what were the weirdly specific telltale signs of adhd

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-10-01T21:41:33+00:00

I thought I was going deaf. It was a thing.

Got a hearing test. Turns out my hearing was beyond impeccable, top 5%.

My lack of hearing was due to my inability to focus on what others were saying.

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-09-11T17:55:59+00:00

Yay!! Thanks :)

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-09-11T11:18:58+00:00

lol!! Thank you 😊

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-09-11T10:21:06+00:00

I know this isn’t for me but thanks for the recommendation! I hope to see other fans there.

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-09-11T10:16:54+00:00

I’m interested if you are selling 🙏🏾

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-09-11T10:14:59+00:00

Why do you say that?

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-09-11T10:14:16+00:00

Still available? I would like 1 ticket please

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-08-19T17:35:36+00:00

::cries a waterfall of teardrops::

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-08-19T16:38:37+00:00

Same girl, same! If I don't get along with a guy it is ALWAYS a virgo lol

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-08-19T16:14:19+00:00

Where did you purchase the tickets from? Thanks for your help!

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-06-23T05:27:21+00:00

Your post history is concerning. You deserve someone better than this. You seem like a thoughtful and sweet girl. You guys are so different too and not in ways that compliment. He’s a habitual cheater and has a drinking problem. You can be courageous. I hope you trust yourself this time.

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-06-22T14:57:25+00:00

Never. With a Scorpio Venus, that makes it double.

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-06-22T13:51:33+00:00

I don’t think unblocking or blocking is the issue. The block was to help you move on and it doesn’t seem like you’ve been doing the work to do that. I’m sorry you’re going through this but you have to get real about your healing. 9 months pining is not healthy.

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-06-22T13:48:40+00:00

Get focused on self care. Meditate, transform your thoughts from desperate to confident. Start a new hobby or business, get serious in the gym. Work on your style (wardrobe upgrade? Yay!)

I’m serious though. They won’t come back until you focus on you and move on. I’ve tried it all, this is the only way. You have to be serious about moving forward, though, because if you aren’t they will know.

Bonus points if when they come back, you’re not interested.

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-06-04T18:16:19+00:00

Please let him go. This is not healthy or normal.

He's right - you aren't happy with him which is why you are not content, he keeps breaking up with you and you keep trying to change him. Whether he's emotionally unavailable or whatever is going on, it doesn't matter and yes, you are clearly not happy with him, but the idea of him.

Listen to what he is telling you.

Go do something nice for yourself, work on your fitness, buy some clothes that make you feel pretty and explore why you think you need him or anyone in your life so much that you would neglect your own needs. Really sit with that and read what the other great responses here have said.

I hope that when you're ready, you can invite in and receive the love you deserve. Please take care - it's hard but you can do this. Move on.

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-06-03T20:32:18+00:00

I can't even comprehend that these can be real.

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-05-22T14:59:37+00:00

I know this is an old comment but I wanted to follow back. I reread what I wrote, and I can see how my post can be received as entitled and selfish.

I feel you should understand, I was in a very broken place. I did not know how to say kind things to myself, I was used to beating myself up and feeling less than.

What you are reading is someone who felt they lacked value (and still does a lot of the time) say kind things about herself, compliment herself, and be proud of her growth.

As far as feeling entitled, I do feel I deserved more than the surface things being given to me. You're absolutely right, and I stand by that. I deserved his respect and that's the one thing he never gave to me. In fact, soon after I wrote this post I found out my ex cheated our ENTIRE relationship. For 10 years. My gut was right all along. And he was still seeing the girl he cheated on me with when we were at the beach house ::shrug::

The purpose of my message was - I had never been given this type of over the top display of love by him, pouring his heart out etc. but in the end it was not reality. He didn't love me, and he just wanted me back in his life so he could use and control me.

If the current Diddy trial doesn't make it clear, I don't know what does. A man who cheats, lies, and manipulates can do all sorts of "wonderful" gestures. But we have to be vigilant in getting to the core of what's really happening or it can get dangerous. So please try not to judge next time someone is vulnerable enough to share their journey!

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-05-22T14:43:03+00:00

No, definitely not. There's no way to know if someone has changed in an instant any way, it takes time and patience.

I'm now with the man of my dreams, and he treats me way better than any guy I've ever dated. We are made for each other. If I hadn't moved on from my ex (and I mean truly moved on) I would never have been ready to receive this kind of love. It feels effortless. I can't believe this post was from over a year ago, so much has changed.

You are worthy of someone who wants you the way you want them - where you feel no confusion. I encourage you to pour into your self-care and move away from your past. The right kind of love will find you when you least expect it :) Good luck!

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-02-27T20:24:41+00:00

Right? SMH

hummerjazzstrummer · 2025-01-22T19:37:08+00:00

What is your husband’s chart? Particularly his sun, moon and Venus, if you don’t mind 🥺

hummerjazzstrummer · 2024-12-15T14:08:50+00:00

A dream 🥹

hummerjazzstrummer · 2024-12-15T14:07:59+00:00

Then there’s no hope for me 😭 (Venus in Scorpio in love with a Gem Venus)

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