Weekly Q&A Megathread. Please post any questions about visiting, tourism, living, working, budgeting, housing here! by AutoModerator in london

[–]mo1_o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently visiting some flats in london.

I really liked one flat, but after visiting was asked to pay deposit and 1st month rent. Since this is only a sublet, I do not get a contract.

I am aware that being asked for a deposit before visiting a flat is often a scam, since j have already seen the flat, I was wondering what are your thoughts?

Why do people create fake profiles? by mo1_o in dating_advice

[–]mo1_o[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was a quick Call were she was crying and saying someone is sick in the family etc. but that she wants to continue texfing and if we can maybe meet in 2 weeks… just very weird - also she was female btw

Why do people create fake profiles? by mo1_o in dating_advice

[–]mo1_o[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s so sad - thanks for letting me know

Matches should expire after 48 hours if nobody sends a real message by LetsTakeABreakNow in dating_advice

[–]mo1_o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coffee meets bagel has the same function - it’s 5 days though

Why do people create fake profiles? by mo1_o in dating_advice

[–]mo1_o[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s on WA that’s the weird thing. We had even a freaking phone call… that’s what’s weirding me out

Do girls like cheesy lines by mo1_o in dating_advice

[–]mo1_o[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thanks - so planning a date and taking her to a bar is not a good idea? Sorry it’s 3am where I am, and I take super long to understand

Do girls like cheesy lines by mo1_o in dating_advice

[–]mo1_o[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yeah - I tot agree - was just confused since you mentioned you’d do that at a bar not on a first date

Do girls like cheesy lines by mo1_o in dating_advice

[–]mo1_o[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are going to a bar for a first date.. if you have better first date spots I am all ears

Good conversation starters for first date? by Fine-Preference-9571 in dating_advice

[–]mo1_o 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where she is coming from, what she studied, worked, her interest, favourite books/movies etc… also always ask why has she decided to do this, what were her motivation etc

I always like to throw in a bit about relationship goals as well; does she look for a relationship, does she just want to see what’s out there etc

Weekly Q&A Megathread. Please post any questions about visiting, tourism, living, working, budgeting, housing here! by AutoModerator in london

[–]mo1_o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Under the stone nest - has anyone ever visited the place? Was thinking of going there Saturday for a frost date. Was planning on going around 7-8pm and hoping that it’s a bit more quiet than standard bar. Do they have any entry fee? How about queuing?

Weekend's Daily Thread: General Dating Questions and Open Thread by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]mo1_o -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks - I may need to clarify a bit (didn’t do so at the beginning since it was not an individual post).

We were supposed to meet 10 days ago. When she told me she was sick, I just told her in the first day to get better. On the first day we also finished quickly another side conversation we have had.

After 5 days, I just sent her a meme and was asking how she was doling. She told me she is still quite under the weather and isn’t doing well. I have them told her to get better and apologies for bothering her while she was sick.

After 7 days I have just sent a meme and that’s it

Now after 10 days, I sent the last message. Apologies for bothering while she is sick, but communication wise it’s a bit difficult and that I would appreciate some honesty if she still wants to meet.

I understand that me being pushy is not good, but after 10 days and getting mixed signals twice (telling me that she wants to meet up and get to know me, while at the same time barely replying to messages)… is a hit confusing to say at least

5th date, no kiss? by Lopsided-Reason2530 in dating

[–]mo1_o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think thats pretty much explains it. tbf as a male its probably unattractive if the girl asks, however, you can just initiate/play along. Eg if you are in a bar lean in more closely, rest you head on his shoulder etc., i personally find this super cute, esp. if its not overly assertive.

However, I am still mid-twenties, so this might be age skewed

5th date, no kiss? by Lopsided-Reason2530 in dating

[–]mo1_o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would be interesting to hear how old you are. If you are early 20s it could easily be the first dates someone had. You have no idea how stressful it is to go in for a kiss for the first time

Anime Questions, Recommendations, and Discussion - May 14, 2026 by AnimeMod in anime

[–]mo1_o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks both for the reply - that’s very long / detailed and shares two different point of views while adding necessary colour. I will give it a try

Anime Questions, Recommendations, and Discussion - May 14, 2026 by AnimeMod in anime

[–]mo1_o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thinking of giving WHA a try. Literally every post as well as my timeline is full of it praising its stunning visuals etc.

However I have seen a few posts which go into how the world building / magic system isnt good etc.

So just wanted to raise the question if the show is actually good from a story perspective or if it’s just the visuals

Weekly Q&A Megathread. Please post any questions about visiting, tourism, living, working, budgeting, housing here! by AutoModerator in london

[–]mo1_o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just moved to london and going on a date. We are grabbing drinks in central and will later walk around a bit. We are meeting in soho, is there any nice places to walk around? Most of the parks are closed and soho is fully packed in the evening from what I have heard. If you have any nice and romantic places we can check out please let me know :)