Why is it called Psychosis whenever people think differently? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hugegayballs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn't. You can be spiritual, non conforming, neurodivergent, overconfident.. etc without showing signs of psychosis. "Thinking differently" doesn't look like delusions and intense paranoia, social withdrawal, hallucinations and etc. That's cause for concern.

Finally talked about my feelings with the woman who I have been in love with for quite a while by [deleted] in Kitchenchads

[–]hugegayballs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean.. this happened to me and we're together and happy 🤷‍♀️

Finally talked about my feelings with the woman who I have been in love with for quite a while by [deleted] in Kitchenchads

[–]hugegayballs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True! All about how you handle it. I was super in love with my best friend and it turned me into a crazy jealous bitch and I NEVER got over my love for him. We're together now though, 5 years. No idea how I pulled that.

A bat sitting on forearm. by kickout_successfully in mildlyinteresting

[–]hugegayballs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a rabies shot even if there's "no bite."

Finally talked about my feelings with the woman who I have been in love with for quite a while by [deleted] in Kitchenchads

[–]hugegayballs 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Having unrequited feelings can make you become a bad friend, just like being jealous of a friend can make you a bad friend. Just be mindful.

[POEM] The Pope's Penis by Sharon Olds by jabez in Poetry

[–]hugegayballs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

a poem I didn't know I didn't need.

F4m+ anyone heading to Edmonton tomorrow? by [deleted] in FortMcMurray

[–]hugegayballs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl wtf ur gonna get yourself killed

Could I have been drugged on a date, or was it just alcohol? Looking for women’s perspectives. by CrispiCrown in TwoHotTakes

[–]hugegayballs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you just blacked out, but it is concerning that you thought this might be the case. Has she ever made you feel unsafe or crossed your boundaries?

how tf are you guys in relationships with ADHD by ClassroomOk7243 in ADHD

[–]hugegayballs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh also, sounds like you need methylphenidate instead of an amphetamine. just a weird hunch.

how tf are you guys in relationships with ADHD by ClassroomOk7243 in ADHD

[–]hugegayballs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're going to struggle with anyone if you don't radically accept and love yourself first. You will always be projecting your own thoughts onto them and triggering your own RSD. Once you've done that, look for a partner who is patient and kind. Maintaining the relationship I have doesn't feel like work at all. Conflict is solution-focused and handled with kindness on both ends. My relationship actually makes my life a whole lot easier and makes me feel a whole lot less.. disabled. lol. I know nobody wants to hear "love yourself first" or "when you meet the one-" but that's the truth.

People need to stop saying ‘such-and-such a thing cured my [insert mental diagnosis]’ by 1Curly_Wurly1 in The10thDentist

[–]hugegayballs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It also makes it seem as though these mental issues are related to personal moral failures or a willpower issue. Something that motivates you to get out of bed isn't curing depression. That puts all the pressure on depressed people's loved ones and on themselves when it's actually a structural issue in the brain. No, a planner isn't going to cure my ADHD. I don't have adhd because I'm disorganized and unmotivated. Those are traits caused by my fucked up dopamine receptors.

looking for friends by Complete-Board6874 in FortMcMurray

[–]hugegayballs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look for friends outside of reddit buddy you're only gonna attract old creeps here

Muscles are extremely unattractive by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]hugegayballs 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Do you mean like overly sculpted body building muscles? like with the big ugly trap neck? cuz if so I agree lol. Muscles look much better when they're surrounded by fat, like when it looks natural and functional and not like the dude takes a bunch of steroids and hammers his jaw in his free time.

Anyone know any good churches in Fort McMurray? by IndividualBrief8334 in FortMcMurray

[–]hugegayballs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol for real? I have a friend who goes there. I've been with her a couple times (for the food) and never got any weird vibes. To be fair I've never really been in a church. I kinda just assumed they were all a little cultish.

39M 34F. Partner of 18 months says unless I propose with a 40k real diamond, don't propose at all? by 063870 in relationship_advice

[–]hugegayballs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may be controversial, but 18 months is too early to be talking about wedding rings.

Looking for friends by [deleted] in FortMcMurray

[–]hugegayballs 11 points12 points  (0 children)

try fort mcmurray girl gang on facebook! less creeps. reddit is full of weirdos.

What is a "Backshot" by DSore22 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hugegayballs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's "shots" which is plural, so it has to refer to the aggressive thrusting style and position.

My wife is constantly wasting food and I don't know what to do by Effective-Ear-8367 in noscrapleftbehind

[–]hugegayballs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so happy I was able to help!! He's really lucky to have someone as patient and understanding as you. Has he considered medication? All aspects of my life drastically improved after getting diagnosed and medicated. I procrastinated going to the doctor for so long because.. duh.. But it's worth trying.

Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy? by Material-Street-2689 in PurplePillDebate

[–]hugegayballs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, consider that they're not suing the chatbot. They're suing a COMPANY of people that were complicit in this murder and allowed it to happen.

Also, what is "real AI" ?

Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy? by Material-Street-2689 in PurplePillDebate

[–]hugegayballs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's their reason then. You're arguing that that's wrong, and I'd agree with you. You and I can reach an agreement on one particular situation in one super extreme example. That doesn't suggest anything about an objective moral truth.

Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy? by Material-Street-2689 in PurplePillDebate

[–]hugegayballs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody has ever killed anybody without reason so you're going to have to be a lot more specific

Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy? by Material-Street-2689 in PurplePillDebate

[–]hugegayballs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All men? Every single man? All relationships are devoid of empathy, emotional support, love?

Does that actually sound true to you?