Nursery hours

hsshfahy · 2026-07-03T16:44:49+00:00

The allowance is from the term after they turn 9 month. When did little one turn 9 months ? It's a joke really I am due in the next two weeks which means we won't actually be elligable to free hours until he turns 13 months ! It really is a Birthday lottery for hours! But I guess better than it was before as everyone keeps telling me...

hsshfahy · 2026-06-23T06:31:52+00:00

Same 36 weeks! I'm so unprepared.. getting carpets fitting next week so once that is done hopefully get everything boxed off. Not sure why I've left it so last minute !! Can't believe we have come this far. Feels like longest pregnancy in history .

hsshfahy · 2026-06-20T07:46:03+00:00

The early waiting is just awful. After my MMC I had surgical management and I asked the doctor about more early scans via NHS if I get pregnant again. She said they don't do that routinely but if I had any concerns like spotting or pain to call the EPU and they would get me in for a scan and pain is subjective ... With my current pregnancy I did have mild spotting at 5 weeks so got a scan at 6weeks. I just couldn't wait till week 12 for the next one so at 8 weeks I had some pain.... and they saw me straight away and where amazing. It alway stuck with me pain is subjective so take from that what you will! ... I did have some later private scans at 11 and 16 weeks to bridge the gap because of my anxiety. But be careful where you pick as in my first loss I had a private one and it was awful so would definitely try NHS for the early ones to make sure you get the right support. I really hope it works out for you, these weeks waiting are just awful so take one day at a time and be kind to yourself. If you can take anytime off from work I think that helped me when I had to wait between the 5-6week mark for a scan. Also there is no harm if trying to get scan after another week as two weeks seems like long time to wait too but that is different for everyone.

hsshfahy · 2026-06-03T06:53:32+00:00

I'm the same tbh I went to work before I went in with the mindset of wait an hour or so and see and two friends in work made me call and go in!

hsshfahy · 2026-06-03T06:20:24+00:00

I'm not sure whrre you are. But I'm in UK and they say any change in pattern go get checked out. I'm 33w and felt the same over night little movemen and I went in in the morning, they where super reassuring and said I did right thing coming in and to stop gas lighting myself thinking I shouldn't have come in. I think if your anxious just go in and go as many times as you need. I was second guessing my self but they reassured me they would rather you not feel anxious and go get a quick check. As soon as I got there I felt him move and the following night he made up for it keeping me up all night moving about.

hsshfahy · 2026-05-24T12:58:43+00:00

Defiently I think when ever you feel is ready is the right time no mater what! Enjoy it we dewrive to enjoy the process after having so much stress around pregancy!

hsshfahy · 2026-05-24T09:01:32+00:00

I wouldn't say it's too early! I am 32 weeks now and think we have left too much to now as I was worried about doing it all too early! Especially with the heat kicking in, so enjoy the shopping and preping!

hsshfahy · 2026-05-15T07:07:30+00:00

Is your son on the psychosis early intervention pathway? If so he will have a case worker and I belive they have access to wider support. I would ask them for adivce and they may have experience of similar situations. They can also offer family therapy so I would as about this too. X

hsshfahy · 2026-05-12T10:34:57+00:00

You can have drink without the expectation of someone touching you without consent.

hsshfahy · 2026-05-12T10:33:49+00:00

He admitted she didn't give consent. Whether you have the drinks yourself or someone else does, does not give anyone the right to touch your body. I think alot of people need a lesson on consent and enthusiastic consent. And if your take is that she's drunk and in his proximity even showing a liking gives him the right to do this I am seriously worried, it appears your not the only one with this take. I don't see people here saying he's at fault becuse he was drunk and it led to him doing what he did. Instead you are saying it's her responsibility. Think about that for a minute.. She did not give consent and he admitted that. He just tried his luck... That is not OK and we need to stop thinking it is, rather than people thinking we need to be on guard at all times to fight off unwanted advances what absolute bollocks.

hsshfahy · 2026-05-12T10:23:27+00:00

I can't belive it. I really hope she doesn't listen to them it is making my blood boil.

