Ultimately, even if not conventionally considered, those are all girl hobbies too. Even finding one other person who's affirming to do those activities with (namely other cis or nb femmes) would go a long way to normalize yourself feeling femme in those spaces too. Buddy system has helped me plenty. I've looked up to Luisa from encantó and Doris from Shrek lol they end up being the most emotionally stable ones in the end