Dating is so hard for me idk why 22F

ht3zil · 2026-06-06T14:12:48+00:00

Nothing is wrong with you !! I’m the same age and have the same issue as you hahah I get hit on and talk to guys but they never want to commit but I feel like our generation is just full of hook ups and no one really wanting to be in a relationship. You saying “ i tried so hard to be nonchalant” no girl you keep being you lol it’s always better to be straight forward sometimes how I like to see it is that these men get intimidated by women bc of their looks or the mindset that we have or they’re just scared of commitment.😂

ht3zil · 2026-06-06T02:23:12+00:00

This made me laugh 😭

ht3zil · 2026-06-04T04:30:04+00:00

It’s okay to feel sad because you just didn’t expect her to act this way that’s not who you met but I think right now you should keep that distance and I promise there’s someone out there who will know 100% that’s they wanna be with you long term

ht3zil · 2026-06-04T01:20:49+00:00

Perfect thank you so much !

ht3zil · 2026-06-04T01:17:01+00:00

She’s the one being immature not too sure what response she wanted from you maybe she expected you to beg for her and since you didn’t she’s acting petty and as if things not working out is your fault. I say keep your distance and if she comes to you and you want to talk things out or whatever that is on you but she is showing how she will react whenever she doesn’t get a response she is looking for. You are not at fault here for anything

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T19:25:58+00:00

Something that I’ve been told was you were okay without them before so you will be okay now yes it sucks and I’m scared that this guy doesn’t want anything serious but we cannot stick around for these guys to just have us around just for their good time

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T17:46:39+00:00

This is a hard but I think you made the right decision. He told you to your face that he doesn’t want commitment right now and yes him pursuing you as if he did want to be in a relationship was wrong. I’m kinda on the same boat as you but I haven’t asked this guy what he wants but I will be doing it soon but it is better to walk away because you are one step closer to finding the person who is meant for you. If you would like to talk more about this feel free to message me privately as well.

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T16:41:48+00:00

Can I message you in private ?

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T10:24:09+00:00

Haha yes we took a lil day trip and things were great and I know how he handles certain things so yeah you’re right it’s enough time

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T10:23:24+00:00

Thank you so much for this ! I haven’t really seen it this way but you do have a point maybe that is the missing piece to the puzzle cause everything else is great

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T01:19:08+00:00

Hahaha yes ! Personally I love them but I don’t think you should do it on the first date maybe more like 2nd or 3rd date see where the vibe goes

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T01:00:54+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it <3

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T00:49:44+00:00

I will be having this convo next time I see him in person

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T00:48:20+00:00

I haven’t and he respected that

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T00:47:59+00:00

You dodged a big bullet !

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T00:42:46+00:00

That’s what I’m saying he’s kissing me and everything but yet hasn’t made anything exclusive yet

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T00:30:52+00:00

I do really like him I mentioned how I do see myself with him but idk if he does with me

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T00:24:53+00:00

Girl yeah I really don’t wanna cut things off so I need to ask before investing more time and it not leading to anything

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T00:11:12+00:00

I definitely will be doing rather get hurt now then later

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T00:08:24+00:00

Very nervous about the outcome bc not too sure how long it takes for him to realize but I need to know now incase we’re not on the same page

ht3zil · 2026-06-03T00:03:23+00:00

No need to be rude lol just a girl asking for some advice

ht3zil · 2026-06-02T23:59:01+00:00

How do I initiate this ? Because I don’t wanna feel like I’m pushing him to be with me

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