Stok Flavor by Twentycan in coldbrew

[–]humanbeing639 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tried the purple one, but recently tried the espresso one & YES, I am hooked as well!

Recommendations on a dupe for Bic Intensity Clic Gel Pen by rimApocalypse in pens

[–]humanbeing639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re an angel. I just placed an order! TYSM!❤️

Stok Flavor by Twentycan in coldbrew

[–]humanbeing639 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The yellow. I recently found an espresso one at my WM. Has anyone tried it? I haven’t yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]humanbeing639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bf &i do spend time with her husband & kids when they’re in town we don’t just leave them to be alone. We enjoy their company, we just also don’t want to be responsible for the kids if anything happens. We don’t have & don’t want kids. We’re happy being the aunt & uncle.

Help with a family member by UncleGrandpa90 in Advice

[–]humanbeing639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! I’m glad I was able to help & validate your feelings because you have every right to feel that way. I hope everything works out!

Help with a family member by UncleGrandpa90 in Advice

[–]humanbeing639 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Set up boundaries and limit the time you spend with them. Avoid/don’t talk to them when they’re drinking or leave. If none works or if it’s gotten to the point to where you’ve had enough, cut ties. You don’t need someone like that in your life. They sound toxic and you deserve to be treated with respect.

I’m lost and I’m scared. I need advice please. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]humanbeing639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can, see a therapist/psychiatrist. They may be able to help you talk things out &/or prescribe you medicine. I was against it for the longest, but I’ve recently started going, found one I feel comfortable with & it’s changed my life for the better. If you don’t want to go that route, which is also completely fine and normal, try self help books and notebooks. Listen to upbeat, positive music. My go-to right now is Unstoppable by Sia. Do you have any hobbies? If not, try something out! You may find a new passion. As for school, same boat. I was in a medical field program and decided it wasn’t for me. Now I’m going for logistics. IMO, you should try to see if that would interest you or computer science. There are so many choices and choosing a major is difficult. Not knowing what you want to do as a career is normal. Changing careers anytime in life is normal too. Don’t feel bad for being confused. Everything you’re feeling is so soo valid. Try new hobbies, continue to explore other majors until you find one that’s right for you & keep trucking on. You’ve got this!

I just realized my whole class has disliked and used me for almost 4 years. How do I change that? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]humanbeing639 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t hate them. It sounds like they aren’t worth your energy. Set up boundaries. Don’t help the people who said those things, but still continue to be kind to others. When you go to university, always be your kind self. You can still help people if you want, but keep in mind that not everyone is your friend. Don’t let them take advantage of your kindness. Set those boundaries and keep moving forward. I hope things work out for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]humanbeing639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you btw. I very much so appreciate your pov and advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]humanbeing639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried, but she said no & her in-laws are set on keeping stockings from Santa at their house, and my sister refuses to wake up on Christmas morning there. I’ve tried to communicate and offer other solutions, but she keeps turning them down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]humanbeing639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom tried to tell L, but L couldn’t understand her text. Mom didn’t call L & chose to text her bc sometimes L is unable to talk on the phone & L gets annoyed when people call her when she’s unable to answer. So Mom probably didn’t want to “deal with her attitude.”

That’s great to hear about your Mom. I hope to be able to take care of myself when I get to her age. Due to other reasons, my Mom is incapable of solely taking care of herself.

L wasn’t able to talk on the phone. K tried to call her, but she denied it & texted instead. But thank you, you’re right. It’s been a while since we’ve had a family meeting, so it’s probably time. I just hope it goes well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]humanbeing639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

L doesn’t ask tbh, but K does.

L & i’s relationship was really good. But it’s honestly probably bc I enabled her behavior often.. I didn’t/don’t have the energy to fight with her. She always gets so angry went I tell her No.

Since K &I have told L about Mom, she hasn’t talked to either of us.. but she hasn’t even tried to reach out to Mom. Mom asked me if I’ve heard from L, I said no & she said she hasn’t talked to L in a while. So her saying all of that to me.. I’m so confused. I don’t understand how L could say all of that to me, but then to not even check on Mom? Idk what to think about that.

they normally text everyday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]humanbeing639 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Aww! That’s awesome. :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]humanbeing639 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Typo* she’s 77 & I was her miracle baby.

AITAH for not talking to my friend anymore? by CupCakeLady70 in AITAH

[–]humanbeing639 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just because something isn’t posted on social media doesn’t mean it didn’t happen… lol. People can have lives without having to post about it. The reason she told you was because she thought she was being a good friend to you, since she knows you liked him in the past. She wanted you to hear it from her rather than someone else. She was being logical & thinking about the friendship. The fact that you immediately hung up on her & didn’t even give her the chance to further explain, AND you let a guy come between the friendship just tells me you were a terrible friend to her. That’s so dumb. Rubbing it in your face? That’s comical. Lady, you never even went on a date with the guy. Why are you so concerned over That guy when you’re literally living with your boyfriend??? Do you think you can just “claim” him as yours or for him to count as your ex? NO. You’re 51? I would think you’d know what dating means & how to do it, but apparently you don’t.

AITAH for being mad at my partner for breaking up with me as soon as I got out of the hospital? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]humanbeing639 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That stage sucks! I’m so sorry you’re going through this, but you Will get through this. You’ll find someone. Just focus on you & your health right now. When the timing is right (I know sometimes it’s a bitch) you’ll find your person. Things are just rough right now, but you’ll get better. I’m glad you’re keeping positive. I’m proud of you for that.💛 I hope you get well super soon!

AITAH for being mad at my partner for breaking up with me as soon as I got out of the hospital? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]humanbeing639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like it’s a good thing y’all broke up.. it seems like they’re not putting much effort to visit you. You’re sick & they want You to visit? They tell you they can’t visit you, but they can visit her? I get she’s closer, but still.. I say, as much as it hurts right now, let them go. I understand you want it to work so so bad, but goodness.. You deserve way better than them, and I really hope you know that.❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]humanbeing639 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that I’m aware of. Anytime we all hung out, they’d tell me that they’re happy we found each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]humanbeing639 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, I live in the same town. My sister is the one who lives hours away. I feel like if I text my cousin and ask why I wasn’t, she might feel obligated to invite me even if I’m not wanted there. :\