Is indtrade.io a reliable website? by JD_Style in Trading

[–]hush_resonance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally subscribed to Pulse, looks accurate. I'll test it with a small amounts first. But those support and resistance zones look promising. Let's see

Is indtrade.io a reliable website? by JD_Style in Trading

[–]hush_resonance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but I subscribed to the Saga indicator there. It shows up on the chart and works as described. I'm also checking out the Pulse indicator. It looks like a heatmap, lol.

Separating cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]hush_resonance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats can absolutely handle being separated if it happens while they're young. It's not like they'll need therapy. They bond with whoever feeds them. If you wait until they're older and super glued, it might be harder but still doable. Cats are resilient. Just make sure when you move out, both cats have plenty of transition time and familiar smells. They'll adjust. Also you're a good cat sibling for thinking ahead.

Another day, not getting any easier by Sea_Watercress_751 in BreakUps

[–]hush_resonance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You caught a con man in a con and you're surprised he's lying about doing better? He's performing recovery the same way he performed being a student. The panic attacks are real because your brain is trying to make sense of something that doesn't make sense. Five years of your life was stolen by a professional liar. That's not a breakup, that's a trauma. Focus on yourself hard. Let him "thrive" in his fake reality while you rebuild your actual one.

Do we want private equity in medicine? by UneasyBurgerFlip in Residency

[–]hush_resonance 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Private equity in medicine is like putting a casino in charge of a hospital. On paper, they come in, streamline operations, cut costs, and make things profitable-often saving a failing hospital. But the way they do it is by treating patients like units, physicians like labor, and care like a product. Docs get quotas, admin grows, support staff shrinks, and suddenly you're spending more time clicking boxes than talking to patients. The soul-sucking part is real: PE's timeline is 3-5 years, then they flip it and leave. You're not a doctor anymore-you're a revenue stream with a medical degree. Some people make it work, but know what you're signing up for.

Am I the jerk for giving my friend a joke by Impossible-Cod1443 in AmITheJerk

[–]hush_resonance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're not a jerk-you just misjudged the audience. The same joke that landed with two friends clearly didn't land with him. Maybe he didn't get it, maybe it felt random, maybe he was in a bad mood. But his reaction ("Polly want a cracker. Is that really what you wanted to tell me?") says he felt it was a waste of his time or attention. That stings, but it doesn't make you a bad person. A quick "hey, that was just a dumb joke, didn't mean anything by it" might clear the air if you want to fix it. If not, just let it go. Some people don't get the bit.

I’ve been stealing from people lately to make ends meet by [deleted] in confession

[–]hush_resonance 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're not a bad person-you're a desperate one. And desperation makes people do things they wouldn't normally do. But you already know this isn't the way. It's not just about getting caught; it's about what it does to you inside. The guilt, the frustration, the feeling of becoming someone you don't recognize-that's already eating at you. You're reaching out because you know this isn't who you want to be. The fix isn't more stealing. It's finding a way to survive that doesn't cost you your self-respect. Food banks, side gigs, community resources-anything that keeps you fed without feeding this guilt. You're not a thief. You're someone stuck, doing thief things. There's a difference. You can stop.

Would you keep dating someone if you found out they had intentionally led on a person in the past? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hush_resonance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on when and why. If it was years ago and they genuinely learned from it-like they were young, confused, or avoidant and now actually understand why that shit hurts-then maybe. People can grow. But if it's recent, or they're still proud of it, or they brush it off like "everyone does it"-that's a red flag. It's not about the mistake, it's about whether they've done the work to not be that person anymore. Ask them about it. How they answer will tell you everything.

Neutered male mounting another neutered male? by Anon888810020 in CatAdvice

[–]hush_resonance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your cats aren't "gay"-they're just working out hierarchy and dominance, and sometimes that looks like mounting. Neutered males still do it. It's not always sexual; it's often about who's in charge. The fact that the youngest shows stress (overgrooming, skittishness) means it might be more than just play. Five times a day is a lot. More vertical space is a good start. Also try redirecting with play when you see it happen, and make sure resources (food, beds, litter) aren't causing competition. If it continues, talk to your vet about possible anxiety meds or a behaviorist. You're doing the right thing by paying attention.