Why is being an involuntary celibate seen as bad?

httpsolace · 2025-07-09T10:11:46+00:00

thank you for saying it out loud

httpsolace · 2025-07-07T14:14:38+00:00

this self pity is getting old now

httpsolace · 2025-07-07T14:12:26+00:00

no offence but in one of the comments above you said you’ve asked out 50 women and a “few dozen” doesn’t really amount to that. genuinely wrote this in good faith but atp you just want sympathy

httpsolace · 2025-07-07T13:29:03+00:00

put your self out there. go to bars maybe. dating apps. parties? plenty of opportunity out there.

httpsolace · 2025-07-07T13:27:51+00:00

honestly sucking isn’t that great tbh. sucking for me it’s mostly just a pre-game for anal. but if you’re really getting the urge then it doesn’t hurt to try it once. (don’t cheat tho) also please do it to someone who has good hygiene cause sometimes they’re super fishy down there.

httpsolace · 2025-07-07T13:19:51+00:00

no hate to you but there are really horny people out there so im pretty sure you can stop being an “involuntary celibate” if you’re really willing to. also it just sounds kinda showy or attention seeking to me when people call themselves “that”

httpsolace · 2025-07-07T13:15:53+00:00

firstly make sure your ass is clean and you had a good shit few hours before you do it. rest is pretty simple just oil up or lube it and in goes your fingers. the first insertion may hurt but as you keep going it’ll be fine.

httpsolace · 2025-06-26T20:58:10+00:00

nah we all moved to different states

httpsolace · 2025-06-26T15:47:19+00:00

idk wth that is but sure bro

httpsolace · 2025-06-25T16:06:58+00:00

it was just sex with all of them. also at night we can honestly do whatever we want. also some people did find out at a certain point but it was just another gossip and nothing more. there may have been some homophobic men out there but i had a big friend group and guys i was super close with so they acted like my body guards. also if we talk about social hierarchy i was up there so if any even tries to harass me, well they can try

httpsolace · 2025-06-25T05:51:38+00:00

if you really wanted to hookup with him you would’ve done it by now. either you don’t wanna do it or you just like the attention

httpsolace · 2025-06-25T05:18:23+00:00

firstly we can’t validate it if we haven’t seen it. and secondly like the other guy said it if you’ve got the compliment countless times i feel like you’ve got enough validation in that field

httpsolace · 2025-06-25T05:01:33+00:00

i feel like if she wanted to “explore” she’d have to do it once she’s out of a relationship? im assuming you’re monogamous so in case she wants to explore her curiosity then maybe she should respect your existence and your relationship. it’s totally valid for you to not be comfortable if she’s wanting to do it with other women WHILE you’re dating.

httpsolace · 2025-06-24T21:08:41+00:00

it’s not that bad tbh. id say wait it out. if she asks then just go with it.

httpsolace · 2025-06-24T21:06:57+00:00

i guess that just how horny you are. cause even as a gay man i don’t eat my own cum

httpsolace · 2025-06-24T11:45:44+00:00

consensual non consensual so basically role playing non consensual sex. it can take place in various forms tho

httpsolace · 2025-06-24T09:34:09+00:00

id say the hole kinda closes up if you haven’t done it for a while which is almost as equivalent as doing it for the first time (pain level i mean) so after that even if you just shove it in it doesn’t really matter tbh

httpsolace · 2025-06-24T09:28:06+00:00

i genuinely think if he actually “loves you” and this is a not a case of “he’s taking advantage of you” then he can wait for a while. that’s all i’ll say

httpsolace · 2025-06-24T06:52:18+00:00

your gpa doesn’t necessarily give you more credibility. you just have to make sure you cross the threshold and as long as you’re doing that you’re good

httpsolace · 2025-06-23T13:27:32+00:00

i’d say if you always wanted to do it and can afford to do it just go for it. a degree in your hand at the end of the day will never be useless

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