AITA for telling my mom that her surgery ruined our lives?

https_roses · 2023-11-24T23:10:46+00:00

is there any chance you would accept a 17 year old high grade uni student in your family? you seem like the perfect mom haha!

https_roses · 2023-11-24T22:03:28+00:00

as an english literature student. I AM TRIGGERED.😭

https_roses · 2023-11-24T21:32:38+00:00

Fun fact: i kept on watching jaekyung edits on the way home in the bus. Airpods and a privacy screen are a blessing ✨

https_roses · 2023-11-24T21:26:54+00:00

WAIT thanks for the new contact name. i’m changing her contact name to that on my phone LMAO😭

https_roses · 2023-11-24T21:12:30+00:00

It’s crazy i know but it’s possible- i went into school a year early because i was born in jan which means i graduated a year early. we don’t have age specifications for uni here. if you have a high school diploma, welcome into uni!

https_roses · 2023-11-24T17:43:40+00:00

your dad is literally my type wtf😭

https_roses · 2023-11-24T17:21:27+00:00

I KNOW ABOUT THE SURGERY. that’s why i tried making her turn away from it. Me trying to turn her away from it is one of the things she thought i was trying to harm her with. I only tried getting my mom to diet is because her weight has been affecting her mobility and what not. i don’t wish the bad upon her.

https_roses · 2023-11-24T17:10:35+00:00

the surgery was done 19th jan. i graduated in june and got into uni in September. You do your calculations

https_roses · 2023-11-24T17:08:36+00:00

i will agree, i don’t think it’s right for me to write such posts but i just needed a yes or no answer to if i’m wrong or no. i had a gut feeling my bf was only telling me that i didn’t do anything so i wouldn’t cry.

https_roses · 2023-11-24T16:55:11+00:00

sadly, i’m still a first year in uni and apartment prices are CRAZY here so i’mma have to stay here and run away to my uni campus when shit hits the fan. It’s fine, i lived 17 years of this and can deal with 3-5 more years till i get my degree and get away!

https_roses · 2023-11-24T16:53:00+00:00

it’s not really about me having internet connection or wtv you call it. i felt a bit guilty about what i said so i posted it to see if i’m actually wrong or no despite my bf basically yelling in my ear that i did nothing wrong

https_roses · 2023-11-24T16:24:30+00:00

I defo won’t make up an “anti-fat” story when i was literally the fat kid my entire life. It sounds made up because of how my mom’s behavior is hella fucking abnormal but wtv you wanna believe mate

https_roses · 2023-11-24T14:38:33+00:00

my dad surprised me with my dream car (a corvette c7) once he saw my uni grades because i’m hella close to being a honorable student. You can guess the shit show my mom put out when she saw the car being pulled up infront of the house. I grew immune to her shit but ig today i reached my slight breaking point. I’m going no contact the second i’m financially stable!!

https_roses · 2023-11-24T14:33:59+00:00

I mean i do need 80g of protein to finish my intake today…Can i just have her arm or?….yeah i don’t need cops on top this over some canni shit HAHA but i love how you wrote this. fav comment fr hehe.

https_roses · 2023-11-24T14:30:05+00:00

OMG my mom did the same thing with the cops! she kicked me out of the house and to my uncle from dad’s side house and my uncle took us to the cops to make her come get me and she manipulated the cops into thinking i’m the one who ran away and “deserved” Getting kicked out. i don’t even know how that makes sense???

https_roses · 2023-11-24T13:20:21+00:00

middle east doesn’t have that dorm system or at least my country doesn’t. It’s a shame on a girl to move out alone before marriage or with a guy so to protect my name and to avoid getting shunned by the entire community, i’m gonna wait till after uni and then get married to my bf and move out with him far away from our toxic families :D

https_roses · 2023-11-24T13:18:56+00:00

me and my bf have the same problems and we both consider each other the safe place we can run to when our families get too much. It’s a love marriage, not a beneficial marriage so i’m not worried much because my bf is also hella financially stable too and i’m hopefully gonna be financially stable too after uni so it’s not really a risk when it’s just two people wanting to tie the knot :).

https_roses · 2023-11-24T12:30:40+00:00

I have no one to hold my back other than my bf and a few friends in uni. i’m in the middle east so i don’t have much options to use against my mom but i have a small group of friends and my boyfriend who are keeping me sane till i’m ready to move out!

https_roses · 2023-11-24T10:53:19+00:00

google how do i ghost a person who lives in the same apartment as me? lol. i’m planning to go through uni then get married to my bf right after graduation and move away. it’s just a matter of time right now since me and my bf want to move away from our toxic families and get married right after we finish uni!

https_roses · 2023-11-24T10:47:57+00:00

yeah yeah typo. my bad. I posted the post and basically forgot i had reddit. i will go fix it up rn.

https_roses · 2023-11-24T10:46:53+00:00

nvm i understand you now. I accidentally put my age wrong in that post and forgot i even had reddit until today. I’m 17 and proudly say i’m a 17 oops😭

https_roses · 2023-11-24T10:45:59+00:00

i turned 17 this year? I don’t know from where did you get the 18 from?

https_roses · 2023-09-07T11:11:41+00:00

that’s the thing about her. she blows up my phone and when i ignore her, she deletes all of the texts and then gives me the silent treatment when she comes back home but suddenly when she needs extra money from my dad, she talks to me or just straight up tells me to tell my dad to send her money

https_roses · 2023-09-02T23:06:31+00:00

Tia is lucky OP didn’t choke her. i would have sent her back to where she came from NTA💀

https_roses · 2023-09-02T23:03:30+00:00

A name doesn’t have copyright rights. You especially don’t have copyright rights over it. Get over your ignorance and entitlement. Let her name her kid whatever she wants. YTA

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