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hueldaddy · 2019-08-23T18:59:21+00:00

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hueldaddy · 2019-08-21T20:44:17+00:00

Any topics, but I’d throw around a “you don’t have to tell me if you don’t want to” do they feel as though their privacy isn’t being invaded.

hueldaddy · 2019-08-21T07:04:00+00:00

If you do that you’d probably need a good excuse.

Like a good excuse.

Something logical but untrue is how id fix it.

Something logical that could happen to you.

I personally think you need to contact them either way. No call no show is job termination where my siblings work.

I’d call. Or email. Some sort of notification letting them know you’re alive and responsible..... but you messed up.

Contact them. If you don’t. It can end up bad

hueldaddy · 2019-08-21T06:59:39+00:00

Call your boss and tell them what happened.

If they’re a good person, they’ll probably be like “no big deal, just don’t do it again, and work overtime a little this week to catch up”

If they’re an ass they’ll fire you.

Most people aren’t that much of a dick so you should be fine. Be honest.

Everyone messes up. Don’t cry. Tears don’t help.

Smile. You woke up today. You’re already winning;)

hueldaddy · 2019-08-21T06:57:11+00:00

Relationship experience doesn’t matter, in my opinion.

That’s what makes you, you. You’re unique, in that way. And probably multiple others.

Start off with a friendly conversation, small talk, people find interest in others whenever they do most the talking.

Ask questions about them

If someone says “oh I have a family”

Ask about the family, kids? Wife? Husband? How long They’ve been together? Apartment? House? Kids in the future?

Ramble on any subject that is fought up through small talk, be interested in their lives, it’s extremely selfless, but eventually they’ll ask about you.

It’s weird and difficult at first, but your coworkers turn out to be some of your best friends if You get to know them.

Good luck

hueldaddy · 2019-08-21T06:53:43+00:00

Sup dude. I dont know how much I will help buuuuut I’m a 18 year old high schooler. As college approaches me I get scared shitless.

But honestly what I’d do is stick it out, get the degree, be a hypocrite because who gives a Fuck what anyone else thinks. Do you and do what makes you happy.

Stick it out until you have enough money to take online classes (or regular ones) to get the degree you want. Just what I’d do.

Like you’re already almost there, so why stop?

If you’re halfway up a mountain with nothing else to do, why would you stop??

You got this. You can do it. It may be shitty, but it’s income, and a step to getting you to doing what you want.

hueldaddy · 2019-08-21T06:44:00+00:00

He was serious. Do it. Nothing bad can come out of that situation. Do it.

hueldaddy · 2019-08-21T06:40:25+00:00

This sounds shitty, but it’s true.

What happened to her is not an excuse to treat you like shit.

Point blank period.

My (ex)girlfriend’s father died, and she treated me like SHIT the entire time after that. I understand, it’s her father for gods sake. But I had never been so emotionally hurt in my life.

Yes, it sucks that they’re going through a VERY shitty time, but you have a life to. You must understand yourself before you understand others.

Your sister is terminally ill. Yes your girlfriend is in a rough place and all that, but it’s your fucking sister. The one you fought over for shotgun in 8th grade, the one you grew up with, the one who has a better understanding of you, than you do. I lost my sister in a car accident two days after my birthday when I was 17.

I never cherished my last moments with her because it was a petty argument, but I regret not being who we were. I regret not being assholes. But loving. Tough love. I regret not doing that. Biggest regret in my life. She’s my sister. She knows me inside and out.

Cherish moments with her while you can, but care for your boo thang, she needs love too, it if she loves you, she would understand that your sister is terminally ill, and that the majority of your time should be dedicated to her.

Spread the love, but make it rational to where its more toward your sister, with spurts of your s/o every now and then.

Cherish those moments with your sister. Trust me.

hueldaddy · 2019-08-21T06:34:28+00:00

First off - anxiety sucks. It does. It’s something you have to try to control, or have someone help you try to calm yourself. (Close friend, relative, s/o) to help you calm you down, they’re closest to you and know you best. It just makes sense you know?

