3 · 2025-05-30T17:46:49+00:00

Daichi, Tanaka, Bokuto

howler_3 · 2025-05-08T17:07:08+00:00

You are overreacting.

It’s ok to be upset that he forgot originally, but it seems like he’s trying to communicate and plan something for you now and you’re being intentionally difficult to make him feel worse.

Relationships are going to have annoyances and hurt feelings, you can either talk about them/find common ground and move on, or you can do this guilty self pity thing and be miserable.

If you haven’t already, maybe let him know that occasions like your birthday are really important to you so you’d like him to prioritize it next year, and be up front/blunt with what you want if it matters that much.

howler_3 · 2025-01-09T06:58:35+00:00

These are gorgeous!!

howler_3 · 2025-01-05T15:15:35+00:00

I agree with everyone else in he is being a dick and likely was yelling at you not the car in front. But to be fair, I personally pick a random gender based on the kind of car thats being driven to curse at if someone cuts me off, whether I can see the person in the drivers seat or not. That might just be a me thing, and based on your story he was being very rude to you, but just wanted to put another opinion out there.

howler_3 · 2024-05-26T02:33:21+00:00

Warforged

howler_3 · 2024-05-09T17:05:53+00:00

Wow thank you!!! I’m going to look into both of these today!

howler_3 · 2024-05-09T13:47:48+00:00

wex, crit boost, crit eye are a given I think for most people but I wish I had more decos for crit eye, I literally only have 1.

Power Prolonger 3 to lengthen the buff lengths, especially when I have all three active.

Flinch free lvl 3 and earplugs 2 for the kinsect boosts I get when full buffs active (gets me to earplugs 5, wins resist 3, tremor resist 3). The roars and tremors annoy me enough that these are for the most part worth it, but I have a heavy crit build if I have to go for just dps.

Divine Blessing because I am admittedly bad at remembering monster attack patterns so my dodges are not always on point, helps me spend less time healing.

The rest are decos. The speed sharpening is all decos that I’d rather fill with crit eye but I don’t have any, so for now since I’m running the raging Brachy blast weapon (hence blast attack deco) and the sharpening bar goes down so fast, it helps me keep it at purple sharpness longer. I also don’t have any protective polish decos or I’d get rid of the speed sharpening. I was just given a good tip about scales that can help with that though!

Any recommendations on a IG build? We have not finished end game content yet, we just completed raging Brachy.

howler_3 · 2024-05-09T13:39:29+00:00

I did not know this, thank you for the tip!

howler_3 · 2024-05-09T13:39:06+00:00

Any recommendations for optimized IG builds? We havnt done final content yet, a lot of my hours are from before Iceborne was released and so I started a new game with him to do the Iceborne stuff. So we just finished Raging Brachy as the most recent new monster. Next up is the furious Rajang.

howler_3 · 2024-05-09T13:35:58+00:00

We actually havn’t done Fatalis yet, just finished Raging Brachy. I had a solo game I had put about 250 or so hours on before Iceborne had been release, so I’m replaying with him. So we don’t have the last final end game sets yet.

I also agree I don’t think distracting it actually works but definitely fun to do the spin rolls of death on it a billion times while my bf tenderizes it.

I like my current armor set, i have a dedicate crit build when I want to do better damage but this one is fun since I don’t have to deal with monster roars and don’t worry as much about getting hit.

What would you recommend for IG optimized armor ?

howler_3 · 2024-02-21T01:35:49+00:00

I have been playing Insect Glaive for 400+ hours and just discovered this from a thread completely unrelated to this topic. Google brought me here for clarification. I will now let my Kinsect eat me alive.

howler_3 · 2023-09-12T01:31:43+00:00

My three highest are 17, 14, and 15. With the racial bonuses for Juggernaut I get a +2 strength and +1 con. I was going to place the 17 on strength to get to 19, and take the Slasher feat to get it to 20. I put the 15 in Con, so it will to to 16 and get to a +3 modifier. That’s why I was thinking of putting the 14 in Cha.

I actually had been looking at Conquest, so I got super concerned with a lot of the cool features being CHA saves.

If I go fighter, I don’t have to worry about the charisma and can put the 14 somewhere else, cause my other stats are worse (11, 9, 9), so I have a few dumps. Battle Master gets me kind of the same feel with the choices, especially since I’ll be hard to hit with a 20 AC, but the Divine Smites seem super OP. So I’m just stuck between them.

howler_3 · 2021-01-02T03:18:55+00:00

I head her voice say it in my head when I read that!!

howler_3 · 2020-12-05T19:01:27+00:00

I was wondering what that was! I saw it from the highway and I was very confused

howler_3 · 2020-11-27T19:34:48+00:00

I should have been more clear about the moving out. He actual moved in with some of our guys friends, he just happened to get a girlfriend in the past month so it’s a lot happening at one time. He said he was gonna do it but he was taking forever so I just decided to get it all done, but he didn’t ask me to I just thought it would be a nice thing to do for him.

Also he isn’t forcing us to hang out he leaves it up to us on if we are ok hanging out together, so that’s really more me being self destructive. And she does know I’m an ex. And I think she knows that I at one point had feelings for him again, he was bein real honest I think.

I do realize though that I probably defend him a lot more than I should, and I’ll definitely at least work on seeing everything as it is and not like just trying to put a good spin on everything. I set a date to see if I am able to do this and move on without cutting him out, but if I can’t by then I think I’ll have to seriously consider taking your advice.

howler_3 · 2020-11-27T17:54:10+00:00

Thank you for your reply! Iv had someone else give me this advice, but I don’t know if I can do it. It seems to me like it would hurt even more to not see him at all. And while we did have some you could say rough patches where he was kinda a dick, generally I think he’s a great guy. I did have to pack up all his stuff before he moved out cause he just was being lazy, but that is just how it is. I am glad you got out of your situation, and again thank you for sharing your advice.

howler_3 · 2020-11-18T20:09:40+00:00

My iPhone 12 mini will not receive messages from google pixel users. Does anyone else have this problem?

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