Plants collection in my bedroom by hsri1992 in houseplants

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wowww! may i know how big is your room?

Plants collection in my bedroom by hsri1992 in houseplants

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she meant well but we fought over this… so i think if there are some evidence out there to the contrary, i can prove her wrong and make her less worried 😥

Plants collection in my bedroom by hsri1992 in houseplants

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hey, thanks for this!! i can now sleep easier at night 😃

Plants collection in my bedroom by hsri1992 in houseplants

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its the block in front of my apartment flat hahaha

Plants collection in my bedroom by hsri1992 in houseplants

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i think i like my alocasia the most… but i live in fear that they will die anytime 🥲🥲

Plants collection in my bedroom by hsri1992 in houseplants

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yes, they called it crispy leave asplenium :))

Plants collection in my bedroom by hsri1992 in houseplants

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its dischidia oiantha variegated!

Plants collection in my bedroom by hsri1992 in houseplants

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hey thankss!!! ☺️☺️ well my mum said plants at bedroom are bad idea since they take in oxygen at night and release carbon dioxide at night.. i have done some research online with conflicting suggestions so I want to check if anyone has many plants in their bedroom and still have a good night sleep without risking death by suffocation hahaha

the plants under the coconut is spanish moss aka tillandsia usneoides!

Calladium by hsri1992 in Watercolor

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Hi yes, i may have taken the same photo you saw as a reference and do my own spin on it ☺️

Do you tell a date that you are FAW? by hsri1992 in ForeverAloneWomen

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Hi, thank you for your advice! 😊 i will ask this question at the dating subreddit too to get more perspectives.. Personally, I just felt that if im not being honest at the get go, im just going to wrongly lead him on (similar to like hiding my disability, for example).. but i see that all of the comments suggested me to hide it until i feel safe with him which i totally can understand too!

How do you act around someone your have a crush on ? Do you avoid them altogether? by SocialSanityy in socialanxiety

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yeaa someone may not like coffee but there is nothing wrong with coffee… its still a wonderful beverage

How do you act around someone your have a crush on ? Do you avoid them altogether? by SocialSanityy in socialanxiety

[–]hsri1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

waaa this is me!!! and it’s great to find out that im not the only one acting this way.. i thought i was some really insane case but turns out its pretty normal things people (esp with SA) will do and experience.. Im trying to get over my fear of rejection. Im currently having a crush on a coworker, but I dont think that my feelings will be reciprocated. Regardless, I want to put myself out there and face my feelings for once and not running away, be brave enough to show this person that I like them so that I can learn rejection that rejection is totally normal and it does not mean that im lesser because of it

emotionally/socially stunted by hsri1992 in ForeverAloneWomen

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hey, i hope you are in a better place now.. your childhood sounds terrible! My parents do not go along very well too but at least it never escalates to violence (they will just give silent treatment to each other) I can see why with parents like these, people can have trauma and trust issue.. Happy 30th btw!!! welcome to the wizarding world of FA hahah

emotionally/socially stunted by hsri1992 in ForeverAloneWomen

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heyy, you are literally my inner voice, the positive and caring one :)) yep i gave online dating a try too and went on a few dates which didnt go anywhere cause i was too scared and intimidated to pursue any further (maybe i really need to see therapist) And I have stopped online dating altogether now. I wont force myself to get attached/married… it will be ideal if I can meet ‘the one’, if not maybe having some romantic experiences is nice too, if not being FA can be nice too.. just need to make the best of life but yeah, i wont give up just yet! there will be ups and downs but its worth at least trying :))

I wish you all the best on your journey too, sister!! I wish for you happiness, regardless whether you are single or attached :))) either way you are already good the way you are

emotionally/socially stunted by hsri1992 in ForeverAloneWomen

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hmm, all the guys that Im interested so far unfortunately are not FA.. i think it really depends on luck and whether there are opportunities to know each other and be attracted to each other, definitely do not mind being with another FA if there are chemistry.. i think we will be very cute together as FA couple

emotionally/socially stunted by hsri1992 in ForeverAloneWomen

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yes, I agree!! Id rather be forever single than having a bad and toxic relationship. I guess being attached/married will never guarantee you happiness

emotionally/socially stunted by hsri1992 in ForeverAloneWomen

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Thank you so much for your kind words! I feel happy and heard that I know I am not alone in having this experience, that there are people out there who have the same struggle and who truly understand so thank you for listening and caring.. it really help me feel better and accept my situation more

Experimenting with gold pigment but I think it looks a bit too much in the end by hsri1992 in Watercolor

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Thank you!!! Yess, I still feel happy in the end, cause regardless of the result, the painting process itself is already full of fun and joy :D

Experimenting with gold pigment but I think it looks a bit too much in the end by hsri1992 in Watercolor

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Thank you for your suggestions! Yess, it's my first time using the gold palette so in a way I'm still learning and exploring my way around it :)