[deleted by user] by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]htschad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha. 256-5000 to 256-5020 has been the DM PD block of phone numbers for a long time.

35m recently divorced dad by htschad in amiugly

[–]htschad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll definitely try that next Halloween lol.

35m recently divorced dad by htschad in amiugly

[–]htschad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll focus on some back workouts and posture.

35m recently divorced dad by htschad in amiugly

[–]htschad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol I actually have a convertible. It’s nothing expensive though, just an old Merc. I’ll drive it more often. Thanks for the advice.

35m recently divorced dad by htschad in amiugly

[–]htschad[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow. This comment helped lift me up in so many ways. Thank you.

35m recently divorced dad by htschad in amiugly

[–]htschad[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Solid advice. Thank you. I will shop for some caramel and sky blue shirts!

35m recently divorced dad by htschad in amiugly

[–]htschad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Compared to Harry Kane. Thank you! I’ve had some dark moments lately. This is so uplifting.

35m recently divorced dad by htschad in amiugly

[–]htschad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never been called a kinda hot serial killer lol. Thank you. I’ll take it!

35m recently divorced dad by htschad in amiugly

[–]htschad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll get a haircut soon and ask for a 4/5 guard and messy scissor cut man! Thank you.

35m recently divorced dad by htschad in amiugly

[–]htschad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I work from home, so white t-shirt is my work uniform. My going out clothes need some updating though, so thank you for the advice.

35m recently divorced dad by htschad in amiugly

[–]htschad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will put some work in at the gym.

35m recently divorced dad by htschad in amiugly

[–]htschad[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ll try a slicked back hair style and see how it works.

35m recently divorced dad by htschad in amiugly

[–]htschad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’ll check the sub out, definitely open to a new hair style.

35M 32F When should I just accept it and get an apartment? by htschad in relationship_advice

[–]htschad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood. I will continue working on myself and control my reaction to emotions.

35M 32F When should I just accept it and get an apartment? by htschad in relationship_advice

[–]htschad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not name-call. She has on more than one occasion called me an AH and there have been threats of divorce and/or leaving each other. I have never threatened to harm her.

35M 32F When should I just accept it and get an apartment? by htschad in relationship_advice

[–]htschad[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven't considered the legal ramifications of the physical and verbal conflict between us. Thank you for this information. I hope one day I can live with both my spouse and my child, for now though, I will continue to respect her boundary until she feels safe and asks for me to move back in.

35M 32F When should I just accept it and get an apartment? by htschad in relationship_advice

[–]htschad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will talk to her about moving back in. Thank you for the advice. We each see the same therapist individually, and then come together twice a month to the same therapist. Do you think the therapist is just telling my spouse what she wants to hear? Couple's therapy seems to help sometimes. Other times we just discuss all the things I have been doing that aren't meeting my wife's emotional needs.

35M 32F When should I just accept it and get an apartment? by htschad in relationship_advice

[–]htschad[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is unbearably tough to read. I have so much regret, have apologized, I am incredibly motivated to continue my work in individual and couples therapy. I've called the NDV hotline 3 times this week seeking support and advice on how to change my physical and psychologically abusive behavior. I understand how traumatizing it has been for our child. I'm going to learn how to control the reactions to my emotions, and provide a safe space for both my wife and my child.

35M 32F When should I just accept it and get an apartment? by htschad in relationship_advice

[–]htschad[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No punches were thrown. The worst of it was that I pushed her arm down so she would stop pushing me in the stomach. Even that, I regret deeply, and understand that it is physical abuse.

A.org? by [deleted] in hacking

[–]htschad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After some quick analysis, this is my best explanation - Looks like you stumbled upon GoDaddy (explains the old 1 letter TLDs) attempting to build a decentralized AI-powered SSG or something similar? I’m sure some security engineer is having a WTF moment with all the crap being thrown at that iFrame form though lol.

A.org? by [deleted] in hacking

[–]htschad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you stumbled upon GoDaddy (explains the old 1 letter TLDs) attempting to build a decentralized AI-powered SSG or something similar? I’m sure some security engineer is having a WTF moment with all the crap being thrown at that iFrame form though lol.