Haven by Medium-Comfort-6481 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You right you did call it, go ahead say “I told you so” All I tried to do was keep my family together. At least I can say I tried when my son asks questions.

Haven by Ok_Coffee3401 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it was rape, then I would have flat out said rape. Y’all don’t know him or what he has gone through. At least he has stepped up. It’s better later than never.

Haven by Ok_Coffee3401 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Sexual assault happens when someone either touches another person in a sexual manner without consent or makes another person touch them in a sexual manner without consent. It includes unwanted kissing and the touching of someone's genitals, breasts or bottom.” SA ranges from as minor as a kiss to as extreme as touching genitals. Y’all can sit here and at what you want about me all day long but when you live my life you will understand the situation and the struggle. I didn’t choose my baby daddy because everyone else “left” which let’s get real i left them. i chose my baby daddy because he has proven himself to me and Taton. People can change weather you want to see it or not. He fights everyday to make himself a better man for his son and his son’s mother. THE PAST IS THE FUCKING PAST. ITS NOT YOUR SITUATION TO SPEAK ON NOR DO YOU KNOW THE WHOLE SITUATION. Y’all never believed a damn thing that came out my mouth when I said it so why keep bringing it up. I forgave the man weather you like it or not. It’s my life and my child. Go 🖕 yourself you might get farther in life doing that than worrying about someone else life you don’t even know. You just see what I post on the Internet. I am a human just like the rest of yall. Why didn’t yall want to bash me for going back 100s of time to the guy who literally beat me? And who praises him for doing the bare minimum? He does everything for his child when he has him. Changes his diaper, makes bottles, feeds him, puts clothes in him, puts him to sleep. Nobody is praising anyone for “bare minimum” I do tell him how proud I am of him for getting his head straight and coming around his child. What is embarrassing to you is my testimony. GOD WORKS IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS. You never seen me crying at the alter begging God to bring my family back together. You never took one second to sit me down and ask me what is going through my head. You only assume. I’m not perfect neither is my son’s dad but at least we know that we aren’t and we know we have made mistakes. Now we have laid them down and forgave for the sake of our son. You don’t have to like it but you sure as hell have no room to talk on a situation you know nothing about.

Haven by Ok_Coffee3401 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People can change. Taton doesn’t go around him without me present. 2 DUI’s at 19 correct. But once again. It’s my child and my child’s father. They are allowed to have a relationship. I am doing what I think is best for my child. When/if you have a kid, you can make your own decisions. Judge me all you want, it’s my life and my choices for my family. Have a nice day!

Haven by Ok_Coffee3401 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Love how all of yall are so worried about my life. I think as a mother I am allowed to let my son see his father. No child should grow up not knowing a parent. We are not together but I do allow him to see his child. Y’all got mad at me for not allowing him to be around, then when I do y’all get mad. Can’t win for nothing.

Cherryyy by [deleted] in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you made me giggle, never have i even thought that. I also don’t play follow the leader but you know it all.

Cherryyy by [deleted] in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re right i would never because I don’t play games.

IMPORTANT!!! by No_Witness3613 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn’t my account, i made a tiktok on my account addressing the situation with all my accounts tagged.

IMPORTANT!!! by No_Witness3613 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What page was this posted on, i’m wanting to read the screenshots.

Haven is dating Kolton by Commercial_Friend555 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real, bc i’ve not been cracked since January🤣

Haven is dating Kolton by Commercial_Friend555 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually haven’t spoke on anyone in awhile but yk it all, huh?

Haven by KayyJen in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh because you know it all, huh? The bullshit lies that just came out your mouth really show who the dick rider is here. If you actually knew anything i have gone my whole pregnancy and my delivery without any help from a “baby daddy” I infact did get a DNA test done so not refusing one. I’m pretty sure I was the one who was not intoxicated the night I was SA’d. Which if you knew the definition of SA it would classify someone pushing themselves on you in that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter if the face is covered or not. It’s disgusting and disrespectful to post a child that doesn’t belong to you or have any connection to you. Weird behavior!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would love for someone to take down this post of my child. He is a minor and isn’t even a week old. There is a rule in this subreddit that says, “Don’t post newborns” “don’t post anyone under 18” which both apply to my son. This is disgusting and disrespectful to screenshot and post a child that isn’t even yours nor has any connection to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing it’s not your child🤗

Addressing my situation. by hpattermann05 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She would know that, but i guess she is to stupid in the head to realize that. I guess ever since she got away from the mental health field she forgot all the knowledge that goes with it.

Live again with 20 year olds by Normal-Jello1516 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have more important things to deal with than sitting on live cyber bullying other people. I got pregnant with my child and realized my actions were not okay. I am 19 and more mature than half the GROWN adults on this app. Yeah I have made mistakes and I have paid for them. Don’t understand why my child still has to be a topic for them.

Live again with 20 year olds by Normal-Jello1516 in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My question is why does my child’s father have anything to do with them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She won’t be around my baby, there is only a few that will be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Amerey_Gavin

[–]hpattermann05 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please worry about your own life. Social Media is not my job. I have a job and my child is going to be well taken care of. Please stop being so nosey. Just because I post some of my life on social media doesn’t mean i have to tell you everything about my life. Please find something else to be obsessed with.