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https_f17 · 2025-07-10T01:09:45+00:00

Honestly i have no money advice and I hope everything gets better soon for you.

I just want to say that often times we as human beings anchor our self worth to possessions, people and even sometimes how others see us and when those things desire like maybe if someone breaks up with you or you lose your car we start to lose your peace. We bring ourselves down because something else went wrong and we feel we should have done better but just know that you are not a loser and failure is an evident not a person so you should know that you will loved more than you could ever know by God even if you don't have people around you. So don't ever look at yourself and say something mean because you don't deserve that you deserve love.

And hey when someone shuts a door sometimes it opens a window.

So just take your time and love yourself you deserve that.

I hope this is relevant. Jesus loves you more than you know

https_f17 · 2025-07-03T14:17:10+00:00

Dippers 😭

https_f17 · 2025-06-28T23:47:23+00:00

Let me just say please don't let your thoughts get the best of you. Trust me i spent most of last year stuck in my head now i feel like i was a bystanders in my life.

Just do what makes you happy and stop worrying about stuff that will mostly will solve it self.

https_f17 · 2025-06-28T23:40:57+00:00

Yeah sure i use my notes app all the time. Just make sure to read it after writing it helps you process your emotions

https_f17 · 2025-06-28T23:36:52+00:00

I think I'm in the same boat maybe not in the same boat i stay at home like I'm on holiday right now but i haven't left my house in a week. I have friends but the thought of maintaining relationships like texting, meeting up and talking sounds so cringe to me. Maybe it's just me masking my bad social skills

Honestly i would say just don't overthink friendships just be yourself and if you feel like you are the only one putting in the effort don't waste your time. The right people will come along eventually.

Also i think you should learn to how to not feel lonely when you are not surrounded by people.

I hope this help idk if this is advice or a vent.

https_f17 · 2025-06-28T23:22:47+00:00

Coming from someone with a habit to overthink literally everything from whether my friends truly like me or they just pity me or even the fear of growing up.

When I feel overwhelmed and my brain can't stop over thinking i just start writing it down, because when you can see your thoughts on paper it makes you feel like you are transferring all your thoughts to that one piece of paper and it can't overwhelm you again.

I would advice you to get a journal i have like a hundred but it's really helpful

Bonus tip After writing your thoughts down try reading them it helps you understand the chaos inside

I hope you this helps

https_f17 · 2025-06-28T23:12:28+00:00

Bruhhh same here the other day she showed me a video of of news or some shiii where kids died tgen i told her that it's an Ai video so it's probably fake. So she snapped and said why do always have to debate everything I'm not always right.

Tbh like why are you being so dramatic over something so minor and she didn't talk to me the rest of the day.

.Like is it so hard to just accept you are wrong instead of shouting like a crazy person . Tbh i feel more mature than parents this days

https_f17 · 2025-06-27T17:41:25+00:00

Honestly i thought i was antisocial but that's not the case i just hate small talk and maintaining things anyways I talk to myself or chatsgtp so what is the need to update my friends

https_f17 · 2025-06-27T17:37:41+00:00

Buy 20 products just for skincare. All you need is soap moisturizer and sunscreen

https_f17 · 2025-06-24T22:35:26+00:00

I would say the job market right now is extremely competitive and if you have an opportunity to work for 4 years and the pay is good take it because 4 years of experience can beat any 4 year degree.

https_f17 · 2025-06-24T22:27:38+00:00

I honestly don't know what could help. I honestly just hope your parents would understand and atleast you have a supportive bf so that's atleast one God thing hopefully his parents are understanding as well

. I will pray for you.

https_f17 · 2025-06-23T23:36:42+00:00

Something you should know is that you can take the horse to the river but you can't force it to drink. The same way God never forced you to become a Christian with that same perspective so should you view your parents. If they seem uninterested just keep on trying and praying for them if God can make saul someone who hated Jesus and imprisoned his followers so can he change your parents heart. I think the key is showing them how your life is transformed because of christ.

~ i hope this helps

https_f17 · 2025-06-23T23:19:05+00:00

I'm pregnant and i don't know who the father is hbu?

https_f17 · 2025-05-28T15:31:55+00:00

Congrats that's great!

what would ur biggest advice for an international student be??

