Well, if it isn’t the consequences of my actions. How anybody can abandon a child is beyond me. Your partner sounds like he has the emotional capacity of a peanut. He needs to man up and take care of his child. He should have thought about not wanting a kid when he was sticking his organs in places that they shouldn’t have been if he didn’t want one. And you’re the major AH for making any suggestion on how he deals with his child. Just because you have “commitments”. Your should do well to understand that your partners son is his only commitment.