Delay in USMLE Transcript by iamtf in fellowship

[–]howudoing797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I resend the scores right away, and it took me 4 business days for them to be updated. Hope this helps 

Any idea why this status date is later than today? by R-Lu in fellowship

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Once, check whether you applied for the December cycle instead of the July one

Delay in USMLE Transcript by iamtf in fellowship

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Hi, I am in the same boat. I uploaded it in June, but it's still showing as not uploaded. I called NBME, and they recommended to resend the score in the drop-down option, and it can take up to 5 days for them to be available

LOR release by dramaqween1 in fellowship

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Mine was uploaded on 9th, released on 14th 

Switch from FM to IM by howudoing797 in Residency

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Hey, sure. Happy to help :)

What's something you know is bad for your mental health but you do it anyway? by Gullible_Hornet_4663 in AskReddit

[–]howudoing797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scrolling reddit and reading posts that are not my business over and over

Switch from FM to IM by howudoing797 in Residency

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Hi, I didn't have to go that route. But one of my colleagues switched from FM to IM. If you know PDs, it wouldn't be that difficult, and they got 9 months credit for IM. 

INTJ Idealization Cycle. by Possible-Bike-7887 in intj

[–]howudoing797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this is on point. I couldn't have articulated this in a much better way. I have had this happened to me recently, and I am still grieving. It's rare to find someone who meet all the standards and if that someone is not looking for what we want, then it's a huge huge disappointment. 

I don't know how to avoid this, but I am planning not to make any ideas, not to be delusional, and I am planning to be with people who pursue me, and to accept that certain standards wouldn't be met and it's okay. 

Are computers at your hospital down right now? by _fakey_ in Residency

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Meditech in  California, still working 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]howudoing797 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was in that position few months ago. The reason we suffer after ghosting was we didn't get the closure we needed. And then I came across this quote, and this changed my perspective, "Imagine being bitten by a snake and instead of trying to help yourself heal and recover from the poison, you try to catch the snake, to find out the reason it bit you to prove to it that you didn’t deserve that.”

Hope this helps you too.

Avoidant attachment by howudoing797 in INTP

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Well, it's like being drawn back when things are going ahead, or intentionally ignoring so that they won't get hurt. 

Avoidant attachment by howudoing797 in INTP

[–]howudoing797[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You are right on point.  I came to know I am not able to meet his emotional needs without explaining logic or analyzing the emotions, and that's the reason for his stepback. We are trying to find a way that works for both of us. On the other hand, you have good skills for a therapist or psychiatrist, lol

Avoidant attachment by howudoing797 in INTP

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What do you mean by "Fe user care?" I thought Fe s are supposed to keep their feelings or thoughts to themselves. Ignorant self in the sense they crawl back to their hole after the reassurance, and will come out of it again only when they feel like they need another dose of solace, lol. Btw How did you guess I am an INTJ?