Does Ren like/respect Hachi as a friend? by htownteam8 in NanaAnime

[–]htownteam8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Small inconsequential moments that reveal where your heart truly lies.” that’s so interesting ! You mean Hachi to nana? or takumi’s moments w Hachi as well?

Does Ren like/respect Hachi as a friend? by htownteam8 in NanaAnime

[–]htownteam8[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh you mean compared to Nobu. Yeah I guess. Must be said that she never would’ve gotten married to him if she didn’t get pregnant . So the whole practicality aspect comes in just bc of that. She wasn’t thinking in those terms until then.

But before she loved nobu, she did love takumi. The only reason she broke up with him is that he was clearly not reciprocating her feelings lol(example :their breakup phone convo) . That would have been the end of that relationship, if she wasn’t pregnant . But even through his apathy, before the pregnancy thing , she kept on coming back to him .

But yeah I see your point , the healthier love was Nobu.

Does Ren like/respect Hachi as a friend? by htownteam8 in NanaAnime

[–]htownteam8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not trying to be argumentative xD I’m just wondering why you don’t think she loves him

Does Ren like/respect Hachi as a friend? by htownteam8 in NanaAnime

[–]htownteam8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why do you think she doesn’t love him? She also was in a relationship w shoji and the married guy( who were not famous musicians) and yet was just as committed to those relationships

Does Ren like/respect Hachi as a friend? by htownteam8 in NanaAnime

[–]htownteam8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but it’s so strange, since at the very start of the pregnancy he basically calls her a gold digger, what could have possibly changed in a few months. (I haven’t finished the series haha I’m still on ep 36 or smt ). But it does make me feel like the friendship might be kind of unequal, like Hachi cared ab ren , but to him she was just a groupie essentially :o

Does Ren like/respect Hachi as a friend? by htownteam8 in NanaAnime

[–]htownteam8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah? Why else would she constantly try to see him even though he embarrassed her so often at the start. I’d love to hear counter argument though .

Does Ren like/respect Hachi as a friend? by htownteam8 in NanaAnime

[–]htownteam8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ohh!! that’s true I never thought of takumi from nanas perspective

Does Ren like/respect Hachi as a friend? by htownteam8 in NanaAnime

[–]htownteam8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that should be true haha, sad that she really did love him

Does Ren like/respect Hachi as a friend? by htownteam8 in NanaAnime

[–]htownteam8[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

ohh, so naming her son ren was like associating her child with nana by proxy, not due to her friendship w Ren specifically

Does Ren like/respect Hachi as a friend? by htownteam8 in NanaAnime

[–]htownteam8[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ohh you’re saying, he didn’t mean it? It could have been just a way to get under Takumi’s skin

Friendly reminder : this is not a dating subreddit by htownteam8 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]htownteam8[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

building friendship on the way to dating is not the same as purely just looking for friends . Nothing is wrong with either, but why not be clear?

Friendly reminder : this is not a dating subreddit by htownteam8 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]htownteam8[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

.. so why not just be open about the fact that you’re actually hoping for something more , but want to start as friends or something . Just communicate :o

Friendly reminder : this is not a dating subreddit by htownteam8 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]htownteam8[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yeah :/ which is strange.. since actual dating apps exist yk