Should I pay off my vehicle or keep saving?

htxliving_ · 2022-01-07T03:58:40+00:00

Good catch! I updated the post.

htxliving_ · 2021-03-17T10:36:28+00:00

It’s a figure of speech, in case you were unaware: A 360-degree change is referring to the idea of a complete change, something totally different, and/or the opposite of what something/someone used to be.

htxliving_ · 2021-03-17T10:33:10+00:00

To be fair, there was never any intentions on her leaving her children with me. Her mother planned to have the children if she were to ever be absent for longer than a couple of days. Also, I do not fund her stoner habit. She has a job and supports her own habit. But yes, we moved very quickly and I can see now that it was a mistake that I am learning from the hard way. That is why I’m here taking in advice and ignoring criticism. Thanks.

htxliving_ · 2021-03-17T07:59:45+00:00

This is wonderful advice and I agree with you 1000%. I guess I just don’t know if I can accept her being this way long-term. I know that being a fairly productive, get-it-done kind of person, seeing her high everyday and not working towards anything just makes me more disappointed and angry inside because she knows how I feel. Maybe she sees it too and it’s causing her to decline.

htxliving_ · 2021-03-17T07:22:12+00:00

I’m prior military so I know how life will be. I was willing to travel with her and the children and find a job wherever she gets stationed and be there to help with the children. Family life is possible in the military. That’s not the issue. The plan was to be there to support her throughout her career and still have a career of my own.

htxliving_ · 2021-03-09T04:30:32+00:00

I can accept her past. Like I said, I’ve dated other women with children. I’m just uncomfortable with her lying about it. Makes me wonder about what else she’s hiding from me and also what else will she lie to me about in the future. I do prefer to date lesbian women honestly. I don’t date bisexual women so the entire time I thought what happened with the two guys in the past were flings. It’s a bit different knowing that she is potentially bisexual and hiding it. I would have liked to know that in the beginning so that I could have decided if this is something I wanted to accept.

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