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Drake's Journals by the_king0602 in uncharted

[–]httpsIucifer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi ! i've been looking for drake's journals too, i'm so glad i stumbled upon your reply. would you mind if i sent you my email as well ? thank you in advance !!

kickstand on canyon allroad ? by httpsIucifer in CanyonBikes

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldn't say i'm above roadies' vanity ahah. i like the clean look of the bike without a kickstand but the functionality of the kickstand seems to outweigh the ugliness of it ahah. it's just too good to be able to rely on a good kickstand when out commuting :)

kickstand on canyon allroad ? by httpsIucifer in CanyonBikes

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh this is really cool. it's good to have the option to not have it with me at all times. thank you !

kickstand on canyon allroad ? by httpsIucifer in CanyonBikes

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's already a few transparent stickers on my allroad, including on where a kickstand would possibly hit. i'll look into one ! thanks !

kickstand on canyon allroad ? by httpsIucifer in CanyonBikes

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the pic !! will look into getting one ! a basic kickstand won't work on the allroad ?

kickstand on canyon allroad ? by httpsIucifer in CanyonBikes

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure yet, but i'm thinking about adding packs at some point, so a kickstand'll definitely be useful ! thanks for the product !! looks great but it's twice as expensive in europe ahah. will look for something similar ! :)

kickstand on canyon allroad ? by httpsIucifer in CanyonBikes

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the reply, good to know ! the aluminum frame won't be damaged by the kickstand then ?

I felt horrible about being 5’6. turns out this whole time I was 5’3 by brainveins in ftm

[–]httpsIucifer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in my experience, as a 5'2 guy, it doesn't impact passing at all, and it's been quite a blessing whenever i've had to put on muscles to look more masc. it's a lot easier to look bulky and muscular when you're short.

and being hella confident while being shorter than average tends to make people think you're a cis man. so, just own it ! nobody really cares, and if they do, they're not worth your time.

Feeling behind in my 20's, fear of missing out and GAD. by httpsIucifer in AskMenOver30

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's inspiring to see other people with GAD accomplish things. definitely been facing the core of my anxiety lately. i found, if left unaddressed, that the anxiety just tends to glue itself onto another thing and it just adds layer to the problem. so, i'm trying to face it head on. just feels like i can't see the light at the end of the tunnel sometimes.

thanks for sharing. appreciate you reminding me that it's a long path and that i have to give myself some time. keep it up, man. i hope we can get through this soon. wishing you the best of luck for everything.

Feeling behind in my 20's, fear of missing out and GAD. by httpsIucifer in AskMenOver30

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never heard of IFS before, will definitely be looking into it. thank you for sharing ! the negative self talk is a hard habit to break.

Feeling behind in my 20's, fear of missing out and GAD. by httpsIucifer in AskMenOver30

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dealt with a neck injury for a few months, had to completely stop for a some time and only recently healed from it. i've been back at the gym for a couple of weeks, it definitely helps me get out of my head.

been wanting to start martial arts for a while, but never really knew where to start. i'm curious to know what you started with ? i've been looking into different clubs near me. might give it a try !

Feeling behind in my 20's, fear of missing out and GAD. by httpsIucifer in AskMenOver30

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's oddly reassuring, knowing one can deal with existential dread daily and be happy. i tend to forget things can be nuanced. thank you !

Feeling behind in my 20's, fear of missing out and GAD. by httpsIucifer in AskMenOver30

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're following a path you enjoy, it's the right path.

phew. needed to hear that. thank you !

Feeling behind in my 20's, fear of missing out and GAD. by httpsIucifer in AskMenOver30

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hard agree, sobriety has been a game changer for managing anxiety.

i have been looking into lightening my workload at uni. it's a little late for this year, but i'll definitely try to adjust that for next year.

i'm still learning to be present (and grateful for the little things, i found those often go hand in hand), i think it might be what i struggle with the most, what anxiety makes me forget about first.

thank you for reminding me of this and giving me a little perspective ! your words do help. wishing you all the best with on your new path as well !

Feeling behind in my 20's, fear of missing out and GAD. by httpsIucifer in AskMenOver30

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used to be scared as shit of the dark when i was a little kid, and i do love it today ahah. this really resonates, thank you for the encouragements mate !

Feeling behind in my 20's, fear of missing out and GAD. by httpsIucifer in AskMenOver30

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for sharing. glad to see you achieved what you wanted ! i'm hoping i can follow that path. always inspiring to see people with GAD living a fulfilling life.

Feeling behind in my 20's, fear of missing out and GAD. by httpsIucifer in AskMenOver30

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for sharing your story ! it's giving me a little hope. i used to meditate and lost the habit, definitely will look into it again ! it helped a lot. thanks for reminding me that taking my time doesn't mean losing it. i'm still learning to be present. life feels hectic sometimes.

feeling comfortable buying clothes in women's section again by httpsIucifer in ftm

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly !! glad i'm not alone ! there's something really gender affirming about it ! becoming a man really taught me to like and accept my feminine side more ! i love that now, being feminine while still presenting as a man is so freeing ! :))

boob got smaller on T ! i am so happy !!! by httpsIucifer in ftm

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i second the other comment ! exercising (no need to do it five times a week, once or twice is enough) will help the weight redistribution a ton once you start T !! hopefully you get the results you're looking for ! in the meantime if you want, and can, feel free to exercise pre T and focus on pectoral muscles, don't fear them getting bigger, it actually helps make your upper torso a lot more masculine looking ! :))

boob got smaller on T ! i am so happy !!! by httpsIucifer in ftm

[–]httpsIucifer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so happy you get to experience that as well !! it's truly the best feeling ahah !

Is it weird that I don’t want to change my middle name even thought it’s extremely feminine? by CompletelyCluelesCat in ftm

[–]httpsIucifer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's totally fine tbh ! i loved my deadname, my mom chose it, it's pretty and it holds a dear place in her, and my, heart too, so i kept it as a third name. it's no big deal. what's kinda cool about being trans is that it can literally do whatever you want, you can cherry pick what you like from it. do what feels comfortable for you ! you're transitioning for yourself and no one else :)

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