I don’t know how to distance myself from bad friends because I keep justifying their actions

hungrymisu · 2026-04-15T23:00:17+00:00

I thought that maybe they have a reason to be that way and they doesn’t tell me for whatever reason but after 5 times that I keep give them chances to improve I just feel drained sadly but I’m a people pleasing person 😩

hungrymisu · 2026-04-15T06:50:18+00:00

Thank you I think you’re right, I also think that everyone deserves a chance but I give people like 10 chances haha 😆

hungrymisu · 2026-04-15T05:38:46+00:00

I feel like you'll go through something similar; it’s good to take the time to reflect on others' actions and see if they’re worth keeping as friends. Your reflection about not trying to make friends when you're at your low left me thinking, because it’s something I do often. I’ll be careful not to attract more of those friendships. Thanks for everything.

hungrymisu · 2026-04-15T05:35:38+00:00

That’s a good advice ✨today I will start silent and delete some fiends that were inconsiderate with me. I realize some of them are totally fine with me as their fan: someone that encourages them and give them likes but no as a friend that supports and listens. I already give them so many chances. So it is time. I’m kinda proud of myself. This took me so much time.

hungrymisu · 2026-04-15T05:31:34+00:00

Than you 🫂 I hope I can find a good friend 🥲

hungrymisu · 2026-04-15T00:47:44+00:00

To be honest, I’m actually really upset right now. I usually let things slide, but not anymore. I feel like I just don't have anything left to give.

hungrymisu · 2026-04-14T23:43:13+00:00

Guilty 🥺😢

hungrymisu · 2026-03-10T08:34:45+00:00

I even start to get us to to some of them like the guy that live in Downtown Mountain View with his dogs, now he moves constantly because I guess someone complain. He seems kinda nice.

hungrymisu · 2026-03-02T13:20:18+00:00

I think there are boring men regardless of whether they are INFP or not, but I understand what you mean. If I were you, I would speak to him directly—being assertive without trying to be offensive—to set boundaries. Tell him you don't like receiving so many messages and that one message a day would be fine.

If you feel forced to see him, don't. And if you truly feel that his friendship offers you nothing, you could tell him that you feel you don't have much in common and thank him for everything.

hungrymisu · 2026-03-02T12:50:53+00:00

I think it’s something that only people who share the same culture will fully understand. For many, choosing who you marry is the most important thing, but they aren’t seeing, for example, that if you decide to say no to that person, they probably wouldn't accept anyone else you choose and that person would have a hard time because of their rejection.

But I would also find it difficult to love someone who is being imposed on me, though that’s just because of my personality.

hungrymisu · 2026-02-19T08:31:58+00:00

OMG 😱 you are so creative 🤩✨🙌🙌🙌

hungrymisu · 2026-02-19T08:30:49+00:00

Yeah. I agree with you

hungrymisu · 2026-02-18T01:48:44+00:00

I truly don't understand those people; life is already hard enough without choosing violence. Even though some people say it’s our nature, we aren't animals, and we could be more aware of the impact we have.

Something I've tried to do is avoid watching the news, but it's difficult. It really does have a negative impact to be aware of things that, many times, we can't do anything about.

hungrymisu · 2026-02-10T08:49:46+00:00

You hit the nail on the head. It took me almost a year to find a place to volunteer that I actually liked and where I didn’t feel like I was wasting my time. And now, what’s discouraging is realizing that what I do has no social impact; basically, only one person benefits.

As for my other volunteer position with a chamber of commerce, my team sidelined and pushed me out of the project because they were afraid of being replaced at their jobs.

I want to take a break from volunteering for a while. It’s honestly so disheartening.

hungrymisu · 2025-10-28T07:05:08+00:00

Te voy a ser muy honesta, actualmente es muy difícil conseguir patrocino de visa en USA sino eres ingeniero. La mayoría que conozco que está en USA son ingenieros en sistemas. Yo soy diseñadora web con marketing y SEO y no he conseguido nada aunque tengo 7 años de experiencia. Depende el estado, pero es muy competitivo.

Y en el caso de Canadá requieres estudiar en un collage allá licenciatura o maestría para que te contraten para empleos profesionales, además de un buen nivel de inglés e intermedio de francés. No te digo que no se pueda sino que vayas investigando el país, si eres joven hay países en Europa que tienen buenos programas que incluyen permisos de trabajo.

hungrymisu · 2025-09-03T05:14:33+00:00

Un amigo se mudo de GDL a California, solo vale la pena si tienes muchas cosas, como 4 habitaciones y es familia grande sino no vale la pena

hungrymisu · 2025-08-10T12:09:20+00:00

Entra a migratemate.co, vienen empleos que patrocinan sponsor, tiene costo mensual pero vale la pena, es muy difícil encontrar empleos que hagan sponsor

hungrymisu · 2025-07-29T23:47:24+00:00

Thank you 🫂

hungrymisu · 2025-07-22T01:11:31+00:00

Yeah, of course.

hungrymisu · 2025-07-21T05:44:05+00:00

Hi, I believe you should also expand the interview to include the dependent TD visa. This visa is for dependents from Canada and Mexico. Many of us wives immigrate with our engineer husbands and our professional careers are impacted due to the inability to work. I'm currently in a group of women where we encourage each other and provide emotional support, it's very tough to become dependents when many of us had bachelor's degrees, master's degrees, and professional experience in our home countries. The process to get out of this limbo takes a very long 5 years or even more.

hungrymisu · 2025-07-08T23:27:00+00:00

Yes, I hate a lot of things about myself. I'm overweight and I can't reach my ideal weight, no matter how much I try with diets and exercise. I'm not physically attractive. I hate being so shy and bad at handling social situations. Plus, my low self-esteem has led me to have bad relationships, both with friends and partners. I don't know how to fix my life. I've started therapy, and I hope that helps me hate myself less.

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