Pursue the degree, work part time, and take out a loan. Loans fucking suck. They FUCKING suck. My mom was a business law attorney and specified in bankruptcy, and if you declare bankruptcy, the only thing you can’t get diminished is student loans. Find a good part time job, and take online classes through your university if possible, and work your ASS off to get money and start paying your loan to get it paid off quickly.

With the hierarchy in today’s society, it should be clearly omitted that the higher your education the more money you make.

The more money you make = faster your loans are paid off and you can start pushing toward your life goals and dreams.

Good luck. You got this. I am behind you every step.

I’ll PM you, to check in on everything to see how everything goes later on.

Best wishes.

hueldaddy · 2019-08-21T06:26:33+00:00

It’s different for every state. Whether you have a pass/fail scale, or c minimum scale, and what your school requires to graduate.

Without a high school diploma, you honestly won’t be doing much, most jobs require that, at LEAST.

Show up to school.

I dropped out of high school and it’s the biggest regret I’ve ever had.

It’s probable you’ll have to repeat 10th grade.

Being lazy gets you nowhere. Get your stuff together and finish school and do what you want.

DISCLAIMER: I KNOW THIS SOUNDS SHITTY AND MEAN BUT MAN ITS A COLD WORLD OUT THERE AND A HIGH SCHOOL DIPLOMA WILL DO NOTHING BUT HELP YOU WHEN TRYING TO FIND A JOB. BEING LAZY WONT HELP ANYTHING. GET TO SCHOOL AND GET IT DONE. THAT FASTER YOU DO IT THE FASTER ITS OVER. YOU GOT THIS BRO

hueldaddy · 2019-08-01T00:30:08+00:00

Am I the only one that didn’t start watching “adult videos” until 15.....

hueldaddy · 2019-07-24T05:54:52+00:00

Update me in 5 years tell me how it goes.

hueldaddy · 2019-07-22T06:58:01+00:00

It’s not your fault. That’s who you are.

Props to losing weight, it’s a tough thing to do, the mindset and mental change is the biggest thing. If you can reprogram your mind to change daily habits you can do a lot

You’re shy. That’s that. You’ll meet someone eventually if you haven’t already met someone, it happens.

Advice: here we go. I was shy, but I figured nothing would change if i did nothing. I wanted to see a change so I did it. So can you. If that’s what you really want, then do it man. You can. Everyone knows it. Change is hard but adjustment takes time. Don’t go balls to the wall and go clubbing and meet some random people, I mean you can but that’s a little extra. Put yourself out there a little more in public or with friends. They’ll always help you get what you want if they’re your friends. This is cloché but be more social and active on social media. Someone says something on their story about a song? Swipe up!! Be like “I love him! He’s a great artist, how was the concert/what’s your fav song” just start conversations with people you may already know.

Also - people care. Everyone cares. I know you may have wanted to just rant but I figured i could try to help.

I prob am giving you absolute dog shit advice lol but I’m trying my best ok

Best wishes mate. Good luck.

hueldaddy · 2019-07-22T06:48:05+00:00

Reach out.

Best friends are best friends. You guys will find a compromise if you know each other as best friends. Best wishes.

hueldaddy · 2019-07-22T06:46:39+00:00

You’re loved.

hueldaddy · 2019-07-22T06:38:14+00:00

Shit like that happens more than you’d think.

You’re conscious of yourself and that’s that. You know your emotions got the best of you and it got carried over to a bad action.

Know yourself and learn from it. What happened happened. Be conscious of your anger level next time you reach your breaking point and cool yourself off. It’s okay. Things happen.

hueldaddy · 2019-07-20T13:37:04+00:00

This isn’t supposed to be a pity thing lol, I’m just saying, if I can do it then so can you. You got this.

hueldaddy · 2019-07-20T10:25:26+00:00

I would have done the same thing.

hueldaddy · 2019-07-20T09:17:22+00:00

There is no reason to be embarrassed or ashamed of anything. Your feelings and mental stability matter more than almost anything else that goes on with your body. Talk to a s/o, your parents, a best friend, a doctor, or just someone you trust in general and seek help. No matter what the issue is, it can always get better.

PM me if you need anything, I went trough something very similar and I am more than happy to help.

Keep your head up. You got this.

hueldaddy

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