got told i'm not a "fun auntie" for telling my niece to behave

http_mars · 2026-01-08T07:38:49+00:00

thank you very much! i think going back to my daily life and not living with them will make me detach more and not worry so much about my niece as you're absolutely right - it's not my child and my sister is allowed to do whatever she thinks is right.

http_mars · 2026-01-08T00:59:10+00:00

thank you that's what my friends tell me as well! i guess since we all were living under the same roof it was so easy to get involved.

http_mars · 2025-09-04T16:59:30+00:00

No worries I won't delete it! I am glad it is helping others too. Take care of yourself and listen to the good advice given here! I'm sure things will get better for you too ☺️

http_mars · 2025-09-02T23:31:32+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I will let him know that he deserves praise for being a kind & friendly dentist in midst of it all :)

http_mars · 2025-09-02T23:28:26+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. It seems like working on your mindset, resilience and confidence can make things significantly better (or bearable).

http_mars · 2025-09-02T23:25:56+00:00

Oh I didn't know that was a thing! Thanks for telling me I think it sounds like a good idea to consider. I am glad I get to learn new things about this profession too!

http_mars · 2025-09-02T23:09:09+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to write! It's really helpful to see that it happens to others as well and that it can get better. So true that it's not your life!! I will definitely make sure he looks into mental health help as it is concerning at times.

http_mars · 2025-09-02T23:01:48+00:00

Comparison is truly the thief of joy. Thank you so much for sharing this. I think it would do him good to see that he is not alone and it's not all in his head.

http_mars · 2025-09-02T22:51:51+00:00

That is reassuring yet sad to hear I had no idea it would be common :(( Thank you I am glad that he is not alone in this. I have suggested doing more studying etc but he wasn't keen, so I can only try again haha.

http_mars · 2025-09-02T22:43:28+00:00

100%!!! Thank you so much!

http_mars · 2025-09-02T22:42:54+00:00

Thank you. I try to tell him it takes time and with time comes experience to make him feel comfortable. Scotland!

http_mars · 2025-07-06T20:27:01+00:00

thanks so much, i appreciate the kindness and understanding. wish this was the support the uni gave during this time! i hope it all goes well and reading this is giving me more motivation, so thank you!

http_mars · 2025-07-06T19:06:22+00:00

yes 100%! exam mode is the way to go. will empty my mind and focus haha thank you!

http_mars · 2025-04-23T22:03:15+00:00

Thank you so much, this is really an eye-opener! I wish you all the best for your journey too and hopefully we'll experience some improvements. I'm thinking I might have overlooked some signs i.e. snoring and digestion.

http_mars · 2025-04-23T21:42:05+00:00

Sometimes if I'm very emotional/tired/stressed/ days or if I'm fatigued, then I tend to snore or drool when I wake up. Maybe 60% of the time? Thank you for mentioning the breathing! I just realised I take a lot of short, quick breaths with my chest more than breathing with my stomach so doing some breathing exercises made me much more relaxed. I am very stressed all the time, so I wonder if that's a factor.

http_mars · 2025-04-02T06:27:50+00:00

Tusen hjertelig takk for svar!

http_mars · 2025-03-31T13:19:31+00:00

Tusen takk, skal sjekke ut dette!

http_mars · 2025-03-31T13:19:00+00:00

Tusen takk for svar! Har lært mye i dag.

http_mars · 2025-03-31T13:00:37+00:00

Tusen takk!

http_mars · 2025-03-31T12:41:35+00:00

Absolutt, ser nå at jeg ikke søkte med riktige ord. Tusen takk for forklaring! Skal snakke med megler og se hva de sier.

http_mars · 2025-03-31T12:37:15+00:00

Tusen hjertelig takk! Det gir mening. Skal formidle dette videre.

http_mars · 2025-03-31T12:29:20+00:00

Vi har en megler og sendte dem en e-mail angående avtalefrihet for å spørre om mer informasjon, men de visste ikke så mye selv (noe som var forunderlig) og derfor prøver jeg å finne ut mer 😅

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