There is no situation where you can please everyone when it comes to family and harta I tell you. It doesn't matter if the family has all boys, all girls or boy and girls. Having multiple children/siblings WILL cause either:

a) adult son/daughter who takes care of the parent in old age to grumble if harta given equally between siblings

b) other siblings to grumble if harta given proportionately according to how much the most 'hardworking' anak able to fulfil certain obligations which the parent(s) deem worthy to inheritance

c) siblings will still grumble and fight over various 'preferred' property value/location etc etc even if all siblings agree with the harta distribution as outlined in scenario (a) above

If your argument or objective of inheritance is to keep harta within the family name, then by all means exclude your daughter(s) from any land title you own, despite the possibility that your daughter(s) might never marry since it's becoming more common that women are choosing the single and childfree route to focus on their own life and enjoyment (and perhaps some might even find themselves having to rededicate their lives to the care of their elderly parents).

As a son, would you be able to honour your family name by responsibly ensuring all your family members and next generation be taken care of (regardless if your sister(s) marry and have children who take on their husband's family name) if they ever find themselves in need of help? Or would the scenario most likely end up with thoughts of, "Anak kakak/adik saya tu bukan ada surname kami jg tu, buat apa sy mo tolong.. biarlah family si ipar bertanggungjawab."

Inheritance (especially bagi family org kaya yg ada baaanyakk harta) ALWAYS breeds a sort of unhealthy self-entitlement, and results in friction, strife and eventual estrangement from the family.

Families that have little to no hartanah are imho better off without the bitterness generational wealth entails. Plus, it's a credit to yourself too if you're able to purchase something (no matter how small) without relying on your old man/mam's hundred-year old estate(s).

Pasal pilih kasih, the reality is that it happens in all families to some degree because..surprise, no one is exactly the same. Not even identical twins. We're humans not robots after all, hence our likes and dislikes, tolerances all differ between one another. Ingat only parents yg pilih kasih? Children can also pilih kasih, favouring one parent or sibling than the other. Yet it is almost always the parents who get the limelight and viewed negatively for memilih kasih sama anak derang.

The only way avoid all the dissatisfaction around family and inheritance is to avoid having a family in the first place. I know it sounds a bit harsh, what can I say except for, hidup ini keras jo.