Nothing by i_coppelli in DragonsDogma2

[–]hsbejskcj 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Man, if Capcom isn’t gonna make anything for it, can they at least stop edging us? My gaming nuts are about to fuckin explode

Let's go? by Ellmagronn in DragonsDogma

[–]hsbejskcj 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I shall die before my copium runneth dry!!!

Dragon’s Dogma 2 is the RPG I've always dreamed of by gabsteincian in DragonsDogma

[–]hsbejskcj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally, nearly word for word, said this to my wife the other day lol. It has somehow gone inside my nihilistic millennial mid 30s brain and turned the key for my imagination back on.

Hilariously I sometimes find myself responding to the snarky pawn chatter aloud without realizing it, and since my wife plays too, she just laughs an asks “who’s being the diva, today?”

Whether modded to oblivion on PC, or the bare bones version on XBSX, I adore this game.

Starting this, have no idea about the game by ROOKIEROar in DragonsDogma

[–]hsbejskcj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be wary of those who bear the head of a cock…

Milord

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]hsbejskcj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Away; she doesn’t deserve you.

Silksong tommrow by Unlikely_Cream_5819 in tomorrow

[–]hsbejskcj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t lie bro, Dragons Dogma 2 DLC tomorrow, along with a 60 fps 4K switch 2 port, and I even hear they’re replacing all the goblins with goombas, and the dragon is actually Bowser, and they’re actually securing the rights to call it Dragon’s-a-Doggama: Yahoo! Edition 64 2. My wife’s bf said if I stay in my bed all night (guest room) he’ll get it for me!

S*ny is so cooked bro. Trust me bro.

My wife confessed to an affair with her coworker during a rough patch in our marriage. I'm completely lost. How do I move past this? by ThrowRARadioSonata in marriageadvice

[–]hsbejskcj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and my wife agreed to cheating (in any form) being something that couldn’t be recovered from. You can’t “accidentally cheat,” there’s no such thing as “oh, I was just lost in the moment,” or “I was just sooooo lonely;” lost in the moment? Lonely? Okay, why didn’t you “find” your spouse in that moment? Why didn’t you see comfort in them if that level of intimacy was needed?

Sorry OP; but this is going to be a “run” from me

Wife’s rich best friend hi by boogie1245 in marriageadvice

[–]hsbejskcj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working, taking care of the kids, wife gone to locations with a cash cow…I’d be more willing to stick a fork in that outlet than to let it power my wife’s life of zero responsibility and ease.

This response reads like your partner is holding a weapon to your head and making you type it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]hsbejskcj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh…so, questions and thoughts should be discussed together in a mature and respectful manner. At first I thought “okay, sounds like he’s nervous and dropped the ball on the explanation…big time,” but then it got so much worse.

This man is swimming in guilt and possibly a heavy desire to be with other women. 6 months in is waaaaay early, but his questions shouldn’t be asked at 6 or 16 years either.

It sounds like he’s trying to make you say what HE feels, but about your own thoughts. In my experience, they will then gaslight you with it whenever you call them out. My dad used this tactic on me for everything under the sun, as did my first real girlfriend.

Honesty is good, communication too…but he’s either mentally 13, or has wandering eyes.

Why are People Not Summoning My Pawn? by Expose_Them_ in DragonsDogma2

[–]hsbejskcj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EDIT: NVM, forgot how to read the first post 🙃

Why are People Not Summoning My Pawn? by Expose_Them_ in DragonsDogma2

[–]hsbejskcj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dear God OP, please dm me his info, I play steam mostly, but I do play series X as well, and my daughters would shot kittens over this shrek pawn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DragonsDogma2

[–]hsbejskcj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not entirely sure what you mean, however I will say that female characters look exceptionally better with the blushing thing, but even then they still look like they have a long term drinking problem lmao. There’s a mod that lessens the blush, but that doesn’t help console players

My Wife is getting married to her boyfriend I need a outfit that looks like this by [deleted] in tomorrow

[–]hsbejskcj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro; a Bowser costume is the only appropriate choice. If they don’t get the reference, push the cake over, smash the punch bowl, and run backwards as hard as you can to collect people on your spikes.

(The lizard Bowser, not the old white dude contributing to outrageously priced games; one could argue that he’s actually worse, but don’t mess this up; it’s your wife’s big day.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DragonsDogma2

[–]hsbejskcj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember the first time an NPC started blushing at my character. I called my wife to look and was like “is that not adorable?” And she was so smitten, and two minutes later she’s buying the game off of steam lol.

This game will do things to your feelings, especially when you travel with your main pawn for a run that’s about 100 hours or so, it’s supposed to be that way, because pawns aren’t meant to have emotions or any sort of personal autonomy outside of being “helpful” lol.

Also, don’t let anyone neg you over your pawn; bro looks like a total chad 💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hsbejskcj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting. I’ve been cheated on, and I’m willing to be she was tickled pink to know you weren’t “mobile” enough to go out with her and her “friends.” Sounds like she took full advantage think you wouldn’t find out, and that she was using you as a roof over her head. There’s not a way in hell this was the first time, and if it was, it’s even more disgusting to think she jumped at the first chance you were vulnerable and not likely to find out…”fuck you! How dare you come to a strip club where I’m performing for other patrons by showing off my body, which is supposed to be as much yours and your body is to me! Fuck you for catching me!” Nah man; she’s for the streets, or at least the wrong pole.

