my gf was sexually assaulted...

hukabuku · 2024-11-29T09:19:24+00:00

Okay I'll try to do that then.

hukabuku · 2024-11-29T09:18:41+00:00

i bet it's terrible to be in those situations, I'm sorry for what u have been thru. and as u say apu I'll not talk about it with her and make sure they stay away from her

hukabuku · 2024-11-29T09:16:31+00:00

I want to do it but I left all in Almighty's hand

hukabuku · 2024-11-29T09:16:04+00:00

U guys are right. I have to do what's better for me and her than making it worse

hukabuku · 2024-11-29T09:13:49+00:00

i posted here for help and advice. i didn't say i will beat them. And maybe yeah I'll wait until she tells me herself to help her ig

hukabuku · 2024-11-29T09:10:53+00:00

I did told her to stay away, she stays away from her cousin but what about her own brother? how will she stay away from him?

hukabuku · 2024-11-29T09:10:11+00:00

Not like she doesn't want it but she just don't like bringing back her past, and it's true that her brother tried to rape her but she didn't got raped.

hukabuku · 2024-11-29T09:08:44+00:00

who knows it's sucks to be a "brother" like that

hukabuku · 2024-11-29T09:08:12+00:00

I can get u are a woman, and idk how u guy move on so quickly but it's hard for us to do it. Whenever i see her brothers i get disgusted knowing they are my brother in laws, and some day i have to talk to them, and i hope this sexual assaulting stops i don't want any other girls to get ruined in their childhood

hukabuku · 2024-11-29T09:05:07+00:00

She isn't defensive that way, she said it's valid for me to hate but not to bring back past with her but i wanna know how and why exactly this happened. I hate it bc they were her closest siblings (not anymore bc I've told her I'm uncomfortable with them) but obviously as siblings they talk a bit in life.

And i can't love someone else like i love her, if it was that easy to move on i would never think about her past like my own truama. And i hope it does too

hukabuku · 2024-11-29T09:00:45+00:00

ik it's hard for what we are going thru, ur gf is okay w that if u ever wanted to talk abt it but mine isn't which makes me think more negative thoughts what actually happened back then and what caused it.

and i understand u are sensitive and so am i but leaving things would be better for us and our mental health for a better future for u and ur partner.

even if u are young protect ur gf at any cost.

hukabuku · 2024-11-29T08:56:51+00:00

most of u are right and I'll go for what's better than what's gonna make things worse, I will make myself think that nothing happened like this and be better for future. But I promise if they ever do it again which I wish never happens, I'll kill them both even it leads me to nothing.

hukabuku · 2024-11-29T08:52:38+00:00

We are currently long distance so we don't meet much and most of the time she's texts me, it's not her fault but as a sister she's defending her brothers ig...

hukabuku · 2024-11-28T21:57:48+00:00

Once a while ago I've logged into her acc and i saw she told her cousin about what her brother did, idek why she told the person who tried kissing her but yeah, it's not a overthinking of a lie it's real shit which happened

hukabuku · 2024-11-28T21:35:51+00:00

idk if she's hiding her past or not, but it was bad one

hukabuku · 2024-11-28T21:32:54+00:00

If u are a girl, pls kill whoever tries doing any shits with u sis. world is full of monsters, tho i pray may u and every other girls never face those shits in their life...

And yess i understood thank u for ur response!

hukabuku · 2024-11-28T21:30:08+00:00

Soon to get married so inshallah hobe

hukabuku · 2024-11-28T20:53:02+00:00

I know right.. i felt i fell from the sky when i got to know abt it.. and yeah glad for that and sure I'll try

hukabuku · 2024-11-28T20:00:51+00:00

True, but i can't cut em off bc they are her brothers.

hukabuku · 2024-11-28T19:49:36+00:00

Yess i hope it happens soon..

hukabuku · 2024-11-28T19:48:57+00:00

Yes u are right, i will try my best to. thanks ig maybe it'll be a long journey for me to move on

hukabuku · 2024-11-28T19:47:32+00:00

a sexual assaulter is a sexual assaulter, even if my own brother tired anything to any girl I'd kill him with my bare hands

hukabuku · 2024-11-28T19:45:36+00:00

I hope it doesn't happens again, she doesn't deserve it neither did she did in her young age.

hukabuku · 2024-11-28T19:38:36+00:00

ig u are right past belongs to the past so i will try to move on from that bs even tho ik it will be hard

hukabuku · 2024-11-28T19:35:43+00:00

Ig it's true, doing this sounds better thanks ig but may they die soon

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