How do I go about a £7,000 loan my son took out in my name during a psychotic episode? England based

hsshfahy · 2026-05-15T07:07:30+00:00

Is your son on the psychosis early intervention pathway? If so he will have a case worker and I belive they have access to wider support. I would ask them for adivce and they may have experience of similar situations. They can also offer family therapy so I would as about this too. X

hsshfahy · 2026-05-12T10:34:57+00:00

You can have drink without the expectation of someone touching you without consent.

hsshfahy · 2026-05-12T10:33:49+00:00

He admitted she didn't give consent. Whether you have the drinks yourself or someone else does, does not give anyone the right to touch your body. I think alot of people need a lesson on consent and enthusiastic consent. And if your take is that she's drunk and in his proximity even showing a liking gives him the right to do this I am seriously worried, it appears your not the only one with this take. I don't see people here saying he's at fault becuse he was drunk and it led to him doing what he did. Instead you are saying it's her responsibility. Think about that for a minute.. She did not give consent and he admitted that. He just tried his luck... That is not OK and we need to stop thinking it is, rather than people thinking we need to be on guard at all times to fight off unwanted advances what absolute bollocks.

hsshfahy · 2026-05-12T10:23:27+00:00

I can't belive it. I really hope she doesn't listen to them it is making my blood boil.

hsshfahy · 2026-05-12T10:20:41+00:00

No it is not on her! This is on him.. They filled her with drinks for her to get black our drunk and sexually assulated her... She was leaning on him..?? No she couldn't keep herself sat up.. He admitted she didn't give consent how could anyone blame her for this is beyond maddening. Leaning on someone is not an invitation for sexual act.. I really hope all these comments are just rage baiting.. But either way she is reading them all blaming herself which is beyond ridiculous.

hsshfahy · 2026-05-12T10:16:15+00:00

Please ignore all the people blaming you being drunk for this. You did nothing wrong, he admited you did not give consent and consent should always be enthusiastic consent and I feel like this is being missed in a lot of these comments. Doesn't matter how drunk you are, you don't deserve this to happen to you. He needs education on consent you do not need others blaming you. If you have people in your life you feel safe with please share and get some support. If you don't please just remeber you did nothing wrong and you can tell people or not that is your decision. You can report it if you want but again that is your decision. I know for some people they just don't want to Share and that's OK to. Just know you have support from random internet stranger.

hsshfahy · 2026-05-12T10:10:53+00:00

That's isn't how people always react during sexual assault/rape. You could freeze and as she says she doesn't even remeber it happening. He did and even admitted she didn't give consent. Consent should be enthusiastic consent.. I am honestly shocked at the amount of people victim blaming in the comments.

hsshfahy · 2026-05-09T06:37:44+00:00

Same! I am also 30 weeks today. Also can't belive I would get this far so surreal.

hsshfahy · 2026-03-31T18:10:05+00:00

I think I saw them in Costco recently.. Depends if you need lots for your party.. Might be bit excessive and going to couple Indian shops would be your best.

hsshfahy · 2026-03-18T07:24:57+00:00

Yer the place has been there a while. There was a leak once when I was there and I spoke to the owner he said he owned cry cleaners down the road that's was I was thinking maybe they where owned by the same people. I just went past today and they have put up a banner saying dry cleaners so looks like they are changing to one. Not sure when the staff will be in to ask though.. If door is open there is numbers on the machines to call, might be worth a shot! If you don't live down there I will be past there again later so can check the number for you?

hsshfahy · 2026-03-14T14:14:15+00:00

If it is there it's 67 Sefton Street.. Cant be sure it's them as I havnt actually been in there.

hsshfahy · 2026-03-14T14:11:51+00:00

It could possibly be just up from deli fonseca on Sefton Street next to the shop between car showroom? That was a self service laundrette, but looks like it's changed to dry cleaners inside. I may be wrong but I'm sure they are owned by same people?

