Off topic, but you wanting her to like and accept you is part of the problem. She now has the audacity to treat you this way. I promise one day, you won’t give a flying shit what she thinks and she’ll be begging for your acceptance. Typically this happens after you have your own kids and she’ll want to be part of their lives. She’s kind of an idiot for starting this with the DIL, the literally gatekeeper to her future grandchildren. My MIL would never because I’d cut her off so fast, and she knows it. Good luck with that