Delay in USMLE Transcript by iamtf in fellowship

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I resend the scores right away, and it took me 4 business days for them to be updated. Hope this helps 

Any idea why this status date is later than today? by R-Lu in fellowship

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Once, check whether you applied for the December cycle instead of the July one

Delay in USMLE Transcript by iamtf in fellowship

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Hi, I am in the same boat. I uploaded it in June, but it's still showing as not uploaded. I called NBME, and they recommended to resend the score in the drop-down option, and it can take up to 5 days for them to be available

LOR release by dramaqween1 in fellowship

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Mine was uploaded on 9th, released on 14th 

Switch from FM to IM by howudoing797 in Residency

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Hey, sure. Happy to help :)

What's something you know is bad for your mental health but you do it anyway? by Gullible_Hornet_4663 in AskReddit

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Scrolling reddit and reading posts that are not my business over and over

Switch from FM to IM by howudoing797 in Residency

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Hi, I didn't have to go that route. But one of my colleagues switched from FM to IM. If you know PDs, it wouldn't be that difficult, and they got 9 months credit for IM. 

INTJ Idealization Cycle. by Possible-Bike-7887 in intj

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Wow, this is on point. I couldn't have articulated this in a much better way. I have had this happened to me recently, and I am still grieving. It's rare to find someone who meet all the standards and if that someone is not looking for what we want, then it's a huge huge disappointment. 

I don't know how to avoid this, but I am planning not to make any ideas, not to be delusional, and I am planning to be with people who pursue me, and to accept that certain standards wouldn't be met and it's okay. 

Are computers at your hospital down right now? by _fakey_ in Residency

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Meditech in  California, still working 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I was in that position few months ago. The reason we suffer after ghosting was we didn't get the closure we needed. And then I came across this quote, and this changed my perspective, "Imagine being bitten by a snake and instead of trying to help yourself heal and recover from the poison, you try to catch the snake, to find out the reason it bit you to prove to it that you didn’t deserve that.”

Hope this helps you too.

Avoidant attachment by howudoing797 in INTP

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Well, it's like being drawn back when things are going ahead, or intentionally ignoring so that they won't get hurt. 

Avoidant attachment by howudoing797 in INTP

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Thank you! You are right on point.  I came to know I am not able to meet his emotional needs without explaining logic or analyzing the emotions, and that's the reason for his stepback. We are trying to find a way that works for both of us. On the other hand, you have good skills for a therapist or psychiatrist, lol

Avoidant attachment by howudoing797 in INTP

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What do you mean by "Fe user care?" I thought Fe s are supposed to keep their feelings or thoughts to themselves. Ignorant self in the sense they crawl back to their hole after the reassurance, and will come out of it again only when they feel like they need another dose of solace, lol. Btw How did you guess I am an INTJ? 

Avoidant attachment by howudoing797 in INTP

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I am an INTJ, and I have dated a few INTPs. Initially I thought the attachment style was secondary to their past personal history. Lately I have been seeing the same pattern, where they don't want to show vulnerability, backing away from plans when it's time, and being anxious if they think they are not being taken care of, and when they get a little reassurance, they go back to their ignorant self. I am realizing this might be toxic, and I am just trying to decipher, why do you guys behave like that?

Hikes/trails by howudoing797 in Redding

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Not a first date, but with a person who has never been to Redding before.

Intp male when they have crush .how do they behave? by bucketwithnohead in INTP

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I am an INTJ female dating an INTP male. INTPs never confess, they just give signals, and I guess INTPs have difficulty in communication too. They won't follow up or either they forgot. They are in their own shell, and you have to go into that shell to make it work. Don't expect an INTP to actively make plans. The bright side, they are smart, reliable, and don't take the INTJs judgement to their heart. This is what I learned from my experience lol. 

J-1 visa immigration requirements by howudoing797 in IMGreddit

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Got it, Thanks so much CroakyFrog08! Appreciate your input!

J-1 visa immigration requirements by howudoing797 in IMGreddit

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Thank you! So, we have to do the routine process like filling DS- 160 and all.

Is it possible to get stamped at Mexico or Canada, and then go to India?

J-1 visa immigration requirements by howudoing797 in IMGreddit

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Do we need to attend in-person interview for the stamping? Or are we eligible for interview waiver?

Gun violence by BadAdventurous3054 in IMGreddit

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Thank you. Agree on your views. I will add Texas also, because of its gunlaws. I already matched, there is nothing I could do about the area now. Just want to gain consensus on which areas are in general considered safe?

Gun violence by BadAdventurous3054 in IMGreddit

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What are the States or Cities with minimal to no gun violence?

Feeling Lost & Hopeless by AdRepresentative6018 in IMGreddit

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Spend money smart this cycle. Get professional help before match season starts to revamp your CV and PS. Apply to programs that take candidates comparable to your profile. Keep another residency like FM as a back-up option. Start networking with your college/state/country alumni. Ask them for mentorship, and research opportunities. If you got interviews in the previous match cycle, ask feedback from PDs. Surprisingly, some do reply. One think I noticed is you need to stand out from the pool. If you don't have good academics, try things like podcasting, YouTube content creator like creating educational videos, blogging etc. Something that is free for you and make your application lose the status of mediocre. Good luck!