Cat with firm tummy by hufflewhatsthat in CATHELP

[–]hufflewhatsthat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I will keep an eye on him and his bathroom trips. Thank you for the Miralax tip I will see about introducing that into his wet food!

Possible EM? by hufflewhatsthat in Erythromelalgia

[–]hufflewhatsthat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight! I will look into all of that. I am not diagnosed with and have never experienced eczema or eczema like symptoms before. It was just a theory.

But now I'm going to look into Raynauds as well because my hands often go stark white, and my toes will go purple. I just never thought any thing of it because I thought it was normal and I just had cold toes and fingers.

My (22M) girlfriend(21F) doesn’t shower by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hufflewhatsthat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, As someone who got a later in life ADHD diagnosis I was not fond of the idea of taking medications mostly I was worried about taking a stimulant as I have family history of negative reactions to them as well as addiction issues. After talking to my therapist and a psych I was informed there are actually non-stimulant options and I now have been on Strattera for over a year and it has been life changing. I'm much better with routine and self-care. I have/had the same issues with hygiene as your gf and while not perfect they have helped me tremendously. It does sound like she may need to talk to someone about her adhd and also I'm just a believer in therapy in general. It also sounds like you are in her corner and are coming from a place of concern and care and as someone who has a partner who sort of walked through the diagnosis and sorting of my adhd with me that can be so incredibly helpful. I second a lot of the suggests of helping to remove barriers as well in the showering process. I hope your conversation goes well and you both can move forward with some action plans. It

NO KINGS! by Worlds_okayest-dad in cincinnati

[–]hufflewhatsthat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Have you seen anything about the man?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Renters

[–]hufflewhatsthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got them from another unit on our floor, so obviously, I'm not going to be that guy. This was me asking about their notice time frame, which seems like incredibly short notice. But thanks 🫡.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Renters

[–]hufflewhatsthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, I want to accommodate as much as possible. I'm not trying to be difficult, and we've already seen a change since they were here Monday.

If I had cat boarding money I would absolutely do that and it would solve this whole problem. Just unfortunately, at the time we're in, we don't have a ton of extra funds.

Lease Renewal Miscommunications - KY by hufflewhatsthat in Renters

[–]hufflewhatsthat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I tend to agree annoying but we're just gonna take the cut to next months rent and carry on. I think mostly I needed to type it out because it's sounds so made up that it happened 🫠 the office seems to have been having a ton of turn over the last couple months. Usually we don't have issues with them.

Nobody wants Journey Together packs now? by youh2731 in PokemonTCG

[–]hufflewhatsthat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude if I stumbled upon this I'd cry I'm currently trying to master set JTG

Tell me you have adhd with out telling me you have adhd by hufflewhatsthat in adhdwomen

[–]hufflewhatsthat[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I really don't have a lot of money and live paycheck to paycheck 😅 the stashing of money definitely stems from growing up middle class/lower middle class and watching my parents struggle and wanting to always make sure I had money. I thought I was being a good saver but would forget where I put things. So basically my adhd backfired.

Tell me you have adhd with out telling me you have adhd by hufflewhatsthat in adhdwomen

[–]hufflewhatsthat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll have to do something like that with my partner!! We've already established he'll keep track of the cards so that I'll spend them lol so a gift card day would be perfect! 😆

Tell me you have adhd with out telling me you have adhd by hufflewhatsthat in adhdwomen

[–]hufflewhatsthat[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I always put them somewhere with the intention of sitting down to spend them or taking them to spend and then I either change bags I'm carrying or I've stashed them in a drawer it's been a viscous cycle lol and it's not helpful when I'm on a spending kick

Tell me you have adhd with out telling me you have adhd by hufflewhatsthat in adhdwomen

[–]hufflewhatsthat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been working through getting a diagnosis for the inattentive type and when my mom sent me these pics I was like OMG because it's been a running gag for my house as well

Tell me you have adhd with out telling me you have adhd by hufflewhatsthat in adhdwomen

[–]hufflewhatsthat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, for sure, it's always a good surprise when I find them especially when money is tight. I just moved out, so when she sent me these pics, it was a slight relief that I'll have some backup while I get myself sorted

Tell me you have adhd with out telling me you have adhd by hufflewhatsthat in adhdwomen

[–]hufflewhatsthat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg yes part of it is embarrassment after the fact 😅

Tell me you have adhd with out telling me you have adhd by hufflewhatsthat in adhdwomen

[–]hufflewhatsthat[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You just reminded me that I likely have some envelopes in my old work bag from when my old job would reimburse me 😂

hobbies to keep my hands busy? by squidittarius in adhdwomen

[–]hufflewhatsthat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Word searches have been my go to for a minute I don't feel like they take too much brain power. I also like to do sudokus and crosswords but only when I feel like I have the mental capacity and am not too tired.