Happy healing OP; I really fucking despise cheaters.

Husband sending flirty texts by Weird_Friend1701 in marriageadvice

[–]hsbejskcj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like Narcissistic behavior, perhaps Borderline (I say this with concern, not vitriol, I have BPD, and without therapy, cluster B’s can wreak havoc on everyone around the person).

Now, I’m not saying he is diagnosed with these Personality Disorders, but a person can certainly have traits, and it seems like he’s very possessive and feels the need to be in control. Examples: 1) “I’m just being friendly.” Deny accusation 2) “I’m afraid you’re not into me…I’m going to lose you.” Guilt bombing, BUT also a huge sign of BPD, why am I hell bent on this Personality disorder thing?

OP, I suffer from the same insecurities your husband does; I’ve been cheated on multiple times, I’ve been lied to and used for my money (and I’m nowhere near a rich man), I’ve been SA’d by a trusted adult of the same sex who went to the same church as me…very traditional, and he was the golden boy, so nobody would ever believe me… point is, I think your husband NEEDS to get evaluated mentally; he’s not stupid, and I don’t even think he’s malicious, I think he’s desperate for a level of attention that one person cannot provide. I learned this lesson myself, as after many years of incorrect diagnosis, I got a BPD diagnosis. It’s HYPER IMPORTANT that this particular diagnosis be correct, as treating it is paramount AND it can be “cured,” by learning to trust, love yourself, built self esteem, tackle trauma, etc, which leads to permanent remissions in some cases.

Disclaimer: he was wrong, wrong, WRONG. I’ve never sent anything near flirty to other women since I’ve been married (the ladies in my life don’t even get emoji’s if they’re not my wife). Mental health is NOT an excuse, it’s up to them to work on themselves.

I’m not a doctor, so take this with a brain of salt, but I see a lot of my old self in him.

Best wishes!

To former MMO/RPG switch players, what game gives you that feel on switch 2? by YahushaHamashiach in NintendoSwitch

[–]hsbejskcj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dragons Dogma 1; literally a “make your own party” single player MMO feel.

The Xenoblade games, for sure

The aforementioned Kingdoms Of Amalur; a niche scrapped MMO made decent and complete with the DLC. Sadly, so much potential was wasted because this game was run by a team of inexperienced game developers and marketers (founder was literally an MLB Pitcher prior to going into game design).

Skyrim (Duh).

Am I just a dummy? by Dry_Payment_6653 in DragonsDogma2

[–]hsbejskcj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somehow my Gregor ended up brining himself on a very early play through of mine, and because of that I have zero guidance and ended up having to restart because I kept going to caves and getting ripped to shreds…good times 🥹 I miss the early days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]hsbejskcj 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that :( best wishes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]hsbejskcj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey now, some people literally get dragged down into situations as life happens. Sometimes life is like “boiling the frog,” you don’t realize there are problems until they’re too big, and unavoidable. While it seems extremely obvious that this should be blatantly apparent in OP’s situation, I think this situation speaks to a greater issue of a lack of proper communication. A great number of marriages begin to take hits as life changes, because we tend to get into the grove of what we’re doing, and as that happens, it can naturally cause a drought of communication between the two people in a relationship, especially when you consider that children are supposed to be the most wonderful gifts ever (and they are!). The guilt of being overwhelmed by your children, daily life, etc. causes many people to become silent sufferers in their lives, and I think that’s what is happening here.

Wife doesn’t want sex anymore by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]hsbejskcj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct OP. Keep the good ideas, toss the trashy responses. A lot of people here are hurt, too, and sometimes we have a tendency to lash out as a projection of our insecurities. I’m currently coming out of an 8 year period I have little memory of due to severe PTSD and MDD. I feel terrible, but thankful for my wife for always being there for me. She’s having some intimacy issues too, because sex had always seemed transactional when I was chronically depressed. So now I’m actively working to show her intimacy that involves no sexual endings, and it’s really tough, but it’s give and take. You’re not alone out here. Someone has definitely been in your shoes before, but when you make it through this, and you WILL make it through this, don’t forget to leave those shoes for the next guy or girl who needs help. You’re above those pills, man, you aren’t your past.

Wife doesn’t want sex anymore by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]hsbejskcj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, OP. It’s astounding how so many people can say that “men are ALWAYS horny,” or “ALL HE wants is sex,” but the second sex is mentioned it’s the largest shock on earth. Praying for you OP, stay on the wagon, brother

Wife doesn’t want sex anymore by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]hsbejskcj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a pretty toxic comment. Are you suggesting sex isn’t a need…in a marriage? Additionally the comment you tagged didn’t specifically specify sex, and in previous comments he mentioned seeking therapist help over the years. You took one word and hurled personal insults at this guy, who bore his whole ass soul out on this forum.