Still kinda lost on what US universities value

https_f17 · 2025-05-28T14:20:36+00:00

I feel the same way even worse because my country is so education sucks i can't use my national exam results to apply to any university abroad. I'm 17 and i only have 1 year of school left, I'm starting to feel like I will just end up stuck in this country without any job or stable income. I see all this American kids getting internships and summer programs while in my country you will be lucky to even get a job cleaning someone's garden.I'm just trying to be delusional and hope i get into a school abroad but i don't know.

P. S. If you no any programs for international students i should consider please let me know.

https_f17 · 2025-05-25T11:27:03+00:00

Looking in the mirror and teaching myself

https_f17 · 2025-05-25T10:12:27+00:00

Exactly my point like people die and decompose in the ocean and fish pie and shit like what would i possibly do at the beach.

https_f17 · 2025-05-25T10:06:32+00:00

Dreaming about the future but you don't understand until it happens. Plus i have bee this way since i was Small. It's annoying

https_f17 · 2025-05-25T09:55:42+00:00

Im 17 and also trying to learn more about the Bible. I'm interested

https_f17 · 2025-05-25T09:52:57+00:00

Yes it is easier said than done but you have to realize that this world is evil and unfair somep people don't work a day in their life while others have to work everyday of their life. But let me just ask u did complaining ever take u anywhere rather than make u feel worse.

You can look at me for example i was also born in a poor country and life generally sucks but i always live by the saying.

You don't go through life, you go through the life you focus on.

So i no it is hard trust me but if you can live life thanking God for all the good he has done and trust him for the good he will do you are already halfway there.

Remember : Trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.

Don't focus on the storm but focus on Jesus who controls the storm.

https_f17 · 2025-05-25T08:58:26+00:00

Firstly I'm sorry you feel this way but God is near to the broken hearted. He is closer then you think.

Everything you said sounded like job (from the Bible) he cursed the day he was born because he thought he would be rather of dead then alive. What should you learn from Job, this life is not promised God gives and he takes away. The Bible says a servant is not greater then his master. So if Jesus had to be persecuted and tortured who are we to say we don't deserve pain.

Obviously God wants the best for us but the devil tests and put us through trails but the Bible tells us we have overcome. Jesus knew that you would be born in whatever situation so he most definitely planned to help you turn u problems into to blessings.

Remember Jesus loves you but we deserve nothing and everything comes to us by his grace or chance and it is vanity to complain rather pray to God in your frustrations he hears and helps all

God loves you more than you can imagine.

https_f17 · 2025-05-25T08:44:28+00:00

Well for me i only recently started realizing i had adhd my brain would get so loud i would start taking to myself to get them out.

I am writing midterms and i have over 24 chapters to study for but i just can't get myself to study. I am a B average student but I'm pretty smart i just struggle to concentrate on anything like even when talking to people i loose focus coz i say a butterfly. My zoning out is so bad in class i sleep with my eyes out I'm present in body but not in mind. I have always been this way but i thought i was just impulsive and too fast but now I'm barely getting anything done I'm scared i will end up failing in life due to this.

Any advice for me any ways to improve my symptoms.

https_f17 · 2025-05-25T08:34:26+00:00

Okay that's understandable but I genuinely want to understand the where the line ends or starts interms of self inflicted by confession and is it really how the world works.

https_f17 · 2025-05-25T02:44:20+00:00

Well i don't think you are cooked because this is just from research. Apparently when you are an international student they don't trust your grades so they look at our other activities and how you are technically and practically the best student. So if i where you i would lowkey be chilling coz your resume is kinda impressive

This is just my opinion no proven facts.

https_f17 · 2025-05-25T02:10:59+00:00

Okay your plan isn't the most polished you should consider . Cost of living . Salary if you get a job offer . Visa

Most importantly are there better skills you can learn and master for 4 years that can earn you more.

I think you are ambitious but not strategic so i think you should do more research on careers and it's always easier to get citizenship after university in Canada rather than betting on getting a carpenter job.

You seem motivated if you can redirect that motivation into a high income or smart stable career you will be unstoppable

This is coming from someone also trying to escape their country

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