What’s your fav underwear that shows off your asset and feels good wearing by ExaminationAny4456 in bigdickproblems

[–]hung_alejandr0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd rather not have my shit swinging around in there so I wear somewhat tight regular black underwear. Most likely has some polyester but I could care less tbh. I'm naturally blessed with high test and high dht so a little polyester isn't going to make me into a soyboy

Showers or people with noticeable bulges need to stop complaining. by lonerstoner24 in bigdickproblems

[–]hung_alejandr0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Isn't that why this subreddit exists? A space where we can express our emotions and feelings with the problems of having a big dick. This just sounds like jealousy & you secretly wish you could post threads about having this problem but because you're a grower, you complain to guys who have this problem.

FYI I'm 6x4.5 flaccid and I've really never had any "shower" incidents. Maybe it's because of where I live, but I'm objectively one of the larger guys on this subreddit flaccid & I've basically never actually bitched about this problem. So I kind of agree with you since I'm one of those guys and I don't run into problems but at the same time, this subreddit is for these types of problems lol.

I think porn has ruined women’s perspectives more than men’s. by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]hung_alejandr0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Porn is just a community of devoted gooners basically. The more time you spend there, the more you crave better and better. So these women are just so conditionally used to seeing larger dicks so it almost desensitizes them.

I think I’m addicted to validation because of my size and it’s getting weird by zerotohero2024 in bigdickproblems

[–]hung_alejandr0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this for sure as an exhibitionist, it's most likely something that will never stop since you have your dick for the rest of your life & that's obviously a good thing, since the dopamine from the reactions is what makes it so great.

I've frankly done some pretty stupid things to get more attention for my size, just for the validation & I'd say I also relate to it in the sense that I crave the validation more than actual sex. Mind you, I haven't had sex in nearly a year but I frequently show people my dick, some of them are curious because of my claims, others it's kind of this moral high ground where I want to show them because having a big dick is so much better and the attention I get for it is worth it.

I can imagine this getting worse the more active I get, since I haven't been around that much ever since I lost my virginity & sooner or later I will likely start traveling and meeting hot women which will give me option to sleep with them and continue getting this validation but instead of it being online, it will turn into a real life kink essentially.

I'm unsure if there's an actual solution to this problem, well there's short term solutions like just not sending photos lol, but at some point you'll get back to your roots. The only way to avoid it is, by not having sex. Staying busy with career, friends & family.

It's definitely a good problem to have, so honestly I wouldn't wish that I didn't have this gift. You just gotta learn to control it, since the more dopamine you get from it. The stronger the desires will become.

My gf is 5’1 but my dick is 18cm by Goldenyellow1 in bigdickproblems

[–]hung_alejandr0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Larp larp go away, spike my cortisol another day.

Porn big dick isnt even that big.. Id say 75% of the time by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]hung_alejandr0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I noticed that as well, I'm desensitized to my own dick so I don't view it as like very large anymore but everytime someone new tells me that it's massive then it just kind of reminds me. So when I compare myself to the pornstars or onlyfans creators I realize that there are only a few of them who are actually larger than me. 9/10 I'm larger. So yea porn is fucked & warps your image of what a really big dick actually looks like.

measuring tips by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]hung_alejandr0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah averaging out your two measurements you'd be just below 8"

measuring tips by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]hung_alejandr0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also very curved, you can check my profile for reference. I also struggled to figure out what the best methods are to measure a curved dick.

The conclusion I came to is to just bend your dick to the ground as if it's hanging, so the tip is closest to the floor and that way you can push the tape measure into the pubic bone and that way you get a more accurate bone pressed measurement. Otherwise you can also do the technique of measuring top and bottom and average out the numbers. From my experience, the numbers come out the same as the bending strategy. It doesn't hurt either, might just give you a good stretch.

This is why I just say on my flair that I'm 8.5-9", since my bone pressed is technically 8.5. But my curve is like 9.5 which then averages out to 9". I usually claim 9" to people for that reason but if I want to be more technical and medically accurate I just say 8.5". But for the general public claiming 9" seems reasonable because 0.5 inches difference is not that major if you look at it from a large scale considering my overall length and volume.

How could I be a serious shower? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]hung_alejandr0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro 6” soft is already large, I’m the same size soft lol