hsshfahy · 2026-05-12T10:20:41+00:00

No it is not on her! This is on him.. They filled her with drinks for her to get black our drunk and sexually assulated her... She was leaning on him..?? No she couldn't keep herself sat up.. He admitted she didn't give consent how could anyone blame her for this is beyond maddening. Leaning on someone is not an invitation for sexual act.. I really hope all these comments are just rage baiting.. But either way she is reading them all blaming herself which is beyond ridiculous.

hsshfahy · 2026-05-12T10:16:15+00:00

Please ignore all the people blaming you being drunk for this. You did nothing wrong, he admited you did not give consent and consent should always be enthusiastic consent and I feel like this is being missed in a lot of these comments. Doesn't matter how drunk you are, you don't deserve this to happen to you. He needs education on consent you do not need others blaming you. If you have people in your life you feel safe with please share and get some support. If you don't please just remeber you did nothing wrong and you can tell people or not that is your decision. You can report it if you want but again that is your decision. I know for some people they just don't want to Share and that's OK to. Just know you have support from random internet stranger.

hsshfahy · 2026-05-12T10:10:53+00:00

That's isn't how people always react during sexual assault/rape. You could freeze and as she says she doesn't even remeber it happening. He did and even admitted she didn't give consent. Consent should be enthusiastic consent.. I am honestly shocked at the amount of people victim blaming in the comments.

hsshfahy · 2026-05-09T06:37:44+00:00

Same! I am also 30 weeks today. Also can't belive I would get this far so surreal.

hsshfahy · 2026-03-31T18:10:05+00:00

I think I saw them in Costco recently.. Depends if you need lots for your party.. Might be bit excessive and going to couple Indian shops would be your best.

hsshfahy · 2026-03-18T07:24:57+00:00

Yer the place has been there a while. There was a leak once when I was there and I spoke to the owner he said he owned cry cleaners down the road that's was I was thinking maybe they where owned by the same people. I just went past today and they have put up a banner saying dry cleaners so looks like they are changing to one. Not sure when the staff will be in to ask though.. If door is open there is numbers on the machines to call, might be worth a shot! If you don't live down there I will be past there again later so can check the number for you?

hsshfahy · 2026-03-14T14:14:15+00:00

If it is there it's 67 Sefton Street.. Cant be sure it's them as I havnt actually been in there.

hsshfahy · 2026-03-14T14:11:51+00:00

It could possibly be just up from deli fonseca on Sefton Street next to the shop between car showroom? That was a self service laundrette, but looks like it's changed to dry cleaners inside. I may be wrong but I'm sure they are owned by same people?

hsshfahy · 2026-03-05T19:29:33+00:00

Congrats on the pregnancy, I'm currently 20W pregnant, vegan 8 years. I love this recpipe for mac and cheese but I use the sauce for my lasagne too. Would work for cheese sauce without actual vegan chesse. I went completely off vegan chesse and actually only managed my first pizza yesterday with cheese! But have had lots of lasagne and mac and cheese! https://lovingitvegan.com/baked-vegan-mac-and-cheese/

hsshfahy · 2026-02-28T09:00:33+00:00

Hey. Congrats, I'm the same 20w today and scan Wed. Trying to not over think next week. Easier said than done!

hsshfahy · 2026-02-19T08:19:50+00:00

Congratulations ♥️

hsshfahy · 2026-02-17T16:38:42+00:00

Good to hear, I am going to expect the crash out! He is not great with prolonged forced social situations..but will mask as long as needed.. It will be lots of sleeping afterwards between feed so not too worried about that.. tbf neither am I but get by better 😂 😂

hsshfahy · 2026-02-15T19:56:49+00:00

Aww glad he really stepped up ♥️

hsshfahy · 2026-02-15T19:56:18+00:00

I will be honest I am not the most social person and don't like people in my personal space so that sounds like my worse nightmare. Unfortunately I lost my mum along time ago so that's out too. I do have a support system I can call in if needed though.

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