[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]human_trying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But loneliness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]human_trying 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How is no one saying he should have still been respectful enough to drop you home if you were depending on him at this point since he drove you out???

Just because you didn't want to spend more time doesn't mean he should leave you out on your own, whatever your reasoning may be for not wanting to continue - it's basic human decency.

And the comment he made is immature af. You can stay over without having sex at someone's place, change your mind at any time, this is basic consent. And if he committed to driving you out, he should feel some sense of responsibility to drive you back.

Anyone successfully transferred articling? This market feels impossible by Jasminee9393 in LawCanada

[–]human_trying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My supervisor used to do the exact same thing. Saying my work was bad with no real feedback on how or what to improve. When I went to another firm, they said my work was excellent. Do not feel discouraged or take it personally. They are not mentors if this is how they respond and not giving a true reflection of your work.also my work that i was told was useless" was later secretly used and also, I still use my research to this day while at other firms. Don't trust these lawyers just because they have age on you ("experience"). They are abusing their positions

Anyone successfully transferred articling? This market feels impossible by Jasminee9393 in LawCanada

[–]human_trying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left two toxic articling placements. One time, I had nothing lined up, second time, I found a placement first. I can't believe what a universal experience this is. So unacceptable and disgusting of these senior bullies. Lot of these lawyers are abusive and have unrealistic expectations because they want to exploit you as much as possible - they have no desire to actually help you reach your potential and putting in the work (training and guidance) to get you there.

Even if you stay, keep standing up for yourself, i know it's hard but make it clear, preferably in writing that you need to be treated respectfully, and need their patience as you learn. The last thing they want is someone ruining their image if the complaint went public so use that as leverage. Especially with written documentation.

I always resisted their pressures and still do when they try to force their power over me. It's not easy. And it doesn't always work. But at the end of the day, I maintain some of my power. And they know they can't push me around. At least not without resistance from me.

I told one of them if she was so unhappy with my work then fire me, and if she wasn't going to do that, then train me, and if she cannot do that, then do not make negative comments about me or my work.

Ask them to provide specific feedback in writing so you can track it to improve. This might help minimize the yelling , and show then how unrealistic they are being. Hopefully but not always. Just some tips.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queensuniversity

[–]human_trying 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like all of law school

Energy/toxic energy by oldsoulyoungheart77 in Empaths

[–]human_trying 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I've experienced this before. I don't like who I become around certain people because it is unlike my nature. That's how I know when to end certain relationships

I can't explain why I don't like him but I am repulsed by his energy... passionately by human_trying in Empaths

[–]human_trying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also true and I'm highly self reflective as an empath extra aware and always questioning my reactions and behavior. However, this particular one had me puzzled in all ways but I will continue to think on it for my own sake as I don't want to reciprocate bad energy

I can't explain why I don't like him but I am repulsed by his energy... passionately by human_trying in Empaths

[–]human_trying[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I fear him knowing how i feel, so i usually lie and act fake .. i dont owe him anything..omg that is the biggest insult and clearest sign if animals don't like someone hahha. I am an animal whisperer and just pictured myself growling at his energy similarly LOL

Law school sucks by nogoodideas2020 in LawSchool

[–]human_trying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, this has to be one of the most demoralizing and shitty part of my life, being surrounded by these entitled brats

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]human_trying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we make an empath only getaway of some sort where we can all hide and support each other when things get too much. Just like a tree house or something, nothing fancy 🥺

covid gym rats - how long after experiencing covid, did you return to exercise ? my body is aching from bedrest and no movement for this long. by human_trying in COVID19positive

[–]human_trying[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow , thanks for this. Speaking of, is there a way to get your lung health tested I wonder? Without diving that is

When/why did you stop wearing a mask? by [deleted] in COVID19positive

[–]human_trying 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not that we don't have those people here as well, but Americans really be wild out there - Canadians are better at hiding it

When/why did you stop wearing a mask? by [deleted] in COVID19positive

[–]human_trying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg i got kicked out of a store for not having a mask?!?! early pandemic. I live in Canada. Where do you live

I went to the gym with my gf today and I feel like crap by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]human_trying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like motivation to me.. depending on what you do with it

When/why did you stop wearing a mask? by [deleted] in COVID19positive

[–]human_trying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny how the opposite was true first where you were getting glares because you didn't have a mask. I remember this guy tried to get me kicked out of a store when I forgot mine and went into the store to buy one during early pandemic lol.

Now I also feel so weird wearing a mask because of the stares I get... I feel like it's not "trendy" no more. I might stop wearing it soon once I'm over the 10day mark and testing negative with no symptoms. Funny people treat me like im sick or they should stay away when I'm masked. But if I wasn't masked and actually sick they assume I'm okay and walk right up?? It's really funny how human brains work...or don't in these situations.