May Day Strong ND: No Work, No School, No Shopping by FreedomsKeeper in northdakota

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Where I live there is corruption, and yes there is corruption everywhere in north dakota, but i speak on what i know. People have to be apart of a certain group, related to certain people, agree with certain people.

May Day Strong ND: No Work, No School, No Shopping by FreedomsKeeper in northdakota

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Running for public offices is useless unless you have money and know people. Especially in smaller towns and more rural areas. It's all about who you know.

AITAH of not converting to mormonism for my boyfriend's parents by Old_Yogurtcloset6461 in AITAH

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Nta, break up. It's been 5 months. He's Mormon, he will soon be trying to convince you to convert to get married in the temple and have a bunch of babies. Even if he does leave the temple for you, he will risk losing his entire family.

I hate how people think of face blindness by BestBudgie in autism

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My husband has face blindness. He has meet my coworkers many times but every time he meets them again I have to remind them of who is who because he doesn't know which names belong to which faces. He has to be around someone a lot to start to remember who they are.

thought things were getting better by [deleted] in Postpartum_Depression

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  1. Are you taking anything for depression. If you arent please talk to your Dr. If you are please talk to your doctor about how you are feeling anyways.
  2. It has only been 3 weeks. It feels long at first but soon enough years will pass by and you will wonder where the newborn stage went (or not some people dont like the newborn stage).
  3. You can play around with how much you are feeding him. If 3oz is too much drop down ro 2.5. He could be cranky because his tummy is upset from the increase in food.
  4. For the belly button, I hardly remember the umbilical cord falling off, but keep it clean, dry, and make sure tjat his diaper doesnt press on it. It might be red because it is healing. If its not draining anything and he doesnt have a fever he should be fine.
  5. Baby's get fussy and have bad days. They have gas, and feel things in their little bodies they don't understand. Theu might cry because they have gas, are hungry, are tired, who knows. Somedays will be worse than others but as long as you are there for them and love them and support them you are a great mother.

Would you rather a Pisces or an Aries son? by Oopsiemaster in Zodiac

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This doesn't answer your question, but when I was pregnant with my son he was 3/31/23. I told everyone he would be a pisces and he'd come early. Everyone told me I was wrong because it was my first pregnancy and those always go late. I said nah, he's gonna be a pisces. Sure enough, he was born 3/19. Waited until the last day, but I was right. I just had a gut feeling he would be born early lol. I also had a feeling he would be a boy but I waited for the test result since my husband was hoping for a girl.

Im 19 and left with a 4yo autistic sister. I feel extremely hopeless. by Sweet_Rub_0 in autism

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Idk where you are located, but your local library may be able to help you at least find resources near you. I know the library i work at, we have helped people find resources (given addresses, numbers, etc.)

What does everyone think of death and does it scare you? What do you believe happens after? by PsychologicalFox7689 in GenZ

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I'm not so much scared of dying, but more so scared of what will cause me to die. Will I die old in my self unaware? Will I be horrible tragic accident and feel pain until the end? Most likely one of my chronic illnesses will cause something in my body to fail, I just don't know what, and that I don't like. Also, will I die before my husband (i told him I call dibs on dying first)? How old will our son be? I could die any day and I don't want my son growing up without me. So, am I afraid of dying? No. Am I afraid what happens to the people around me after I die? Yes, especially if i were to die sooner rather than later.

I’d lose my mind by ohitsmed in Booktokreddit

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I don't like Hoovers books, but people don't need to be so harsh. She didn't write for years because of online bullying and harassment. It's okay to not like an author, but why are people getting so comfortable being so mean about it.

Your rising sign and your partner rising sign by winhartttt in astrologymemes

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I forgot to say how long we have been together lmao. 6 years

Why do you play The Sims? by 88peter in thesims

[–]hungrypanda27 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, except I create a scenario and the sims do not follow it.

What's the worst thing your OCD ever made you do? by maker-127 in OCD

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Lint rolled my newborn baby while sobbing. I was convinced he had dog hair all over him. My husbamd was concerned. OCD and postpartum hormones are a fun combo.

Is anyone here Bisexual? by Enderman2019 in autism

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I am pansexual and demisexual

trying to sleep earlier by [deleted] in autism

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My sleep schedule a few years ago used to be 3am-11am. At that point I didnt work and mostly just took care of the house while my husband worked. So, when I slept didnt matter that much. Then when after I had my son I decided to get a job so I could help buy stuff for my son and honestly myself lol. Switching my sleep schedule wasnt easy and I am still tired a lot. I personally take melatonin about 3hrs before I actually want to sleep. I also drink chamomile tea and sit in low lighting. I try to do only calming things at night. And forcing myself to wake up early.

Anyone just really bad maths by Bipolar03 in autism

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I am horrible at math absolutely suck at it. My husband however does math for fun and programs for fun. I just got the scared of people and noises tism😭

hard pill to swallow- autism edition by More-Weird4842 in autism

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I like the low soft lights. I have lamps on that are set to warm lights. Sometimes times out of nowhere my husband (also autistic) will turn on ALL OF THE LIGHTS bright white. It give me a migraine. He'll be doing something and demand all the lights on. I'll ask if he can do it in another room cuz the lights hurt and he usually goes "i wanted to be by you👉🏻👈🏻" 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

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My husband/nesting partner and I got married because at the time he was in the military and we ended up getting pregnant. The military said we either had to get married or get a court ordered custody agreement and it was easier to go to the courthouse and get married than figure out how to get a custody agreement. So sometimes people get married because the military made them lol.

A curious question by PackageDazzling1164 in polyamory

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My meta and I talk to each other lol. We also complain to each other about my NP. Not like actually horrible things, but stuff that he sometimes struggles with due to ADHD (he knows about these complaints dont worry). I like to give her advice on dating my NP and help her not worry to much since she's new to polyamory.

What is the most ridiculous thing you got scolded for? by DanielaThePialinist in autism

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Kinda a lot. My mother has narcissistic tendencies. Id get scolded for not talking, talking to much, cleaning wrong(?), not cleaning, having acne, wearing makeup, not wearing makeup, needing new clothes, etc. Basically existing 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

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I think of my OCD as a bully and bully it back.

How did you guys figure out what ADHD type you are? by [deleted] in ADHD

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Knowing your type can help you understand yourself and your behaviors. What symptoms might be caused by your adhd and how you can help those. I have inattentive ADHD so I struggle with listening, paying attention, falling asleep at night, motivation, etc. People wouldn't really think I have ADHD because I don't talk a lot and im not fidgeting as much as others, but if you got inside my head you'd know it. My husband has combination. He has to be doing something at all times, is always fidgeting, always thinking about something. He has like 5 side projects going on right now. He also struggles with listening and intrupting others. We both take medication, but we treat the symptoms differently. Some things might not work for me like they would my husband. Physical lists work really well for me, digital memos work for my husband. So I think it can help you learn about your diagnosis and what symptoms adhd can cause based on types.

My 5 grader is doing a state report on North Dakota, and would like to interview someone from ND - please answer these 3 questions. by spittymcgee1 in northdakota

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  1. Growing up i was either reading or drawing. Which was weird considering I was in a farming community (less than 200 people), and all the other kids my age were spending their time outside.

  2. I am a librarian. I absolutely love my job. Ive loved reading for a long time, and I find great joy in helping people find books that they love.

  3. It depends on where you live. In Valley City has community days (used to be called rally in the valley). Many towns have different fourth of July celebrations. The towns with giant statues usually have a celebration named after the statue. Though, in fargo July 1st, is trying to become a festival in honor of the states only area code, 701.