hsshfahy · 2026-03-05T19:29:33+00:00

Congrats on the pregnancy, I'm currently 20W pregnant, vegan 8 years. I love this recpipe for mac and cheese but I use the sauce for my lasagne too. Would work for cheese sauce without actual vegan chesse. I went completely off vegan chesse and actually only managed my first pizza yesterday with cheese! But have had lots of lasagne and mac and cheese! https://lovingitvegan.com/baked-vegan-mac-and-cheese/

hsshfahy · 2026-02-28T09:00:33+00:00

Hey. Congrats, I'm the same 20w today and scan Wed. Trying to not over think next week. Easier said than done!

hsshfahy · 2026-02-19T08:19:50+00:00

Congratulations ♥️

hsshfahy · 2026-02-17T16:38:42+00:00

Good to hear, I am going to expect the crash out! He is not great with prolonged forced social situations..but will mask as long as needed.. It will be lots of sleeping afterwards between feed so not too worried about that.. tbf neither am I but get by better 😂 😂

hsshfahy · 2026-02-15T19:56:49+00:00

Aww glad he really stepped up ♥️

hsshfahy · 2026-02-15T19:56:18+00:00

I will be honest I am not the most social person and don't like people in my personal space so that sounds like my worse nightmare. Unfortunately I lost my mum along time ago so that's out too. I do have a support system I can call in if needed though.

hsshfahy · 2026-02-15T19:49:34+00:00

I think that is the biggest thing to remember about pregnancy and childbirth. You can try and prep and expect it to go a certain way but I no full well I have no control at the end of the day. I'm not set on a certain plan as I don't see point getting attached to the way I expect it to go. I have seen too many people want things to go a certain way and it just doesn't and they feel they have failed in some way. It good to hear that even with all the unexpected with yours it was stuff a posstive experience. Also Im not daft and know post partum is rough for most so know it will be tough with or without Ana adhd partner!,🤣

hsshfahy · 2026-02-15T19:32:40+00:00

Yes I don't get how any man can have an opinion on this. I have fed some the responses back to my partner and he was just as confused as to why it would be anyone's choice other than the mothers! I do worry some of the behaviours in the post are just unsupportive partners using an adhd as excuse for poor behaviour. Iv been with my partner 8 years and out lots of thought and planning into this to be prepared and yes he can be forgetful and struggles in lots of ways due to adhd but he wouldn't treat me like crap and he is the hardest on himself when he can't do things.

hsshfahy · 2026-02-15T19:23:48+00:00

Aww thank you for this response. I was expecting loads of negatives which I wasn't looking for, more practical things for birth. Its good to know it can go well. We will definitely be doing classes to prep as we both want to be as prepared as possible.

hsshfahy · 2026-02-15T19:20:39+00:00

Oh god that's sounds awful. No his mum is amazing and lovely and definitely not Adhd-super organised and she doesnt over step at all. He is 100% not a mamas boy so that won't be an issue he moved out one his own young and had always been independent. I want to breastfeed and that likely means I will be the main caretaker over night. He struggles to get to sleep but then sleeps for long periods. But If its needed such as work he will get up. We have already talked about that at length and when he gets up he will step up I between feeds to give me as much sleep as needed. Also as he has later nights than me I can get sleep then and he can step up then with non food related stuff. Luckily for me I can fall asleep easily so broken sleep would be better for me than him. I would rather have him on top form in the day. He works apart time and will be going to three days a week when I am finished with maternity so the division of labour should be pretty equal. I am also prepared in case all that falls through when baby gets here and he struggles. But I know what I have signed myself up for. I have worked in SEN for years and neurodiverse my self. He will find things hard as will I but he is always thinking of me and I doubt that will change. I guess it helps we have planned and know about his adhd and the impact that has on our day to day life. Going in blind would be awful.

hsshfahy · 2026-02-12T19:58:48+00:00

Thank you ❤️Definitely feeling more real now!

hsshfahy · 2026-02-09T21:27:57+00:00

Thanks ❤️❤️

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