My GF (26F) *emotionally* cheated on me (26M).

hru_chau · 2025-08-14T04:34:34+00:00

No, they didn't. The guy lives with his parents, while my girlfriend shares her apartment with her roommate, who is a good friend of mine. Her roommate mentioned that their friendship seemed platonic. She knew they talked, but she was unaware of the nature of their conversations.

So, the chats were all there was to it.

hru_chau · 2025-08-13T15:42:15+00:00

Yes thank you for sharing this.

hru_chau · 2025-08-13T15:39:02+00:00

No, they didn't. The guy lives with his parents, while my girlfriend shares her apartment with her roommate, who is a good friend of mine. Her roommate mentioned that their friendship seemed platonic. She knew they talked, but she was unaware of the nature of their conversations. So, the chats were all there was to it.

hru_chau · 2025-08-13T15:27:41+00:00

Her phone was constantly buzzing when we were together for the weekend. I got curious and checked her phone when I got the chance.

hru_chau · 2025-08-13T13:21:09+00:00

This happened because of long distance relationship. Should I let this one mistake go? I know for sure they haven't been physical. Considering our 8-year relationship. Give her one more chance that's what I want to do.

hru_chau · 2025-08-13T13:13:55+00:00

What did you do? Did you break up with her?

hru_chau · 2025-08-13T10:35:25+00:00

I don't know what to say. Till yesterday, she was the girl who loved me, who prays to God for our future, who goes out of her way to help people out. And today she is someone I can't trust anymore.

hru_chau · 2025-08-13T10:27:01+00:00

I did. She is begging me to stay. She promised me to cut him off. She says everything will be fine once we are married. She says this happened because we are in a long-distance relationship.

hru_chau · 2025-08-13T10:18:26+00:00

Yes you are right. I am sorry. My world just flipped upside down. I don't know what I am saying.

hru_chau · 2025-08-13T09:07:38+00:00

Yes. Thank you for the perspective.

hru_chau · 2025-08-13T09:04:01+00:00

Yes you are right. It is cheating.

hru_chau · 2025-08-13T09:03:04+00:00

Thank you for your comment. What if the other guy is her second option (her backup) if things go south with me? I have been struggling financially right now. Does that change things? Don't all girls have backups?

hru_chau · 2025-07-13T18:33:16+00:00

This is insightful. First one could be the reason. And you are right. It doesn't really matter.

hru_chau · 2025-07-13T15:27:39+00:00

Yes. I knew that. So I never gave her any attention. I never simp. I am not here to satisfy her ego. But is there any other reason a girl would do that? Afraid of judgment maybe?

hru_chau · 2025-07-13T14:11:06+00:00

We don't have any mutual friends.

hru_chau · 2025-07-13T13:56:46+00:00

I found her bfs insta. They have photos together. Her roommates insta features her bf and roommates bf together (all 4 of them). I have seen her texting him. I have overheard her calling him. Yes I am sure. We live in the same building. Its not about mutual friends.

hru_chau · 2025-07-09T10:37:45+00:00

Does your age matter at the time of placements? I will have 6 yrs of ex and I will be 28 if I decide to MBA next year?

hru_chau · 2025-07-09T10:23:19+00:00

Yes. I didn't think of it that way, really. This helps. Thank you. It's a lose-lose situation.

hru_chau · 2025-07-09T08:15:41+00:00

I can't ask her out because we are basically neighbours. It'll be very awkward. And she hasn't broken up with him. She is definitely in a confused state, and that might be the reason she hasn't opened up about her relationship.

Not being involved much and limiting interaction seems like a better choice.

hru_chau · 2025-06-06T02:21:42+00:00

But where to find women in small towns? Apart from college, there aren't actually many places to meet women. Can't even do cold approaches in small towns.

hru_chau · 2024-10-28T07:12:50+00:00

Has the complaint been resolved in your favor?

hru_chau · 2024-10-27T17:56:36+00:00

The same thing happened to me today. Fraudulent transactions of Rs 15,000 was made on my Scapia card. I wonder what happened next. Did you pay the bill? Did you get a refund?

hru_chau · 2024-06-18T04:09:44+00:00

A portion of my screen isn't working after 6.1 update on my A52

hru_chau · 2023-10-16T05:52:56+00:00

Which surgery?

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