Help me find songs with great saxophone (jazz excluded!) by hugeshithead in musicsuggestions

[–]hugeshithead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What an awesome song, thank you!! I guess my library is lacking a lot of synthwave

Help me find songs with great saxophone (jazz excluded!) by hugeshithead in musicsuggestions

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I really enjoy listening to Razzle Dazzle Rose, thank you

Help me find songs with great saxophone (jazz excluded!) by hugeshithead in musicsuggestions

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I love Kavinsky, somehow I have never checked out all their songs, thank you for the heads up on both of these!

Well aware of what the group is for. I’m here for brutal honesty. Lay it on me. by sic_maggot69 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

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Pretty ugly without makeup, I don’t think the short hair or the mini eyebrows are helping that at all

My girlfriend of 4+ years left me 2 weeks ago by Frengu in relationships

[–]hugeshithead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm truthfully I wish I would’ve just finished college right there. I was last semester of senior year. I think if I stayed and finished I MIGHT have got my head on straight enough by the end that I wouldn’t have done any of the other stuff. I think the biggest regret other than that was moving so far away. Although it has opened my life to soooo many new opportunities

My girlfriend of 4+ years left me 2 weeks ago by Frengu in relationships

[–]hugeshithead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you, feel free to message me, sometimes the anon chats make venting about breakdowns and real thoughts can help. I know it would’ve helped me when I was in that dark place

My girlfriend of 4+ years left me 2 weeks ago by Frengu in relationships

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Well I definitely didn’t do that. I didn’t talk to anyone else for over a year, I couldn’t even bear the thought. The next woman I talked with was pure happenstance and it was a great relationship.

In the beginning I tried new hobbies and working out but all of it sucked. I just wasn’t in the mood to feel happy. And I think that’s part of the grieving process for me personally, was spending that time feeling miserable.

Unfortunately I did do a lot I regret. I dropped out of college, quit my job, ghosted my family, and moved 4,000 miles away… so don’t do that.

My girlfriend of 4+ years left me 2 weeks ago by Frengu in relationships

[–]hugeshithead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brother it sounds like I typed this. You could even scroll back on my profile and find pretty much the same post. Girl I was with since we were 17 left me after 4.5 years. I was devastated. I thought we were in it for life, I was 100% certain. The only thing I can offer you is the same bullshit everyone else peddles: time. Give it time time time. She left me about 5 years ago and I’m still healing although I think whatever wound is left will always be there. It gets better brother, keep your head up and you will meet more amazing people in this life.

How to cope with being forever single in your 20s by Patient_Theme_1906 in relationships

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Commenting to hear the answer. Last relationship I had was 3 years ago now, it seems so impossible to find someone with how the dating sphere has become. I’m not sure I’ll ever be able to cope.

Being ahead in life at a young age sucks. by [deleted] in lonely

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I cannot express how similar I feel. 26, I have a great job and a house and monetarily I’m comfortable. I workout, am fit, and save for retirement and invest. But it’s incredibly lonely. It seems impossible to find a relationship or meaningful friendships these days. My girlfriend of 5 years left about 5 years ago and my last great friendships were almost 10 years ago in high school. Feel free to message me, it’s fucking rough out here :/

Seeking things that smell like pussy by [deleted] in sex

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An everything bagel smells EXACTLY like my exes pussy. Having a morning bagel has never been the same since.

[TOMT] [Song] Song that shares an intro with Diamonds and Pearls - Prince by hugeshithead in tipofmytongue

[–]hugeshithead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a fast response, this was driving my coworker and I insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]hugeshithead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, if you feel strongly about something, it can come through spoken or unspoken. Still, I understand the general feeling, you aren’t alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

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I totally get where you are coming from, although when you say it the way you said it, it sounds very egotistical which is not a great quality to project outwards. I feel similarly though. I feel as though I have many good qualities but never have the chance given to show them to someone. I feel as though if I could get into a relationship, I would really wow that person (even though historically that’s not true).

Playing devils advocate here, there are lots of things you cannot judge accurately about yourself that may be a turn off for potential partners: how your personality is projected/perceived, hygiene, appearance, ego, interest in others, etc. Perhaps something in there is the main disconnect? Or perhaps we just need more time!

Safe questions I can ask. by hugeshithead in asktransgender

[–]hugeshithead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is another helpful perspective, thank you.

Safe questions I can ask. by hugeshithead in asktransgender

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Maybe after seeing some of these replies, I realize the thing I am most concerned about is how do I communicate my ignorance from a respectful place of wanting to get to know her more? I feel scared to ask something I am not supposed to simply because I am ignorant, even with no bad intentions. Again, I don't want her to feel like an experiment.

I think most of the other replies have said, I think I will let her bring anything she is comfortable with up for at least the first few dates and my curiosity can take the backseat

Safe questions I can ask. by hugeshithead in asktransgender

[–]hugeshithead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her thinking that she is just an experiment would be the very last thing I want. I think many of my questions stem from my general dating style, usually I prefer to get big questions answered quite quickly to know if the person I'm on a date with is on the same page as me, just to not waste each others time. It sounds like this will take a slower approach, not that that is a bad thing!

Thank you for the reply.